Date Tonight (Movies)

[Juggalo]

My girlfriend and I are going to the movies tonight...
She's the kind that makes the moves...but I was just wondering...should I make a move during the movie? How can I tell when a good time to do it is?

I just need help with the whole situation...I'd be content with just watching the movie with her and holding her hand and just being with HER. But I don't want to leave the movies with her disappointed because I didn't make a move...ya know?

Comment...please!

Thanks!

 

[isotope]

define "move"... yo umean like a kiss? or just hold her hand?
PS: is this your first date? if she is your GF you should have already made moves, so whats the problem?


anyway a good time to hold her hand (in a movie) is when you see her glance over at you, then slowly grab her hand. DONT PUSS OUT JUST DO IT, SHE WONT MIND

then after some hand holding, go for the arm over the neck thing
even though it might be akward in the chairs


and when you're holding her hand, you can carress her arm and whatever

and once you do that for a while, you can lean over and kiss her on the cheek. once again, JUST DO IT when you feel the time is right

if she leans in for the kiss, you can move on to kissing on the lips

but personally i have never made out with girls in the theatre, they dont feel comfortable if theres people nearby.

so dont worry about making out in the theatre.

When i go on the movie date, my strategy is:
1. hold hands during movie, caress, maybe put arm around if comfortable.
2. while walking out, hold hands in parking lot
3. when you get to the car or wherever, stop her outside the car, talk for a minget in close and eventually make the kiss before you get in the car.
4. what happens next dpends on if you take seperate cars or what, but you get the idea

 

[Juggalo]

I'll be taking her home. What you've said already has helped greatly! Anyone else have any advice...feel free to contribute!

I'll just do that and watch the movie...I won't try to make out or anything unless she does...if the movie sucks....yeah.

We've only been dating for 5 days...so that's why I've not made any moves thus far. But we have managed to kiss every day we've been together.

Thanks so far,
Eric

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by Juggalo
I'll be taking her home. What you've said already has helped greatly! Anyone else have any advice...feel free to contribute!

I'll just do that and watch the movie...I won't try to make out or anything unless she does...if the movie sucks....yeah.

We've only been dating for 5 days...so that's why I've not made any moves thus far. But we have managed to kiss every day we've been together.

Thanks so far,
Eric

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Dude you're set. You already know she likes you... s put your arm around her, or have her lean on you. Kiss her tenderly when she looks at you, smile, and den watch the movie.

On the ride home, stop by somewhere where you two can be alone, preferably somewhere "romantic". Spit sum game at her and then make out with her. MAKE SURE YOU HAVE GUM AND YOU SMELL GOOD.

Baby steps, yes, but effective. She'll be wanting more within no time.

 

[Juggalo]

At the movies she put her hand on my leg and rubbed it...and I then caressed her arm...and then we just cuddled and stuff...and when I took her home and she was saying bye...we hugged and she started kissing on my neck....then we had three short kisses with tongue...then she got out of the car. Did I do good? Could I have done better? Give me some feedback!

 

[Sammo]

Originally posted by Juggalo
At the movies she put her hand on my leg and rubbed it...and I then caressed her arm...and then we just cuddled and stuff...and when I took her home and she was saying bye...we hugged and she started kissing on my neck....then we had three short kisses with tongue...then she got out of the car. Did I do good? Could I have done better? Give me some feedback!

You could have done ALOT better.

Women dont lead, i keep reading SHE did this, SHE did that. Men lead women. You make the moves and she reciprocates. Man, by the sound of it you could close the deal easily, pull your **** out and start escalating things sexually.

Good luck.

 

[isotope]

yeah think of it this way:
she kissed you. you now have BLANKET PERMISSION to kiss her whenever you want.
see you are past that stage, so you now have "kissing rights." It should no longer be akward.
So do it whenever you want (assuming of course that it is not in an akward place or situation like in a store or something.)

you also have holding-hands rights, so do that whenever you want. you probably have a few other rights automatically because they are less than kissing, like arm-over-the-shoulder rights and touch-her-hair rights.

and now you just try to get more 'rights'.

next time you are alone, and kissing, put your arms around her waist, pull her close and rub her back. At some point you will touch her breasts. if she pushes your hands away, you know she's not ready. If she doesnt push them away, you now have BREAST RIGHTS.

of course never touch her breasts in public, she doesnt want other poeple to think she's a slvt

i try to earn AT LEAST one set of 'rights' on each date:
1. kissing rights
2. breast rights and leg or thigh rights
3. ass and possibly crotch-fondling rights
4. full vagina rights

but then again i'm older than you so i date girls who arent virgins and you might need to take it slow.

 

[Juggalo]

Originally posted by isotope
but then again i'm older than you so i date girls who arent virgins and you might need to take it slow.

She's not a virgin...she's been with a few guys.

I'm a virgin, though. I have trouble making moves but I KNOW that I'm gonna have to make some moves in order to get anywhere!

I thank all of you for the advice! I thought this thread died but it's still alive!

Also..what you said about the "rights" thing, Isotope...it makes perfect sense to me and that will help me INCREDIBLY in the future. I thank you for that!

If anyone else has any comments or suggestions or advice that would help me further my growing as a DJ and would help me get "rights" and help me actually make some moves...I'd appreciate it!

Also...SHE DOES lead me...when I should be making all the moves it's always been HER! Help!

 

[Sammo]

Why don't you try making a move. Get her isolated, tounge her down and try and finger her. Things will escelate quickly then.

 

[Juggalo]

Originally posted by Othello
You have troubles making moves because you're inexperienced. She has experience.

Exactly....and I was thinking...should I tell her that? Should I explain that I'm just nervous and that I'm sorry for not making any of the moves...because up until now she's the ONLY one that makes them...and should I just tell her something like that...and like...just say that I'm sorry for being like that and that I'm going to try harder?

Or...should I just do it and not talk about it and not explain why I haven't been making moves?

 

[Porky]

Originally posted by Juggalo
Exactly....and I was thinking...should I tell her that? Should I explain that I'm just nervous and that I'm sorry for not making any of the moves...because up until now she's the ONLY one that makes them...and should I just tell her something like that...and like...just say that I'm sorry for being like that and that I'm going to try harder?

NO!

Originally posted by Juggalo
Or...should I just do it and not talk about it and not explain why I haven't been making moves?

Much better

 

[Juggalo]

Thought so