Dating a new girl

Avsguy01

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Went out on a date last night. Took her out to a movie. She wanted to see that Timeline movie. Now i went ahead and paid for the tickets since i figured i havent spend money on a female in quite some time. Thats only because i havent been on a date either worth paying for it, or it was just sex involved. Well she was quite the companion. She talk alot, we engaged in a bunch of kino, and kissed a few times throughout the date. Overall it was a fun date and i had a good time. Im pretty sure she did to. But heres the problem. She goes full time at the University of Delaware and she has no job. Her parents and grandparents give her money to survive. I would say she is quite spoiled since she told me this last night. So now im in a situation where i dont want to be spending money on this girl galore when i take her out. Im afraid she might be expecting it since she has no job and is given money. How do i handle this?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Consider a couple things;

- Is the only way the two of you can have a good time together is by going out someplace spending money?

- Are you looking to spend time with women that can provide monetary things?

- Has she DONE anything to make you feel she is monetarily high maintenance? Just saying you're spoiled doesn't count.
 

FitnessGuy

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Good points Francisco. Sounds like you have a good thing going on so far Avsguy01 I would not worry too much about it:).
 

Avsguy01

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Yeah you guys are right. Im just gonna go with the flow. Shes a cute little blondie :) Smart too
 
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