Dating younger or older women?

[Bud_Fox]

What are your thoughts on this?

Do you guys go by the "half your age plus 7" thing?

How about dating older women? Does that put the man at a disadvantage? Most women I know seem to want a guy their age or older.

 

[Jeffst1980]

There's no rule set in stone, but in general, you are probably going to want to go a few years younger. The main reason being that guys are often a few years behind girls developmentally, and if you're in your late twenties and relatively well adjusted, you will literally CLEAN UP with girls in their early twenties that are used to dealing with guys with little or no experience with women.

Dating older women can be fun, but isn't really feasible when you consider the long term, if the age gap is more than a couple of years. Women in their late twenties/ early thirties will often instinctively avoid guys that aren't serious candidates for marriage- and younger guys and players are at the top of the list. Single women over the age of 35 or so will be more amenable to age gaps, but are a bad choice if you want biological children sometime in the not-so-near future, for obvious reasons.

For dating purposes, I would treat age as a non-issue. You are not obligated to marry any of these girls, so pursue the girls YOU find attractive right now.

 

[Burroughs]

Bud Fox cool handle!

get me a 1000 shares of Endicott!

 

[fibonacci]

There's no rule set in stone, but in general, you are probably going to want to go a few years younger. The main reason being that guys are often a few years behind girls developmentally, and if you're in your late twenties and relatively well adjusted, you will literally CLEAN UP with girls in their early twenties that are used to dealing with guys with little or no experience with women.

Dating older women can be fun, but isn't really feasible when you consider the long term, if the age gap is more than a couple of years. Women in their late twenties/ early thirties will often instinctively avoid guys that aren't serious candidates for marriage- and younger guys and players are at the top of the list. Single women over the age of 35 or so will be more amenable to age gaps, but are a bad choice if you want biological children sometime in the not-so-near future, for obvious reasons.

For dating purposes, I would treat age as a non-issue. You are not obligated to marry any of these girls, so pursue the girls YOU find attractive right now.

Interesting words....

Met this girl a few weeks back - Im 23 she's about four years my elder. We spoke for a bit, small talk here and there - a bit of flirting. Once she asked my age things became awkward on both ends but on my end it was as if I'd have to jump through hoops to show that I'm not like the typical 23 year old. Although I'm quite the opposite, well-cultured and enough savings to rival a 50 year old.... Needless to say I severed those ties real fast. Never will I jump through hoops for anyone to prove anything about myself - Far too many women on the planet for that junk.

So in general I prefer them older or same age for a serious relationship but not too old that I should have to put myself on a limb to prove myself or dispel silly idiosyncrasies.

Nothing beats a young mama (20-24) for an exciting fling.

 

[Sophomakhos]

I would be inclined to say slightly younger, but experience suggests otherwise. I'm in my mid-twenties, and the best girlfriend I've ever had was a couple of years older than me. Until her, I'd only really dated younger girls (c. 20-23), and the difference was very clear. The older girl knew what to do - the younger girls did not. In terms of pure satisfaction, experience was clearly better than youth.

Having said that, it's all relative. Two, three or four years older is one thing; when we start getting to five years and above, then I'd call it quits. But if it's within bounds of reason, then I'd strongly encourage you to try an older girl. You might even learn something!

 

[PappyS]

My rule is to fvck with the most attractive women I can fvck. To me the most attractive women on average are late teens to early 20s. They're the ones who have the highest potential for procreation. This probably why my penis is naturally drawn to them- natural evolutionary selection. The women I was attracted to when I was 13 were around that age. When I'm elderly, if my penis still has any life in it at all, I'll still be attracted to that age range. So those are the ones I'll always want. Basically I'll go for the hottest ones I can get. Some guys may like older women. If they do then that is up to them.

 

[Z Man]

I like the "vibe" of younger women. They usually have a lot of energy and like to laugh. Though most are immature. Youngest I have dated (not including highschool) was 18.

The oldest I have dated was 5 years older. She was 38 at the time, a petite Korean girl. We met online: she initiated the convo, I called her and we set up a date.

During our visit to the duck pond, she starts rubbing my arms, LOL. We made out for a little while. It was getting late so I had to drive home cuz of work in the morning.

I followed up for a second date the next week but she never called me back. Whatever..

 

[Desdinova]

Here's my take on women's ages...

Age 22 or less: Usually in 'party mode'. Generally immature and flaky. However, they can be low-mileage which means less sexual experience and not jaded toward men.

Age 23-28: The sweet spot in a woman's age. Finished (or finishing) party mode, maturity coming through, and still good looking. They have a slight biological clock tick, but not too loud.

Age 29-40: If childless, they have a very LOUD biological clock ticking and are desperately searching for a husband and father for their children. Looks begin to go downhill. Maturity varies as the biological clock can fvck things up. Some are extremely jaded toward men at this point. May have lots of baggage.

Age 40+: Cougars and Senior Citizens. Too ugly and old for me to date, so don't ask!!!

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Youngest I've dated was 5 years younger than me. I was 28 she was 23. Oldest I've dated was 6 years older. I was 26 she was 32. I would probably pass on anything more than 10 years older than me. Most women let themselves go and expire after 35. Just look at the 35+ women on online dating sites to see what I mean.

 

[nismo-4]

Judge nismo had a seductive cougar yesterday into this morning in chambers! It was great exercise in itself, since I had to pound the pu$$y and stretch it wide!

I prefer older women over younger ones any day of the week. Cougars and milfs FTW. Less stress and much more affectionate!

F**k this age difference sh*t! If a woman addresses it, it's a rejection. If she doesn't, go for the lay! If a woman is a 40+ milf, tell her you're in your 40s! That's how I roll, and it works.

To each their own. I might have another meeting in chambers Friday!

Case closed. Happy Thanksgiving!

 

[Mike32ct]

F**k this age difference sh*t! If a woman addresses it, it's a rejection. If she doesn't, go for the lay! If a woman is a 40+ milf, tell her you're in your 40s! That's how I roll, and it works.

Very true Your Honor. Women will tell you how old they want you to be. If she asks your age, tell her to guess. Either accept her guess or adjust by one year to make it slightly more realistic. Then just go with it. The more attracted she is to you, the closer her "guess" will be to her age lol.

 

[pdx1138]

I recently dated a 40 yr old and now dating a 29 yr old.

I prefer the younger....but not too young. Dated a 20 yr old for a few months. I didn't enjoy it.

One good thing about older 35+ is that they are much much less likely to get pregnant if your protection fails or you foolishly raw dog.


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[metoo]

I"ve had several women older than I over the years. Some of them dig the hell out of your ability to do more without getting tired/quitting. Not just sex, but everything. Particularly true if they feel like they missed out on a lot of fun/romance in their younger years. It's fine for a while, but eventually, most men are going to want somebody younger, eventually, some one MUCH younger, in most cases. As in 30 years younger.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

I go for the "Be attractive and 18 or older" rule lol. I've dated girls who are 18, and girls who are 27. I'm 22 myself.

 

[J Roc]

I'm 30 and am just looking for fun flings at the moment. Most women that I meet age 27-35 are looking to get wined and dined into a relationship. Most of the women I mess with are childless women ages 21-24.