Date night … she suggested coming over and watching a movie. Am in her frame ?

[Aristippus]

So I made plans on Tuesday to hang out with this chick I’ve been dating to go out dancing on Saturday night. She said she’d be down but this morning she sends me a text that she’s in the mood to disconnect and relax and do something chill.
She said maybe “I can come over and we can watch a movie and chill” and that she’s in the mood to smoke and wine down.

I was In the mood for dancing, having fun and getting drunk but if she’s suggesting these plans. If I follow through with them does that mean I’m following her frame ? We haven’t kissed yet so…

thoughts ?

Don't overthink it. She's making an excuse to be alone with you at your place. Typically women who want you will make things easy for the two of you to get physical. She's arranging it so the setting is right for things to move forward physically.

Don't push for sex. Just notice if she starts slowly inching closer to you during the movie. If she does you can reciprocate and move a little closer. Then you get her so hot and bothered that she either jumps on you or goes home so worked up that the next time she sees you she'll jump you. Have fun!

 

[Lover_boy]

Had a very successful night, this forum is changing my life. Thank you all

 

[Dr.Suave]

Im glad for OP, sounds like he smashed

 

[BackInTheGame78]

So I made plans on Tuesday to hang out with this chick I’ve been dating to go out dancing on Saturday night. She said she’d be down but this morning she sends me a text that she’s in the mood to disconnect and relax and do something chill.
She said maybe “I can come over and we can watch a movie and chill” and that she’s in the mood to smoke and wine down.

I was In the mood for dancing, having fun and getting drunk but if she’s suggesting these plans. If I follow through with them does that mean I’m following her frame ? We haven’t kissed yet so…

thoughts ?

She basically wants to fvck and you are worried about losing frame. Good God...now I see why some people struggle with women so much on this forum...

FYI anytime a woman invites you over to her place and suggests she comes over to yours and watch a movie and drink it's a sign she is telling you she is DTF with almost no exceptions.

Would you prefer to dance or get drunk or fvck the sh!t of her and blast a load down her throat?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Don't overthink it. She's making an excuse to be alone with you at your place. Typically women who want you will make things easy for the two of you to get physical. She's arranging it so the setting is right for things to move forward physically.

Don't push for sex. Just notice if she starts slowly inching closer to you during the movie. If she does you can reciprocate and move a little closer. Then you get her so hot and bothered that she either jumps on you or goes home so worked up that the next time she sees you she'll jump you. Have fun!

I did this last night actually...she snuggled up to me while the movie was on and I ran my fingers through her hair, kept gently running my hand up and down her arm, her side, her butt, etc...

At the end of the movie she basically jumped me.