I'm in the Mood said:
So grinding? Well, if you're having fun, then she's having fun.
If you get hard, she'll probably have a lil extra fun as long as you aren't poking her haha.
LOL!!!
Hey, my little advice is MOVE WITH THE RHYTHM. No matter what song it is, slow or fast, dancing not in rhythm is goofy and it doesn't feel good.
Another advice: when you go in the party, YOU'RE HAVING FUN! Do not stand next to the wall and stare at the chicks. It's better dancing alone with a smile (a thing that can attract some girl into giving you the "dance with me" signal, than not dancing at all.
Another one: Dring A LITTLE alcohol (you can hide it outside) so you get in the mood. DON'T GET TOO DRUNK!
Another one: flirt with some girls days before the party and talk about dancing with you ("you better get some dancing lessons befor dancing with me, my toes are sensitive" or something like that so when the day comes you'll have a FEW options to dance with.
Another one: get into Youtube and find videos about dancing. Funny ones, serious ones, whatever; and learn the ones you like.
When dancing (not slow) you need to have a matching face like a goofy smile or something. See how the dancers in Youtube look like when they ENJOY dancing.
Now, you need to know one very important thing: DANCING IS THE ULTIMATE KINO. It's up there next to message. The girls you dance with WILL be horny here and there, not just you! Remember that!
Get dressed like a man who respects himself, smell good, groom yourself 100% and make sure nothing gets you out of the good mood.
Have fun and don't forget a condom or 3...