Dates That Get Pissed When I Reveal.......

[Tenacity]

......That I'm a Black Republican, that I don't vote Democrat for every single election, that I'm not Pro Black, and that I don't march/protest for "justice" for a freaking street criminal.

As I told most of you guys, I mostly date black women and black women are (in my opinion) the biggest fvcking hypocrites and disingenuous group of people in the entire United States of America.

1.) They march against police/criminal justice "unfairness" against black men

Notes: However, over HALF of the black men having issues within the police/criminal justice system right now is due to the actions of a black woman. Either through her putting him on excessive fvcking child support, calling the cops on him through fake DV, fake sexual harassment claims, or other bullshyt. They go out and march for the "evil white man" to stop treating black men unfairly, and then turn right around and call that "evil white man" on her black baby daddy.

2.) They are feminists

Notes: WTF reason is it for a black woman to be a feminist? Feminism is a white woman's issue between HER and her white boyfriend/husbands. How in the hell has the Black Man oppressed the Black Woman? Can someone tell me? Black Women have overall always been treated better throughout the Jim Crow and Slavery Days in the country than Black Men were. So WTF are black women joining the Feminist movement for, breaking up the Black Family similar to how the White Woman destroyed the White Family?

3.) They want to be white woman

Notes: They claim to hate white women, but they wear white women's hair all the damn time.

4.) They don't want ANY black man dating a white woman

Notes: HOWEVER, it's okay for her to date a white man and lust over them.

I'm sick of black women being hypocritical as hell. These stupid broads want to try to cuss me out because I vote Republican? What kind of stupid shyt is that?

I'm honestly getting fvcking fed up with black people as a whole.

- I'm sick of the stupid a.ss marching and protesting to protect CRIMINALS, with no damn marching/protesting to stop the Drug Dealers/Thugs/Gangstas/Pimps in the Black Community who are doing 5,000 times more damage than any White Cop killing a Black Criminal.

- I'm sick of being called "white" because I'm educated with my shyt together (and good credit), and not running around out here like a Gucci Man wanna be.

- I'm sick of meeting black chicks with multiple kids by multiple thugs, and ALL of these chicks swear they are Black Queens and Mother Fvckign Earth, while they have their kids living in subpar conditions with no Father.

- I'm sick of black chicks refusing to lose weight. Every other damn race of women WORK OUT, but black women want to sit there being 220lbs and say that YOU are the problem if you don't accept it.

- I'm sick of black chicks talking about how a REAL MAN should know how to "handle her"....excuse me bytch but I didn't know that I signed up to work at the Zoo. I thought only animals needed handlers??

I'm sick of these fvcking chicks. That's my rant for the day.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Dude some of your posts I've read over the past months tend to tell me that you just plain associate with the wrong people. You can't spend your time dealing with and thinking about people who are dragging your life down. It'll not only induce stress but just make you plain unhappy which is obvious that you still are today by this very post.

Jesus take some of the age old advice given out on this forum to dam near every person who comes here - surround yourself with people who enjoy doing what you do and be happy.

 

[donking]

Have you tried dating latinas?

 

[Jaylan]

Another thread whining about black people. How refreshing

 

[Stagger Lee]

I imagine it'd be extra tough to find and date decent, conservative black women. It's almost impossible to even find white women like that as they are usually in a serious relationship or married since they were young.

You might find them in a white church as some decent blacks go to white churches, but church girls are not always much fun.

The only thing black people maybe hate more than the white male is a black person who is conservative. That goes for liberals in general. They hate conservative women maybe more than they hate conservative men.

 

[speed dawg]

You know what type of black people REALLY get discriminated against? Guys like you, Tenacity. Guys trying to do the right thing.

Black people hate you because you have a head on your shoulders, white people hate you because they probably assume you are like other blacks.

I don't have the answers, I just know it's f*cked up.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Dates That Get Pissed When I Reveal.......

I do not date fatties(no bbw , thats bullsh1t)
I do not date single mothers (self explanatory)
I do not date feminists

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

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Black people hate you because you have a head on your shoulders, white people hate you because they probably assume you are like other blacks...

That's messed up. If you happen to watch Fox News, don't tell anyone!!!

 

[Tenacity]

You know what type of black people REALLY get discriminated against? Guys like you, Tenacity. Guys trying to do the right thing.

Black people hate you because you have a head on your shoulders, white people hate you because they probably assume you are like other blacks.

I don't have the answers, I just know it's f*cked up.

You hit it right on the head, I literally don't belong anywhere. To most black people (even the ones I'm dating) I'm not black enough, I act white and seeing as though I usually have a natural conservative point of view on things rather than a black liberal point of view, I'm seen as someone that's a race traitor.

To white people, while I do most of my business with white people (that's just the market), I'm still black and I do believe that in some ways that might stop them from seeing me as normal/credible because they assume I go along with the black liberal side of things.

Sometimes I wonder why the fvck was I even put on this Earth, seriously. It's like all of my life I have always been in a constant struggle socially to "belong" somewhere and lately I have just settled in on the fact that I DON'T belong anywhere. And I'm really going to be a Solo Act until I die.

I mean through every phase of my life, it's always "something". When I was in Grade School I was TOO much of a nerd, early 20's I'm TOO much of a life of the party person, middle 20's - today I have my shyt together and now I guess I come off as TOO arrogant or thinking I'm BETTER than people.

It's always something. It's never just, "Tenacity is a good guy, he didn't do shyt wrong to me, I like him...let's roll with him." No, there's always some bullshyt I have to deal with and if they can't find any dirt on you, they just MAKE UP SHYT and keep repeating it over and over which I guess then makes it true because it's being repeated over and over and other people are saying it now.

While I get consistent dates and lays, it's like I don't feel as though the girl is truly CONNECTED to me. It's almost like she's sleeping with the "enemy" and she knows it, so she wants to get in and get out. And that's really how my relationships have been. Women are a revolving door, as quick as they come in, they leave out. It's the weirdest shyt I have ever seen.

Dude some of your posts I've read over the past months tend to tell me that you just plain associate with the wrong people. You can't spend your time dealing with and thinking about people who are dragging your life down. It'll not only induce stress but just make you plain unhappy which is obvious that you still are today by this very post.

Jesus take some of the age old advice given out on this forum to dam near every person who comes here - surround yourself with people who enjoy doing what you do and be happy.

I try to do that, it's just hard for me honestly to find people like that. I do the best I can. I try not to whine and bytch about it, and I mainly try to stay focused on doing my career/work related things because that's honestly the only thing of SUBSTANCE that I have in my life.

I don't even communicate with my immediate family, mother or anybody, I never hear from those people.

I do believe in Faith that everything works together for the "good," but sometimes I just don't understand it man. I don't know where the good is at in none of this shyt. I feel honestly like I'm cursed.

 

[amoka]

......That I'm a Black Republican, that I don't vote Democrat for every single election,

You are either a Republican, a Democrat, an Independent, or just a CONFUSED young man... perhaps, it is the later.

 

[Tictac]

You are either a Republican, a Democrat, an Independent, or just a CONFUSED young man... perhaps, it is the later.

_____

Maybe amoka walks into a voting booth (I doubt she even votes), pulls the Dem lever and leaves.

Intelligent people think about what's being offered to them and then vote.

It's not T that's confused mocha. It's people like you that can only knee jerk think that haven't a clue.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

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To white people, while I do most of my business with white people (that's just the market), I'm still black and I do believe that in some ways that might stop them from seeing me as normal/credible because they assume I go along with the black liberal side of things...

How do you know this? And if this is true, what have you done to show these people who you truly are? It sounds like if they really did know you, the last thing they would think is that you are a stereotypical black guy (whatever that may be).

Sometimes I wonder why the fvck was I even put on this Earth, seriously. It's like all of my life I have always been in a constant struggle socially to "belong" somewhere and lately I have just settled in on the fact that I DON'T belong anywhere. And I'm really going to be a Solo Act until I die.

Is it that you need to feel that you belong to these social groups or that THEY need you to belong to their particular social group? Ponder that for a bit.

I mean through every phase of my life, it's always "something". When I was in Grade School I was TOO much of a nerd, early 20's I'm TOO much of a life of the party person, middle 20's - today I have my shyt together and now I guess I come off as TOO arrogant or thinking I'm BETTER than people.

Here's a dirty little secret, people who feel that you are trying to be better than them typically believe that they're less than you by their own means of comparison. They guilt you into thinking that being "better" is a bad thing. In reality, we're ALL different, and that's a good thing. It doesn't mean that someone is better or worse, just different. Unfortunately, there are a ton of people in the world who seek out these differences in order to use them as reasons for their perceived shortcomings. Live with it.

It's always something. It's never just, "Tenacity is a good guy, he didn't do shyt wrong to me, I like him...let's roll with him." No, there's always some bullshyt I have to deal with and if they can't find any dirt on you, they just MAKE UP SHYT and keep repeating it over and over which I guess then makes it true because it's being repeated over and over and other people are saying it now.

Stay away from these people. They base their worth on how well they can put others down, not by how well they can do on their own. Personally, I see it as an evil personality trait.

While I get consistent dates and lays, it's like I don't feel as though the girl is truly CONNECTED to me. It's almost like she's sleeping with the "enemy" and she knows it, so she wants to get in and get out. And that's really how my relationships have been. Women are a revolving door, as quick as they come in, they leave out. It's the weirdest shyt I have ever seen.

Start looking at what the relationships are based upon. What are the personal motives you have and she has for getting into the relationship. If they aren't both mutual and on a non-superficial level, know that it will run its course and then end.

I try to do that, it's just hard for me honestly to find people like that. I do the best I can. I try not to whine and bytch about it, and I mainly try to stay focused on doing my career/work related things because that's honestly the only thing of SUBSTANCE that I have in my life.

They're hard to find because THEY are the true minority. Most don't define themselves by their race, political stance, religious beliefs, profession or any other of the typical buckets people are placed in or choose to jump into. The people you're looking for are the independent thinkers who aren't driven by the status quo, they are their own person based on their personal definition, not society's.

I don't even communicate with my immediate family, mother or anybody, I never hear from those people.

There isn't a law saying that you should. Are healthy because of it?

I do believe in Faith that everything works together for the "good," but sometimes I just don't understand it man. I don't know where the good is at in none of this shyt. I feel honestly like I'm cursed.

And that may just be the reason for your being. To walk a different path and find happiness on your own terms and not that which is arbitrarily assumed. Mediocrity is easy, being different takes strength. It's said that God doesn't give anyone more than they can handle. Handling things may mean growth though.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

......That I'm a Black Republican, that I don't vote Democrat for every single election, that I'm not Pro Black, and that I don't march/protest for "justice" for a freaking street criminal.

Just out of curiosity, why don't you qualify girls for these traits BEFORE you date them?

You may save yourself a lot of grief by putting "Black Republican" in your dating profile, for example.

Lot less hookups, to be sure, but any girls you DID meet would be a lot "higher quality."

And it may even FORCE you to look in places you hadn't thought of yet.

Just an idea...

 

[Tenacity]

Guys, thanks for the recommendations. Perspective is everything in life and sometimes I have it, and sometimes I lose sight of it. I was homeless at one point in my life, but I climbed out of that and ever since age 27 I have been solidly in the Middle Class with enough of assets now to always be Middle Class.

That right there makes me proud of myself, even if the world doesn't acknowledge it. I did what most people in my situation could not have done. Most people in my situation would STILL be poor right now and probably only have another 5 years to live or probably be on their way in or back to jail.