Dating and Sex?

[phoenix_rising]

Hi all,

If you had sex with a girl after a few dates, is the girl gonna think that you become her bf just because you had sex with her?

~pr

 

[romangod]

Hi all,

If you had sex with a girl after a few dates, is the girl gonna think that you become her bf just because you had sex with her?

~pr

Yes.


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[azanon]

Hi all,

If you had sex with a girl after a few dates, is the girl gonna think that you become her bf just because you had sex with her?

~pr

Its very possible, but ultimately its depends on the girl. Plenty of women too have a ONS mindset too (or, like to play the field with multiple men). Don't believe me, ask LMS.

 

[phoenix_rising]

I hear a lot of you talk about spinning plates. So the girl you had sex with think you become her bf. So then you go out and spin more plates and have sex with some other girl. Wouldn't that make you a cheater?

 

[STR8UP]

You gotta be careful of that "implied boyfriend" thing. If that isn't what you want you have to somehow make it known cause chicks will assume things and then before you know it you DO have a g/f.

 

[Charm]

You gotta be careful of that "implied boyfriend" thing. If that isn't what you want you have to somehow make it known cause chicks will assume things and then before you know it you DO have a g/f.

Good advice. After you have sex you might in the next few days want to communicate your expectations. Every situation is different and needs to be felt out.

 

[Maxtro]

I hear a lot of you talk about spinning plates. So the girl you had sex with think you become her bf. So then you go out and spin more plates and have sex with some other girl. Wouldn't that make you a cheater?

I don't think so. If you haven't had "the talk" your pretty much free to see other people. It might even be a good idea to give her a heads up early on and tell her that you are seeing other people. That way she can't accuse you of cheating.

 

[Charm]

Maxtro's above post is what I meant by communicating your expectations early on.

 

[MightyMate]

Hi all,

If you had sex with a girl after a few dates, is the girl gonna think that you become her bf just because you had sex with her?

~pr

Mostly yes girls are stupid, but some of them want just sex. So its all about how You calibrate it.