penkitten
Master Don Juan
oh wait, i totally got sidetracked off the real thread issue, because it really isn't about his silly 80 thousand dollar audi... its about his bitterness.
you can look at the messages and in a nutshell already tell that he has extreme bitterness issues already.
he has been on that site for 3 weeks emailing his little heart out to every chick he thinks he can have, and when no one responded, he got pissed and started taking it out on you and/or other chicks too. perhaps he sent them all the same message he sent to you.
it did make you respond, which is what he wanted, a response, some attention in his direction.
too bad that it did not get him the real kind of response he was hoping for.
perhaps it isn't fair that one person will email the crap out of 100 people and no one respond and each of those 100 people get 100 emails from other people they are not interested in.
well, that is too bad, and that is nobody's fault. welcome to the world of internet dating sites, huh?
it just goes to show, that you can not count on the internet to be the sure place to meet someone. yes, some people have done it, but it usually just doesn't happen exactly like that.
you did nothing wrong, sunnyd. in fact, you didn't even have to feel obligated to write back to him when you saw the first email.
perhaps you could make a 2nd profile, with altered information, and when someone writes you one of these sort of messages... log on to the 2nd profile and email them a link to this site.
all we can do is promote positive things to the people that need a lift.
personal growth, maturity and happiness is not something that all people strive for, sometimes they need a reality check. so, send them here, where they might get some help.
you can look at the messages and in a nutshell already tell that he has extreme bitterness issues already.
he has been on that site for 3 weeks emailing his little heart out to every chick he thinks he can have, and when no one responded, he got pissed and started taking it out on you and/or other chicks too. perhaps he sent them all the same message he sent to you.
it did make you respond, which is what he wanted, a response, some attention in his direction.
too bad that it did not get him the real kind of response he was hoping for.
perhaps it isn't fair that one person will email the crap out of 100 people and no one respond and each of those 100 people get 100 emails from other people they are not interested in.
well, that is too bad, and that is nobody's fault. welcome to the world of internet dating sites, huh?
it just goes to show, that you can not count on the internet to be the sure place to meet someone. yes, some people have done it, but it usually just doesn't happen exactly like that.
you did nothing wrong, sunnyd. in fact, you didn't even have to feel obligated to write back to him when you saw the first email.
perhaps you could make a 2nd profile, with altered information, and when someone writes you one of these sort of messages... log on to the 2nd profile and email them a link to this site.
all we can do is promote positive things to the people that need a lift.
personal growth, maturity and happiness is not something that all people strive for, sometimes they need a reality check. so, send them here, where they might get some help.