Dating for two weeks, should I buy her something for x-mas ?

Biggie

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Yes you should, but it doesn't have to be anything to meaningful. Just buy her something somewhat cheap that she wants but doesn't really need. It doesn't have to be expensive or well thought out really.
 

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If you don't want to, then don't. Always make moves from your deepest instinct. If your gut says its too soon but you feel "pressure" to do so, examine where that pressure is coming from. Is it because you feel that you owe her since you are dating/sexing her? Just because it's christmas? Dating is it's own reward...you don't have to pay to play.

If you feel you want to just from a core of selflessness, and because you just really want to, follow biggies advices. 2 weeks, you really don't even know her..you just like the idea of her so don't go overboard, something small.
 

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dont feel you 'have to' because its xmas, and if you do, something small without too much meaning behind it.
 

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is she buying you one?

Anyways, you've been dating for ONLY two weeks only so my advice is NO dont buy her one instead just give her a call or send a text message just saying,'merry christmas.'
 

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No, don't buy her a Christmas present. And typing x-mas saves 5 letters. Wow. Unless you're anti-God and don't want to spell Christ.
 

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Based on a gift I just got...

Buy her a chef hat and ask her to bake you a cake in return.
 

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Re:

We were talking for about 2 weeks until we finally went out in person, last night she came over for a fourth date and things went pretty well. Up until yesterday I would have said no, but Im gonna try to find her something small I guess. Im pretty sure she is getting me something, she hinted at it.
 

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Lol, it depends on your game.


If you decide to gift, please let it be something simple. Shouldn't cost much AT ALL. It's only been 2 weeks.
 

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how bout you just give her good memories. Take that money you were going to spend to buy her a gift and use it towards taking her out and showing her the time of her life.
 

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I'd probably just buy her a candy bar or something from a nearby vending machine... Practical AND thoughtful! The perfect gift :)
 
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