So I was dating a girl for 4 a 5 months. We met on happen. First date felt good I was very attracted to her. We both would go on holiday and so we plannend the second date late in the evening we had sex also felt good. We were both a month seperated en we called and texted a lot. I felt we were really bonding. For me the first time in 8 years since my last ex( had many plates in between). I really invested a lot in her. Payed almost everything drove her, make food etc. She told me she was always happy and sometimes say in a cute way your mine boyfriend or something like that. Very loving girl. But then we would get some conflicts about disagreements. I have a very strong opinion. And she never had this before. I notice sometimes she was distancing me. Back towards me while sleeping and didn’t like to be touched when sleeping. I also had my doubts if she really apraciate me for the things I done for her. Allas came the talk. We would first be dining togheter at my place. She would cook. But then she said she would eat at her home because of Hello fresh. She told me come around 9 but I’m going to bed @ 1030pm. I felt on my water something was wrong. Or she had a suprise. Then she texted me come to the parking lot. We will do a walk. I went with it but I knew it wasn’t right. Probaly was best for me to say when she canceld dining that I wouldn’t come. Anyway she told me she had doubts about us cause I was emotionally locked. She couldt see if I was happy when she was happy and that sort of stuff. Even when i told her many times. In fact 2 weeks ago because of Covid, she wanted to live with me in lockdown. She asked me in the talk what i wanted. I told she should know me better. I went emotional i couldn’t stop it. She hugged and kissed me and said it was good to see me opening up for her. We agree to go to they sauna’s in a couple of days. The days in between she was to “busy” to call and felt very distant. On sunday she texted it didn’t felt good to go to the sauna in this situation and that we could see a movie or drinks at my place. ( I already paid for the sauna and she knew). That broke my bottle and said let’s just quit this. She agreed. She said if I wanted to be in contact i could. But I just said no contact. I drove to a plate of my and ****ed her felt not so good.
Sorry for the bad English and ofcourse this is just my side and many things are missing. I just wanted to know how you guys look up on this.
Sorry for the bad English and ofcourse this is just my side and many things are missing. I just wanted to know how you guys look up on this.
