Dating High Class (rich) Women

[Natural Vibe]

I've been reading and practicing this game for a while now, so much that it kinda became a part of me and I reached what some people may call naturally attractive (well, most of the time, we're not perfect ).

Now to get to the point. One girl from my school indirectly approaches me (through a common friend) and says she wants to go to the prom with me. I eventually get her phone number and contacts through the same friend. I never really talked to her, the first time I remember meeting her was when I opened a 3 set to flirt with her friend (the target).

I was a bit surprised by the balls this girl has (metaphorically speaking ) so I decided to give her a call. She looked interesting, and all of those things said about wanting to go to prom and all got to my head, but I controlled it.

We talk and naturally vibe together, it all went really great (thank god for learning game). I get her email and add her on msn. By now, I was geniunly interested, even thought I could'nt really remember what she looked like exactly. She's an HB7 or so.

NOW TO THE POINT -

I find out by chatting with her that she lives in the richest neighborhood around here (where the multi-millionaires hang out). I was a bit surprised, and I told her a story of something crazy I did in there (standard game). Anyway we have a date in the following days and it's all going well... I didn't even have to approach or anything. She wanted to meet up (and I took the lead from there, location time etc). I'm surprised, I've heard PUA's say that at some point the girls just approach you, but only now have I witnessed it by myself.

So I'm just wondering, is there anything I should be careful with? This girl is filthy rich. Any special measures to be taken, or should I just treat is as a completely normal date (my intention).

I'm still keeping my high value frame. That's for sure, it won't be any other way around.

This is a nice girl, she has some esteem. I don't want to be a *****, but I won't forget my game. I won't let oneitis grab me by the collar again. This girl has already bombarded me with IOI's, and she doesn't look like the slutty/high maintenance type.

Any advice on dating high class women, fellow Don Juans?

PS. First post!

 

[kraytkiller]

It doesn't matter where she lives. Your letting her area of location and supposed wealth get to your head. You wouldn't be thinking this way if she had never told you she lived in the rich neighborhood, why would you treat it any different now that you know?

Your sort of putting her on a pedestal -- thinking you have to be something extra special to get her to like you just because she has parents who have more wealth than yours do.

 

[Captain]

Treat her exactly the same as any other woman. Money doesn't make her a different person, or attracted to different things. She's just like any other woman, attracted to the same things.

Just make yourself higher value than her, and you're set.

 

[Quiksilver]

I might be able to help you here...

I'm from the type of neighborhood you're talking about. Back in highschool, there were a few girls who were driven to school in their daddys lamborghini/maserati/ferarri, and in grade 12, most of the girls were driving BMWs/mercedes/etc. Most of them lived on multi-million dollar lakefront estates.

Sound familiar?

Anyways, from my experience, those girls expected me to be "proud" of myself, that I don't feel insecure about my financial situation. Also, don't make her feel ashamed of having wealthy parents, if you do you're cooked.

Also, most of the rich girls I hung out with were pretty loose(skanks). They all had that public face that made them look high class, then at parties and at night they were raging sex demons, looking for the next bad boy to sweep them off their feet.

One more thing... consider HER situation. Back in HS, I was one of the guys who lived in a huge mansion on a massive estate and had my own car and loaded parents, etc. I used to throw keggers and big parties(200+ people), and I had girls throw themselves on me simply because of Where I lived, the car I drove, the size of my....house , and how I dressed.

That might seem like a good thing, but it's not. Girls wanted to hook up with me because of the social status it gave them.

So consider her situation as the lil rich girl. Guys see her and are suddenly attracted to her BECAUSE she is rich and high class. You have to let her know that you aren't there because of her upbringing, but because you think SHE is cool. Don't talk about her house/car/money/etc. at all, treat it as if it doesn't matter.

Anyways I'm rambling, it might be hard to understand what I was talking about, but it's all in there.

Out of curiosity, what town/city does she live in?

 

[Quiksilver]

One more thing, just because she lives in a rich neighborhood doesn't mean she's rich herself.

Most people in Hollywood/Beverly Hills are dirt poor, but saying you live there = people think you're loaded.

 

[Analyzeit]

Personally, i find. Now as i say in many of my post this is obviously not always true, and don't take it straight away as true but most of the time if you look at a girls past you can tell.

These rich chicks, they like the bad boys. There used to there boring parents, who are yes good parents but raise boring GOOD boys and they just get bored of them. They want something different. Diversity.

So try be a little bad, she how it pulls off

hope i helped just a lil.

Btw really look at kraytkillers second paragraph it very true

 

[Bible_Belt]

Don't talk about her house/car/money/etc. at all, treat it as if it doesn't matter.

Agreed. Don't even joke about her being a stuck-up rich b!tch, or anything similar. Just act like you never notice.

 

[intrextrovert]

My tip: the hot tub is the greatest benefit ever when dating a rich girl.

Awesome, reason to hang out, something to do when together, easy intimacy

 

[Natural Vibe]

@Kraytkiller

Yeah you're right, I kinda did let that get to my head. I appreciate your insights guys.

@Quiksilver

Same town as me.

I can kinda see the status thing you were talking about; knowing she is rich made her a little more interesting in some way, kinda like a special adventure.

We had lunch at school today, but it was lame, didn't get to talk much because there was this school band playing, and we both had friends in the group.

I'll see what gets down this weekend. I'm planning for a casual picnic in the park.

@ Analyzeit

I feel what you're saying about bad boys there, I was telling her a story about something outlawfull and she got all excited. It's funny how girls will laught at this kind of thing and guys will scold me, calling me a moron. Aha, AFC friends .

Also, I'm wondering if I'm not being used. I just get that feeling that she's trying to charm me to go to prom. Anyway, that's impossible, it's too late for prom tickets.

Got invited to a big party by her. Her friends are nice with me. One of my friend dates her friend.

On a lighter note, I went to my college information meeting yesterday and met lots of nice girls there. College is an amazing woman-nest. Can't wait to finish high school.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Personally I would turn away from letting money be an SSI.
Don't treat her as high class, don't think of her as a rich girl. Treat her like you'd treat any other woman you're dating. She's not special, she's not different, she just has parents with money. In fact, I would try to stray from the subject of money. Don't let her buy everything for you either, show her that you have your own money and you can take care of buying things for yourself. Even if they appear to be "lesser" than what a rich person can afford, if there's something you want and plan to buy, don't let her influence something better upon you, unless she absolutely insists so. Also, try not to debate over the subject of money because, being rich, she'll have completely different views than you. One time I had a rich girl who was into me, and I would always talk about my middle-class family and how I liked my shyt the way it is.

This way, I think you'll end up treating her differently than probably every other guy treats her, cause they want money and see her status as valuable. If you take away money from your opinion on SSIs, she'll probably be attracted to that because being rich is all she knows. I'd show this girl how the average man has a good time.

 

[Natural Vibe]

That's exactly what I was looking for. Thanks.

 

[nismo-4]

With a name like Natural Vibe, are you from Arkansas by any chance?

But to answer your question, just treat her like any other woman, and don't let the fact that she's driving a top-end car mess with your head...that's got game over written all over it.

It's cheaper to keep her! (no pun intended)

If I were you, you'd better enjoy this ride as well and as long as you can. Not everybody is born with a silver spoon in their mouth. Some people think Maserati is a dish at Olive Garden!:crackup: And Words like Spyker and Bugatti don't get into a lot of people's vocabulary.

Overall, just don't get too carried away. the moment you do, interest will drop faster than Sonic The Hedgehog's popularity!

 

[Natural Vibe]

Nope, I live in Canada. Some guy in Akransas seems to have good taste, choosing such a nick name.

I used Natural because I'm very inspired by RSD (Real Social Dynamics) and what those guys teach. Huge fan of Alexander~.

This girl throws IOI's left and right. Things going well for now. I hope it won't rain tomorrow, or I'll have to come up with another date idea. Casual picnic in a rainy park somehow doesn't sounds very enjoyable.

But I could make it so .

 

[Natural Vibe]

Date done. Everything went golden. Magical. Fantastic. Naturally.

This thread can now be deleted, thanks for your input guys.

 

[Natural Vibe]

Bump.

Girlfriend-ed!

 

[intrextrovert]

good job man

 

[Natural Vibe]

I wish I could get oneitis. Danm, never thought I'd say that. We're together, she says she loves me and all of that, thought I don't share her feelings just yet so I avoid the subject.

"I love you"
"uuhhhhh... thanks..."

Not quite that lame, but close.

Anyway, I noticed that we do have different values when it comes to money and money-earned things. She absolutely wants to be rich in the future. She's gaga for high-end cars like BMW, Mercedes and Audi. She's picky about her appearance. She's also a shopping freak. Big time. No, wait. BIG TIME.

We don't see each other much, and not for long, but when we do, it's lots of fun. I only wish I could have some deeper feelings for this girl. I feel like I could walk away at any time and not feel a thing. That's good, I'm aware. But I would still like to have feelings for her. I want to have my cake and eat it too. Haha.

Maybe it'll come with time.

Also, being with this girl opened my eyes to a part of me I didn't really acknowledged. You see, during most of my high school years, I've had pretty moderate acne, complexes about my nose and low self confidence and that pretty much ruined my odds with women. The acne is gone now (thanks to kick-ass Accutane) and my nose turned out to be quite sexy coming from the right mindset .

And the girls are all gaga for me. Never thought good looks were that important. Okay, maybe not important, but it sure gets the girls chassing you. Actually, the reason I started learning game was because I thought I was bad looking. Talking about irony. I get IOI's all the time, and lots of compliments. My girlfriend's friend said she (my girlfriend) couldn't date me, because I was too hot for her.

Double U-Tee-Eff? Talking about internal reality switch.

I hope this **** won't get to my head. I've been working very hard these past weeks to try and get rid of my ego. I don't want to have a "I'm good looking ego".

Type "Alexander Treasure" on google and read his blogs if you want to understand more about the ego and how it affects pickup. That guy's material is solid gold. Reading it will give you a whole new understanding of what being a pickup artist is all about. Actually, forget the word pick up artist. You'll learn to become a natural.

-See ya next time, DJ's

 

[Georgiy]

rich girls are better than non rich girls.

my advice would be to have sex with her as soon as possible, then go from there.

 

[BudBundi]

My cousin refuses to date any women that aren't rich. He gets himself a girl that buys him all kinds of stuff, and then sells most of it when he breaks up with her. It's his side hustle.

 

[Natural Vibe]

The ride ended!

Time to find a faster train.