Date Checking Out Other Guys

Diaoz

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anyone has any suggestions as to some C&F response to say when a girl talks to some other guy while on a date with you or tells you some guy looks hot?

I know the a recommended way is to hit up a girl at the same time yourself, but any more suggestions?

I know it's a game and want to respond to it best.
 

High Voltage

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Any girl that checked out another guy while I was on a date with her wouldn't get another I can tell you that. Same goes for telling me she thought another guy was hot.

*Very* disrespectful - why would you put up with this behaviour? I wouldn't even hint that I was offended at the time, but she'd never hear from me again. Whoever she was checking out is welcome to her.

Talking to a guy she already knows is a different matter. In that case I would jump in the conversation instead of standing by like a potted plant.

Don't let 'em walk all over you fellas.

- HV
 

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Hahah, that's hilarious! You've got a slut on your hands :) Don't take her so seriously, man. She obviously doesn't want you to. Little hints like that are how girls convey that because they can't just look at you and tell you that they only want you to fvck them. Not on a first date anyway. So don't take it seriously and convey back to her that you're only looking to have fun with no strings attached, meaning an open relationship, fvck buddy, or whatever you wanna call it. My response to her saying another guy is hot would be "hell yea, i'd fvck him, hahah!" At that point, she'd start cracking up and maybe ask if i'm serious, which would only result in me busting her for being so damn gullible and believing everything people say. This is the perfect frame for dealing with such behavior. Don't let it get to you, dismiss it as being laughable, and basically treat her as a child if she acts like one.
 

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Both of the previous posts are correct, but let me add other kind of situation.

Some girls do this for you to think of them as very sexual, and into getting some, meaning that they want a guy to advance FAST!
Anyway, either she's dissing you, or either she is this kind of girl i refered. In any case what should you do? If she was dissing you you can still go for a move soon after that ****, if she doesnt want **** the slut. If she is the kind of girl i told you about, its will be smooth sailing if you make the move.
 

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Say this:

"Do you want me to go get his number for you?"


and if her reply is yes - go do it.

don't be sarcastic - or have an attitude. Be real.

If you act like she means sh#t to you - and you couldn't care less, it will drive her crazy.

And if she comments on it you say:

"Well I was thinking if I do this for you and get his number, you can do the same for me.... There a hottie sitting over in the corner with her friends.... can you put a good word in for me?"


.....

That will send her a message:

* You don't put up with sh#t.

* She has the disadvantage in the power games.

* You have an eye for other chicks.

More importantly - you could drop her like a hot potato.
 

Black Panther®

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Originally posted by NewMan
Say this:

"Do you want me to go get his number for you?"


and if her reply is yes - go do it.

don't be sarcastic - or have an attitude. Be real.

If you act like she means sh#t to you - and you couldn't care less, it will drive her crazy.

And if she comments on it you say:

"Well I was thinking if I do this for you and get his number, you can do the same for me.... There a hottie sitting over in the corner with her friends.... can you put a good word in for me?"


.....

That will send her a message:

* You don't put up with sh#t.

* She has the disadvantage in the power games.

* You have an eye for other chicks.

More importantly - you could drop her like a hot potato.
Right on point, perfect response for this situation.
Also shows that you are secure, confident, and way above her in bs games.
 
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