I dated a woman who made six figures, drove a jag, worked for fortune 500 companies and talked to CEOs on a regular basis. I met her at a house party I threw, I negged her, then told her she had a great ass, made with another chic in front of her later at a club and banged her that night. I had no clue she was so well off at first. We dated for a few months, I'd keep her Jag, pick up chics in it. She paid for everything even paying my bills during some hard times. She always suspected me of cheating on her because she said she never met a man like me and knew that other women wanted me.
I never treated her any different than any other girl. Most of my girlfriends give me money and I drive their cars if they have a better car than me. And if they get out of line I cut them off without a second glance. Most of them have never been treated that way because of their status.
I took her to dive bars and little out of the way local eating spots, I never tried to fit in her world, I brought her into mine. Her world meant absolutely nothing to me. If she told me she was going to NYC for the weekend, I'd tell her to bring me something back and then forget about her until she called me. I was prick by most standards, but the thing was when she was with me, I was in charge, I led, she put down her corporate ways at my door because she was in my house. And when she started going nuts (I really think she had some BDP tendencies) and doing things like checking my phone and grilling me about girls on FB and accusing me of cheating constantly, I dropped her and never looked back. She begged to comeback, then she lashed out and eventually she went away. I hear she still talks about me all the time.
What you have to offer is pure masculinity. Insecurity and imtimidation will only get you blown out. YOu have to draw her into your world where you rule. When that happens she can relax and become more feminine. That's probably what she's looking for. I know a few doctors and all they have to offer is the fact that they are doctors. THey come off as a bunch of pvssy beggers and whimps next to the average roofer or street thug. Masculinity is the coin you are offering, actually access to her femininity via your masculinity is what you are offering. One thing she always said was that I made her feel like a woman, because you see, I brought her into my world. I expected things of her. I set the bar for what was good behavior or not. And I didn't care if she stayed or left, we had fun together and nothing lasts forever. So it was what it was.
YOu aren't competing with those guys because you aren't those guys. You are something else. Give her what she really craves. It's game on and it's yours to win or lose. Relax, have fun. She's still a woman. If you have to....not that I'm all for this...but ask yourself how would George Clooney or Brad Pitt treat this woman? Would they be intimidated or slightly amused? Channel that sort of mentality. Because at the end of the day, what she makes doesn't pay your bills or control your life. And what she makes doesn't control you, and even if she was your wife, what she makes only helps to serve the team, and the team can only have one captain.
