Date from Yesterday - Women are getting worse!

[SirFratserlot]

When did walking away for good become passive aggressive?


This is real simple. Two options

• You walk away from her apology text and say nothing. This will anger her and drive her crazy.
• You respond with a butt-hurt like comment essentially saying "nuh uh, I didn't like you first".

And for some reason, too many chumps choose option 2, thinking they have somehow "gotten her". When in fact, she can see right through you, just as those of us here can see through it as well.

Option 1 is clearly passive aggressive

 

[Reyaj]

danger I think you're reading way too much into it lol... no offense

 

[Who Dares Win]

As much as I dislike such cvnts as you do guys, I believe the best interest of OP is protect himself from potential psycos.

So the reply I would have give would have been " its ok no problem " this way you dont reward her by showing yourself bvtthurt but at the same time you dont harm her overinflated ego so much that she may consider to retaliate in any way.

This allow you to leave her as much as her leave you with no hate or any particular attention.
You still punish her for her behaviour because you dont ask her out again nor try to "fix it" while at the same time her hamster gets mad inside the safety range.



To be avoided the following messages:

Beta: sorry Im guilty as well, maybe we can try again when you're free

Butthurt: you werent that special either after all

mindfvcker: no reply or lol or yolo and similar

 

[BeDJ]

Danger is spot on.

This woman knows that she rustled your jimmies with her actions on the date. When she sent you the follow-up message, she was looking for you to do one of 2 things:

1) Accept her apology.
2) Get butthurt.

By you accepting her apology, she gets away with her actions.
By you getting butthurt, she will self-validate her actions on the date.

Either case, she wins.

The best response is no response. Self-respect as Danger pointed out.

 

[joker79]

found this thread on sosuave as to how to react when she disrespects you (whatever the form of disrespect is)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126307

STR8UP really nailed it

 

[Lord Hypnos]

found this thread on sosuave as to how to react when she disrespects you (whatever the form of disrespect is)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126307

STR8UP really nailed it

golden thread.

hopefully OP read this first before responding back for 'sh!ts and giggles'

IMHO the response to her 'apology' falls in the btthurt category

 

[Burroughs]

OP has a lot to learn:

OP's date had OP picked out as *mark* a beta provider type which he is deep down...no doubt about it

the OP *faked alpha* by using sosuave ninja tactics on the girl

girl was *amazed* that beta OP had backbone

but then later girl wondered where such an *average* dude like the OP got his *confidence*

so girl sent message

sadly when OP replied to her message in a butthurt fashion girl knew that OP had been faking alpha all along and was truly beta



case closed (big up nismo)

 

[Reyaj]

You all really need to get out more lol

 

[betheman]

I still think 'fvck off' would have been the deal

 

[betheman]

You all really need to get out more lol

says the guy posting about being blown out by used POF baggage

 

[Reyaj]

Yeah that's exactly what the post was about. I should definitely take advice from someone named bethman who is near 50 and can't get pvssy from a dead cat lol Where did you get BETHman from anyway? Are you transgender?

 

[betheman]

Yeah that's exactly what the post was about. I should definitely take advice from someone named bethman who is near 50 and can't get pvssy from a dead cat lol Where did you get BETHman from anyway? Are you transgender?

Ooooh retract those claws b!tch! such a babe magnet like yourself has soo much time between bangs to b!tch on here. I think YOU (see what I did there?) need to get out more

 

[BeDJ]

You all really need to get out more lol

Says the guy that starts countless threads on getting married and doesn't know how to handle finances. Also, did you figure out why that chick didn't kiss you on the first date? I hope you got the ring back from your fiancee after you ignored our advice.

Does the build-a-beta sweat shop treat attention wh0res well?

 

[Reyaj]

Says the guy that starts countless threads on getting married and doesn't know how to handle finances. Also, did you figure out why that chick didn't kiss you on the first date? I hope you got the ring back from your fiancee after you ignored our advice.
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Does the build-a-beta sweat shop treat attention wh0res well?

wow you sure spent a lot of time reading my threads, thanks for being so interested

I am not caught up on all the lingo here to answer your last question but I can say that I sure treat your mom well. I just got done putting it in her azz I'll send the video to BETHman

 

[BeDJ]

Yeah, just skimmed through your last 10 posts. It gives us young men motivation to hear from a 35 year old DJ who has been around for 11 years!

Have you met Thumpy?

 

[nismo-4]

I'm coming out of chambers for this?!

OP, why the f**k is your betatude polished and on display? Why? Why? And how the f**k did this simple ass case go to 7 pages? Is Jodi Arias back on trial already? Or George Zimmerman? WTF is going on here?

I commended you for having a f**kin' backbone on the date but now you're getting ready to play into her goddamn hand with that apology text she sent you?! The jury and I told your ass to move the f**k on because your princess is in another castle already! What this b**ch is trying to do is get a rise out of you and get in control! You sent one text. That's enough!

Didn't Danger, Who Dares Win, BeginningDJ, Tilltheendoftime, and Burroughs just get through with telling you this? Judge nismo is very upset with you. Even more so you, beyond a reasonable doubt, got this girl on a f**kin' pedestal and not spinning plates! You might be suffering from oneitis!

Her interest is low and you care too much. Don't invest more into her than she is into you. Loser and chump is written here in 7 languages! Don't you see that? It's clear as day to many of us! As soon as she finds out she's your only one, she stops being your only one. Stop acting like you have something to lose when you get a girl. That's an order.

I can't say you lost her cuz you never really had her! You were whipped over some sh*t you never really had! And don't reward a girl who acts bad with you!

You are now guilty of attempted betatude, scarcity development, unauthorized construction of a pedestal, and failure to move on. Just pay your fine of one bruised ego, 2 blue balls, and 1 hammered shaft.

Spinning more plates, going ghost, and deleting her number is the best thing that is for you right now. :yes: No text, no call, no talk, no messages. Drop her ass. Go for more girls. Get it? Got it? Good.

Case closed. Clear the damn courtroom.

 

[PlayHer Man]

You all really need to get out more lol

Your beta qualities are really coming out now bro. Turning against men who are trying to help you over some trivial episode with a worthless skank :crackup: :crackup:

Listen Reyaj (and I told you this earlier) once she revealed herself as low quality she became unqualified to occupy any more of your time, attention, thoughts, emotions, actions, etc.

The minute you lifted a finger to aknowledge her existance is the minute you revealed yourself as an AFC.

Its not about how the woman views you.. you really shouldn't give a sh!t what women think. No.. Its about YOUR TIME and how you use it. Wasting it talking sh!t to a woman who doesn't want you is retarded when you can be using that time to spin plates.

You walked away from the date a winner... then hopped on your computer to PROVE you're a loser. Nice work bro. :trouble:

 

[zinc4]

If you don't care about the girl one way or the other and you don't plan on getting with her then i don't see the point in a reply at all......

And your reply went out of your way to state that you weren't interested in her..like you even needed to tell her that in the first place.....would you go out of your way to tell someone that who you were not the least bit threatened by and who you genuinely pitied???? of course not....

that is childish/beta behavior...no offense...you got a 37-year-old disrespectful cougar....just pity her and let her be on her way...i usually just pump and dump these types and be done with them forever....no point in twisting the knife and saying by the way, we met and i am not interested in you...that is coming from a position of inferiority not superiority...

 

[Reyaj]

darn I didnt realize that message did all that lol. You all are geniuses! Why aren't you all working as psychotherapists with these skills?

 

[Atom Smasher]

Your beta qualities are really coming out now bro. Turning against men who are trying to help you over some trivial episode with a worthless skank :crackup: :crackup:

Listen Reyaj (and I told you this earlier) once she revealed herself as low quality she became unqualified to occupy any more of your time, attention, thoughts, emotions, actions, etc.

Once Reyaj started insulting the men who are trying to help him he became unqualified to occupy any more of our time.