dating a depressed girl- do they ever change

[joe45]

is depression a life long illness or is it just temporary. i know this girl and she takes fluctoname -prozac and she says she take it everyday for 2 years-she lies to me at times. im not sure how long. really but she takes that drug and also her mood changes too. she gets mad or sad pretty easily. at time i didnt text her for a day and told me she was sad since i didnt text her. or her pics didnt get through and she says shes mad in the text msg
but i know for sure she isnt working, she is 24 , hard time making decisions and changes her mind/or hard time making decisions and very negative and yes she has depression
im just wonderin if she will ever get better as im looking to settle and long term partner
will she ever get better and never had to take prozac-flutonaime , will mood be normal, is it curable????




another guy i met said he knew her 5 years ago when she was 20 and she was nuts. i guess she hasnt changed
also her mind changes a lot or hard time making decisions about what she really wants. its frustarting so we just do what i want. never met a girl that really really likes me and we didnt know each other that long either. she never had a serious bf and most guys used her just for sex --that what she told me. not sure if its real or just lies
yea i sometimes find it frustratinng hanging out with her. her choices are all mixed up . they want u to pick her up and later u do and she says shes not sure she wants to sit in my car . im already at ur place in my car. lol

 

[3countriesPlan]

These kinda h0s just bring you down. Their wavelength and all its contagious -- latches onto you like how it happens to psychologists counseling people with horrible, horrendous issues.

Tune that out, let the saveah0s listen to all that negative crap while you at the club putting your bid in with some college girl... only young once man

 

[JoeMarron]

These kinda h0s just bring you down. Their wavelength and all its contagious -- latches onto you like how it happens to psychologists counseling people with horrible, horrendous issues.

Tune that out, let the saveah0s listen to all that negative crap while you at the club putting your bid in with some college girl... only young once man

Exactly. Being with crazy, low self esteem, mentally unstable chicks is a waste of time. Never be a woman's psychologist.

 

[SgtSplacker]

It's hard to change, I mean meds help in some cases for that night and day changing effect. But people just get used to thinking a certain way and it's hard to change that. If this girl is not even aware of her problem or in denial of a depression issue I would turn around and run as fast as you can, or just tell her you're gay or something, lol.

 

[pdx1138]

One of my sister's hot friends is like that. NOTHING will change the way she is.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Meds will treat the symptoms, but therapy treats the cause. If she's not in therapy and trying to get better, then she probably won't.

 

[Swampcamel]

A girl on meds will stay depressed, meds don't work, they induce anxiety and emotional vacancy. But how to not be depressed?

Steps: 1) Get off meds, get healthy
2) Get a routine that isn't self-deprecating.
3) Remove poisonous friends and influences, find people with similar interests.
4) Work on things that provide a feeling of success
5) Indulge in creativity and higher-understanding of existence.

Hmm none of these involve a knight in shining armor showing her that she's loved. Funny. It's like, just like the people here, only you can make your life better, and same with her.

PS this is essentially Maslow's hierarchy of needs, steps to self-actualization.

 

[Exoduso]

My last ex wasn't on antidepressants or anything, but she had a very negative view on life and of herself. Very hard to deal with, and it eventually was the main cause of the breakup.

 

[bigneil]

I guarantee Jodi Arias was on antidepressants. As was Adam Lanza and the Colorado shooter. They make you not care about your problems, your life or other peoples lives. It's mostly Fluoride. It costs one penny per pill and is sold at .4 Million percent markup.

She's damaged goods. Probably beyond repair. I've been there. Stay away.

Women come hardwired with their attitude. You can't change it but you will suffer tremendously. One can't help but take it personal. And as 3countriesPlan noted, it's contagious!

 

[Zerro]

Stay away from these women, they'll just drag you down with them.

 

[om1xr]

Anti-Dump has the perfect answer to your situation

You Buy a Relationship Not Build One

http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=15565

I think you guys should read the old Threads of the Masters and hit the Archive Section more

 

[joe45]

I guarantee Jodi Arias was on antidepressants. As was Adam Lanza and the Colorado shooter. They make you not care about your problems, your life or other peoples lives. It's mostly Fluoride. It costs one penny per pill and is sold at .4 Million percent markup.

She's damaged goods. Probably beyond repair. I've been there. Stay away.

Women come hardwired with their attitude. You can't change it but you will suffer tremendously. One can't help but take it personal. And as 3countriesPlan noted, it's contagious!

wjhat kind of troubke will i get if i stay with her

 

[casaanova]

Tariq Nasheed calls women like this "Bad Luck B*tches" - they're always in turmoil and always have a sob story. You can talk to them today and they're messed up, and you can talk to them 20 years from now, and they'll still be messed up. They're bad material because they want to be bad material - and you can't carve rotten wood. The more you try to help them the more they'll end up resenting you and messing your own life up. The best thing to do is just pump & dump and move on quickly - sounds mean but some women you can't do anything with beyond that

 

[casaanova]

wjhat kind of troubke will i get if i stay with her

(In no particular order)
Depression of your own
Wasted money
False Rape Accusations
She can easily ruin your other plates
ZERO chance of the relationship ever being stable
High chance of her assaulting you
High chance of her getting other white knights/family to assault you because she "felt" like it over a depression-fueled misunderstanding
High chance of cuckoldry/her jumping ship to another guy

 

[buzzin_frog]

(In no particular order)
Depression of your own
Wasted money
False Rape Accusations
She can easily ruin your other plates
ZERO chance of the relationship ever being stable
High chance of her assaulting you
High chance of her getting other white knights/family to assault you because she "felt" like it over a depression-fueled misunderstanding
High chance of cuckoldry/her jumping ship to another guy

Very good list there...

Seriously, with all the women out there today I'm not sure why guys settle for these sh!tty chicks.

drop her and look for greener pastures because the person that will wind up being the most affected by staying with her is YOU

you will become depressed and tossed out like garbage after she is done tormenting you.

happens all the time