Date idea?

[Rubato]

I had a break between my classes today and none of my bros were free to hang with me for dinner, so I decided to call up a girl I know. She's an HB8-9, depending on how much she cares. When I asked her to meet me for dinner on campus, she said:

"where? Ha I would love to keep you company. I've already eaten though hope that doesn't change your mind ha."

I told her where. She says "okay "

And we met. Wasn't the best dinner of my life (I mean, it was subway), I was hitting a lul, and I could keep making excuses, but it was still all right. She laughed a lot, leaned in when I would lean back, and gave me some other IOI's.

I want to plan a date with her, but I don't know what to do. We know each other through the ballroom dance competition team at the school and she's always called me the "classy" and "confident" guy on the team. I was such an AFC when I started I can't figure out where she got confident, but I always have been and dressed classy.

So I wanted to do something that plays off of that, but can still end in a f-close. I don't want to go to the zoo in a suit. I don't want to go for a walk at any of the metroparks in a suit, for obvious reasons. I've thought about taking her to the mall and going pretend shopping like we were rich and then going back to her place and watching a movie. I'm trying to think of a place near campus we could walk through, maybe downtown. I don't know if I want to do that though. The downtown isn't anything great. Everything else around the university is poor urban/college housing, high crime **** and I just don't want to parade myself around through their in a suit with a beautiful girl on my arm. I've also thought about just getting dressed up, finding a park, and dancing while the sunsets. I just don't want it to get too cheesy.

So does anyone have any ideas? Beyond my mall idea, I can't really think of anything besides just asking her if she wants to watch a movie together. But I'd like to something before we go back to her place that gives me an opportunity to get some sexual tension flowing. So once again, ideas please.

 

[Rubato]

I've been thinking about this and feel like the best thing to do would be to visit the zoo and then go back to her place and watch some episodes of the Big Bang Theory. forget the classy ****. If anyone has any better ideas, please let me know.

Edit: But now I'm second guessing the zoo, because it closes at 5... I'd like to be out a little later than that

 

[Rikudo]

No!Why do you want to go with her to the zoo have you made any on how you should do kino in the zoo or no its better to take her out on a walk talk with her use sexual kino then get her an ice or an an drink!

 

[Rubato]

No!Why do you want to go with her to the zoo have you made any on how you should do kino in the zoo or no its better to take her out on a walk talk with her use sexual kino then get her an ice or an an drink!

what about a night hike through one of the metroparks?

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

Didn't you say that you know her from a ballroom dancing class? Why not take her ballroom dancing? Even if she doesn't know ballroom dancing that well, it's an even better excuse because then you can teach her. I love dates like that.

You get up close to her, you get to show your dominance or ability to lead, and you will feel in your element.

It's a great action date if you can both dance! You can make it more of a date by suggesting drinks/appetizers before or after, or just appetizers if you're not old enough to drink.

 

[Rubato]

Didn't you say that you know her from a ballroom dancing class? Why not take her ballroom dancing? Even if she doesn't know ballroom dancing that well, it's an even better excuse because then you can teach her. I love dates like that.

You get up close to her, you get to show your dominance or ability to lead, and you will feel in your element.

It's a great action date if you can both dance! You can make it more of a date by suggesting drinks/appetizers before or after, or just appetizers if you're not old enough to drink.

My only hesitation with this idea is that she is a much better dancer than I am. I'm no slouch, but she's awesome. We did do a rhumba this past Sunday together though, and she seemed to enjoy it a lot, even though it was really simple.

We're both old enough to drink. But. I don't really want it to be a date. I just want to hook up with her. I'd prefer to do something I don't have to spend money on, like a walk or a hike. But I mean, I'm always open to a good idea. So don't be afraid to try and convince me I'm wrong or suggest something else.

 

[ARrocket]

We're both old enough to drink. But. I don't really want it to be a date. I just want to hook up with her. I'd prefer to do something I don't have to spend money on, like a walk or a hike. But I mean, I'm always open to a good idea. So don't be afraid to try and convince me I'm wrong or suggest something else.

Going to the zoo just screams "date"

Why can't you just invite her over to watch Big Bang Theory, and have some alcohol on hand? Boom.

 

[Rubato]

Going to the zoo just screams "date"

Why can't you just invite her over to watch Big Bang Theory, and have some alcohol on hand? Boom.

I must have been drunk when I was thinking that.

And I can't bring her here because I live with a disadvantage compared to others who are in college. I still live at home and my parents are very conservative people. No booze. No sex. I can do whatever I want, as long as it's not in the house.

Now, I could invite myself over to her house and watch Big Bang Theory. But I have no control over the dynamics there (alcohol, roommates, ect)

 

[ARrocket]

If I were you, I'd either

A) Do the drinks idea, and then try to get over there (of course you should be escalating properly and maybe even have kissed her before leaving the bar), or

B) Just go over to her place, bring the booze yourself and hope for the best situation.

 

[Rubato]

If I were you, I'd either

A) Do the drinks idea, and then try to get over there (of course you should be escalating properly and maybe even have kissed her before leaving the bar), or

B) Just go over to her place, bring the booze yourself and hope for the best situation.

So you're like totally against the idea of going on a walk, night hike, w/e?

Call me a misogynist, but i don't really like the idea of paying for a girl's bar tab, even if sex is involved, when she hasn't done anything for me to earn it.

 

[CantTouchMyStyle]

Nothing gets a chick wetter than the smell of animal feces.

Good lord..

 

[ARrocket]

So you're like totally against the idea of going on a walk, night hike, w/e?

Call me a misogynist, but i don't really like the idea of paying for a girl's bar tab, even if sex is involved, when she hasn't done anything for me to earn it.

It's just that it does not seem to be a super easy transition from that to sex....and that's the end result. Why make it more difficult than necessary?

Oh, and don't pay for the drinks if you don't want. You can say "I'll get this one, you get the next." Or, as has been my experience, girls (at least college age) seem ready to pay their own way without it even being an issue...

 

[Nutz]

I had a break between my classes today and none of my bros were free to hang with me for dinner, so I decided to call up a girl I know. She's an HB8-9, depending on how much she cares. When I asked her to meet me for dinner on campus, she said:

"where? Ha I would love to keep you company. I've already eaten though hope that doesn't change your mind ha."

I told her where. She says "okay "

And we met. Wasn't the best dinner of my life (I mean, it was subway), I was hitting a lul, and I could keep making excuses, but it was still all right. She laughed a lot, leaned in when I would lean back, and gave me some other IOI's.

I want to plan a date with her, but I don't know what to do. We know each other through the ballroom dance competition team at the school and she's always called me the "classy" and "confident" guy on the team. I was such an AFC when I started I can't figure out where she got confident, but I always have been and dressed classy.

So I wanted to do something that plays off of that, but can still end in a f-close. I don't want to go to the zoo in a suit. I don't want to go for a walk at any of the metroparks in a suit, for obvious reasons. I've thought about taking her to the mall and going pretend shopping like we were rich and then going back to her place and watching a movie. I'm trying to think of a place near campus we could walk through, maybe downtown. I don't know if I want to do that though. The downtown isn't anything great. Everything else around the university is poor urban/college housing, high crime **** and I just don't want to parade myself around through their in a suit with a beautiful girl on my arm. I've also thought about just getting dressed up, finding a park, and dancing while the sunsets. I just don't want it to get too cheesy.

So does anyone have any ideas? Beyond my mall idea, I can't really think of anything besides just asking her if she wants to watch a movie together. But I'd like to something before we go back to her place that gives me an opportunity to get some sexual tension flowing. So once again, ideas please.

"When I asked her to meet me for dinner on campus"

It worked out this time, but stop asking. Take charge and give her choices, but of things you've already decided on. For example, Hey, I'm free tonight. You up for "mini-golf, happy hour, or xyz?" Asking is tantamount to begging and begging is wussy as hell. And dinner dates suck since you're stuffing your face instead of talking and sexually escalating the way you should.


"I've thought about taking her to the mall and going pretend shopping like we were rich and then going back to her place and watching a movie."

That's actually pretty good as future projections and fantasy/role-play are excellent for building rapport and just having fun together. Again though, don't ask her to watch a movie. Things should just have the appearance of flowing, like "one thing led to another". This is called being "smooth". Go do your mall thing, go back for some bull**** reason, like have to change or something, pop in a movie for her while she waits, and then sit down. Tell her you're not really in the mood and just want to chill for a bit. Plausible deniability is your friend.


EDIT
I glanced up the thread and noticed going for drinks. Happy hour would be great, but stay away from going out together in a bar or club until you've had sex a couple times to secure things first. Otherwise you have to fight off all the AMOGs and douchebags trying to swoop in on her every time you turn your back.