Dark Triad Characteristics That Make a Man More Attractive After He Has Passed The Looks Threshold [seasoned fighter, deep voice, leader, bully]

[Scars]

This is going to be controversial to say, but if you handle every situation with women the same way a sociopath/psychopath would, then you're doing it correctly.

Before people get it twisted I'm talking about charming psychopaths like Ted Bundy. Also I will use both terms interchangeably but I understand they are two completely different things.

What can a guy learn from a serial killer to perfect his game?

- Charm
- Wittyness
- Fearlessness
- Ability to handle confrontation
- Power/strength
- Intelligence
- Not give a sh*t what people think

Sociopaths/psychopaths have all these qualities and practice them effortlessly because it's hard coded into them and women LOVE it.

What would a sociopath do if he was confronted with a sh!t test?
He would act indifferent.

Girl not calling back?
He would go about his day and not think twice.

Plate blows him off on the first date?
That's ok, he's charming so he can easily get another.

Of course there will be people who read this and try to pick it apart. Obviously I'm not saying you should k!ll women or any extreme sh!t like that, nor should you look up to psychopaths as "role models", but there definitely is something to be learned from them.

Why did Ted Bundy have a cult following of women lusting over him? Even after he was found guilty.

Why do women love to watch true crime and serial killer documentaries?

Just a few things to think about.

 

[Serenity]

Plate blows him off on the first date?
That's ok, he's charming so he can easily get another.

I don't know about that one, might go murder the woman who rejected him first, but carefully planned rather than impulsively.

 

[PRW63]

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Thoughts?

They aren't attracted to Dark Triads, they are attracted to the masculine traits that the Dark Triads deceptively project. You aint gonna pickup chicks going around claiming to be a Narcissist, a Sociopath, or a Psychopath. That is unless you are looking for mentally/emotionally broken women.

 

[Genetic Error]

They aren't attracted to Dark Triads, they are attracted to the masculine traits that the Dark Triads deceptively project. You aint gonna pickup chicks going around claiming to be a Narcissist, a Sociopath, or a Psychopath. That is unless you are looking for mentally/emotionally broken women.

erm, so what do i do then?

 

[BeExcellent]

Thoughts from the old lady:

It really depends on the woman and what type man she is accustomed to in her life experience. Obviously a healthy woman’s first substantial male relationship is with a solid father figure. But there are lots of terrible father figures too, and many mothers who shuffle various short term men in and out…all these things affect what a young girl or young woman gets imprinted with as familiar & normal.

So you have formative relationships with early/prominent male presence in a young woman’s life.

Then you have the universal appeal that masculinity has to women. That tends to exist whether or not a woman had a strong father figure. If it was a solid, good, masculine man who was the prominent early male figure then the solid masculine traits are going to feel most comfortable to a woman. She will seek strength and a protector and a leader who has a heart and character if that is what she grew up with around dad. So the universal biological appeal is complimentary to the traits in dear old dad. Familiar. And she will seek and trust such a man based on her early conditioning.

That is best case (and these are the best women).

These are women who recognize and reject pathological degrees of dark triad traits. Some degree is good, but too much and they see the deleterious effects and avoid them…

Then you have women with inherently weak father figures. These are women full of conflict surrounding men. They seek to rule men much like Mom bossed Dad…and both despise and are fascinated by men who refuse to be ruled by a woman…they are sexually drawn to strong men but fear a man they cannot control because it is unfamiliar when viewed against their early imprinting.

These are women who may be charmed by dark triad types but always have an unease around them. They see all men as requiring some level of control and dark triad types are not controllable. Not long term.

Then you have women with absent male figures. They don’t really know what they are looking for. They feel the pull of the initial sex appeal of the dark triad but don’t have a frame of reference. These may become doormats or become otherwise attached and are likely to have “daddy issues” and disordered attachment styles.

Then you have women with abusive male role models. For these women the dark triad is familiar. These women will attach to a dark triad (and give him a serious run for his money in the crazy department.). They will take his abuse for a long period while also abusing back. This is a toxic combo. There is a reason BPD women gravitate to NPD men for example. They often have complimentary mental pathology.

The real problem is the lack of truly good solid male role models relative to the population. They are infrequent such that few people understand what a “Real Man” acts like.

Dark triad men are posers at their core. Deceivers. They portray something highly desirable but upon close inspection they are anything but.

 

[Dash Riprock]

The real problem is the lack of truly good solid male role models relative to the population. They are infrequent such that few people understand what a “Real Man” acts like.

Dark triad men are posers at their core. Deceivers. They portray something highly desirable but upon close inspection they are anything but.

This.

- Charm
- Wittiness
- Fearlessness
- Ability to handle confrontation
- Power/strength
- Intelligence
- Not give a sh*t what people think

And this.

You don't have to be a socio/psychopath to attract women.

Enough said.

Good luck.

 

[PRW63]

erm, so what do i do then?

Corey Wayne's book "How to be a 3% Man" does a pretty good job of outlining the masculine traits needed. Although I haven't personally read it, Dr Glover's book "No More Mr Nice Guy" has a good reputation.

 

[eli77]

A psycopathic person is born that way. You cant become one. You can adopt machavillian and psycopathic traits yes.
There is machavillian nature in all game. Read everything with a filter. Your own personal filter and disregard what you dont need.
At the minimum it will help you get rid of that BP disney fairytale of love that has been shoved up your bum your whole life.
Even a psycologist said "Manson was a lot of things but hes not crazy"

give me some historical examples please

 

[Billtx49]

give me some historical examples please

Research indicates that psychopathy results from a complex combination of genetic and environmental factors.…

 

[PRW63]

give me some historical examples please

Well, it is SoSuave, not a scientific journal. Stringpuller is right. A psychopathic person is born that way. A sociopathic person is "created" along the way growing up. Symptoms/behavor is identical between them with the only real difference is that one is born and one is created. Narcisism is a characteristic of both. One Dr. described narcissism by saying, "All psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are psychopaths". You can probably substitute sociopath in place of psychopath in that same description.

 

[eli77]

Research indicates that psychopathy results from a complex combination of genetic and environmental factors.…

agreed

Well, it is SoSuave, not a scientific journal. Stringpuller is right. A psychopathic person is born that way. A sociopathic person is "created" along the way growing up. Symptoms/behavor is identical between them with the only real difference is that one is born and one is created. Narcisism is a characteristic of both. One Dr. described narcissism by saying, "All psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are psychopaths". You can probably substitute sociopath in place of psychopath in that same description.

sounds like My mother at times

 

[B80]

Well, it is SoSuave, not a scientific journal. Stringpuller is right. A psychopathic person is born that way. A sociopathic person is "created" along the way growing up. Symptoms/behavor is identical between them with the only real difference is that one is born and one is created. Narcisism is a characteristic of both. One Dr. described narcissism by saying, "All psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are psychopaths". You can probably substitute sociopath in place of psychopath in that same description.

Really? Sound like key differences from 2 conditions according to my 2 minute Google search

 

[PRW63]

Really? Sound like key differences from 2 conditions according to my 2 minute Google search

I get my position from it from a PHD who has it as their "specialty",...not Google. Although you can find her with Google.