Danced with a guy's GF at the club. He comes up to apologize to me after.

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Okay so i'm out downtown with my buddy. and we meet up with these two girls we knew from high school. We're at this club with a smallish dance area and one of the girls (HB7) is dancing or whatever, so i go up and start dancing with her a little bit, and she seems hesitant and im not sure why cause i know she digs me. I see this guy come over from a few feet away all like "hey that's my girlfriend"

He wasnt a complete beta, but he wasnt that attractive and i could tell he had little game. So i ask "that's your girlfriend?" because I honestly didnt think he was the BF, cause he looked kinda lame. He says yea, but i still don't believe him so I go ask his GF to confirm haha. Before he can chew me out any further, the girl steps in and says "it's fine, i know this guy from high school...blahblah"

So i stare him dead in the eye, and introduce myself. I say "hey what's your name? I'm _____, nice to meet you". I grab his hand to shake it. I have amazing grip strength, workout a lot and do tons of pullups and ****. I grab that ****er's hand and SQEEEEEZE that **** like it's going out of style. I can tell he's trying to squeeze back, but he has nothing on me and I just keep on staring him dead in the eye.

I tell him to relax, she's my friend and I didn't know she was here with anyone, walk away and dont talk to them again.

Later, like 2am i'm talking to the HB7's friend who is gorgeous, looks like ****ing barbie. He comes up to me. And apologizes. He's all like "hey man im sorry for gettting on your case earlier, i didnt know you were friends, you seem like a cool guy." Im all like "ohh no problem man, i woulda done the same thing, blahblah"

But in my mind, i'm like #WINNING:cool:
 

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gravityeyelids said:
Okay so i'm out downtown with my buddy. and we meet up with these two girls we knew from high school. We're at this club with a smallish dance area and one of the girls (HB7) is dancing or whatever, so i go up and start dancing with her a little bit, and she seems hesitant and im not sure why cause i know she digs me. I see this guy come over from a few feet away all like "hey that's my girlfriend"

He wasnt a complete beta, but he wasnt that attractive and i could tell he had little game. So i ask "that's your girlfriend?" because I honestly didnt think he was the BF, cause he looked kinda lame. He says yea, but i still don't believe him so I go ask his GF to confirm haha. Before he can chew me out any further, the girl steps in and says "it's fine, i know this guy from high school...blahblah"

So i stare him dead in the eye, and introduce myself. I say "hey what's your name? I'm _____, nice to meet you". I grab his hand to shake it. I have amazing grip strength, workout a lot and do tons of pullups and ****. I grab that ****er's hand and SQEEEEEZE that **** like it's going out of style. I can tell he's trying to squeeze back, but he has nothing on me and I just keep on staring him dead in the eye.

I tell him to relax, she's my friend and I didn't know she was here with anyone, walk away and dont talk to them again.

Later, like 2am i'm talking to the HB7's friend who is gorgeous, looks like ****ing barbie. He comes up to me. And apologizes. He's all like "hey man im sorry for gettting on your case earlier, i didnt know you were friends, you seem like a cool guy." Im all like "ohh no problem man, i woulda done the same thing, blahblah"

But in my mind, i'm like #WINNING:cool:
Then they went back home and fuvked.

Yup, you sure showed him. :crackup:
 

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Then they went back home and fuvked.

Yup, you sure showed him. :crackup:
lmao
 

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Then they went back home and fuvked.

Yup, you sure showed him. :crackup:
hahahahahaha :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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wow you squeezed his hand hard....congratulations...lame story and if i were him i would have wanted to punch you in the face for that BS handshake power struggle crap while staring me in the eye
 

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wow you squeezed his hand hard....congratulations...lame story and if i were him i would have wanted to punch you in the face for that BS handshake power struggle crap while staring me in the eye

This^

Go do more pullups brah. Maybe you can intimidate some more AFCs
 

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Mike the Situation, is that you?

Honestly, just go back home and juice some more because your life obviously sucks.
 

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lol
 

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zinc4 said:
wow you squeezed his hand hard....congratulations...lame story and if i were him i would have wanted to punch you in the face for that BS handshake power struggle crap while staring me in the eye
THIS. people that do the tough squeeze handshake deserve a 5 year jail sentence with no parole. seriously its annoying and proves nothing other than you are an a-hole. its not manly. its not powerful. its not confident. its just a being an a-hole. i don't shake peoples hands to break them or have mine broken. you dont stab the guy you just meet unless you are a psycho.
 

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This is what I would call a display of 'Youthful Immaturity'.

You could have gotten your point across without showing aggression. That is a sign of insecurity and lack of proper skills in communications.

Anytime when a person resorts of physical violence (women AND men), it is a sure sign that person is unbalanced emotionally and has no other way to express themselves in a healthy balanced way.

You are just lucky to brag about it now, that what 'appeared' to be AFC could have whipped your arse later outside with a bunch of other buddies.

Stupid testosterone sh!t stories. Not impressed. NEXT.

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I do agree that OP has amazing grip strength. So unfortunate the other guy doesn't, he should start fapping all night long like OP.
 

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Don't see the problem with OP's post. He AMOGed the boyfriend, who tried to reframe by apologizing later. Interesting interaction. I think it makes a lot of the guys here nervous, because they identify with the AMOGee rather than the AMOGer, and they therefore lash out via their keyboards at the OP.
 

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I disagree Zarky, assuming the BF wasn't trying to physically intimidate first....if he was than that is a different story...but from the sounds of it, it was just a simple hey man that's my GF type of deal....in this case, i think it's lame to go out of your way to AMOG in the first place.....there are so many b&tches out there..why try and AMOG a guy over a HB7.....and one who was hesitant to dance with you in the first place???? it stinks of being a loser...

I go to Fillipino discos a lot here in Taiwan and Fillipino guys are the most notorious AMOGERs int he world...they will even try to introduce you to a chick for the sole purpose to AMOG you and compete with you over her...no exaggerating...i hate AMOGers in general...they are so petty and reek of no class in my eyes...

OP is lucky it wasn't someone with a set of balls...i would have liked to knocked his ass out....

Nothing worse than some loser who tries to physically intimidate you just because you have something that he wants.

And like i said, this is all assuming the BF wasn't acting physically intimidating himself...if it was just a simple that's my GF man type deal than OP was out of line. If it was he was ready to throw down then OP was in the right, but i didn't get that vibe from the OP.
 

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I'm with Zinc.

There is a BIG difference between #1 and #2:

1. "Excuse me bud, that's my gf."

2. "Get the F away from my gf before I beat your a$s."

The first is respectful and doesn't deserve an aggressive response. The second is a threat, so all bets are off.

It is true that once in a while a random guy can lie and say it's their gf (when it's not) just to AMOG you. (Although that wasn't the case here.) I guess you could confirm with the gf by asking, "Is this your bf?" If she says yes, she either IS his gf OR she's not interested and is playing along to reject you. In which case, move on. If she says "no" or "I don't know this guy," then you know he's full of shyte lol.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Mike32ct said:
I'm with Zinc.

There is a BIG difference between #1 and #2:

1. "Excuse me bud, that's my gf."

2. "Get the F away from my gf before I beat your a$s."

The first is respectful and doesn't deserve an aggressive response. The second is a threat, so all bets are off.

It is true that once in a while a random guy can lie and say it's their gf (when it's not) just to AMOG you. (Although that wasn't the case here.) I guess you could confirm with the gf by asking, "Is this your bf?" If she says yes, she either IS his gf OR she's not interested and is playing along to reject you. In which case, move on. If she says "no" or "I don't know this guy," then you know he's full of shyte lol.
Yeaaa you guys weren't there. It was much closer to #2 than #1. Those werent exact quotes, i dont remember exactly what was said, but he slightly over-reacted. He was doing the stand-against-the-wall-with-drink-in-hand-bobbing-your-head thing while his gf was out on the dance floor. Then he just swooped in and looked like he wanted to fight. He could've been much more chill about it instead of getting all riled up. It was one of those moments when the people around us thought we were gonna throw punches and I think I did a fine job of preventing any further confrontation.

I honestly thought he was just some dude trying to AMOG me by saying it was his GF and didn't believe him when he told me, so I went right over to my friend and confirmed with her.

I had no idea she was there was there with a guy, and she's been my friend for a long time. I'm completely fine with what I did. I'm horny and pissy and i don't give a ****. I'm doing no fap and love the way I feel when i go out.
 

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gravityeyelids said:
Okay so i'm out downtown with my buddy. and we meet up with these two girls we knew from high school. We're at this club with a smallish dance area and one of the girls (HB7) is dancing or whatever, so i go up and start dancing with her a little bit, and she seems hesitant and im not sure why cause i know she digs me. I see this guy come over from a few feet away all like "hey that's my girlfriend"

He wasnt a complete beta, but he wasnt that attractive and i could tell he had little game. So i ask "that's your girlfriend?" because I honestly didnt think he was the BF, cause he looked kinda lame. He says yea, but i still don't believe him so I go ask his GF to confirm haha. Before he can chew me out any further, the girl steps in and says "it's fine, i know this guy from high school...blahblah"

So i stare him dead in the eye, and introduce myself. I say "hey what's your name? I'm _____, nice to meet you". I grab his hand to shake it. I have amazing grip strength, workout a lot and do tons of pullups and ****. I grab that ****er's hand and SQEEEEEZE that **** like it's going out of style. I can tell he's trying to squeeze back, but he has nothing on me and I just keep on staring him dead in the eye.

I tell him to relax, she's my friend and I didn't know she was here with anyone, walk away and dont talk to them again.

Later, like 2am i'm talking to the HB7's friend who is gorgeous, looks like ****ing barbie. He comes up to me. And apologizes. He's all like "hey man im sorry for gettting on your case earlier, i didnt know you were friends, you seem like a cool guy." Im all like "ohh no problem man, i woulda done the same thing, blahblah"

But in my mind, i'm like #WINNING:cool:

if you did that to me, i wouldn't have just walked away, nor apologized.
don't push your luck.
 

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I'm not trying to bash you OP, but I think you are the one that over-reacted. The hand squeeze and the attempt to AMOG the guy by telling him to relax is what could have resulted in a fight. I understand your point of view but you gotta watch out with this AMOG thing. I see it everyday, people just wanna show that they are better than everyone and sometimes it backfires.
 

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badboyjmm said:
I'm not trying to bash you OP, but I think you are the one that over-reacted. The hand squeeze and the attempt to AMOG the guy by telling him to relax is what could have resulted in a fight. I understand your point of view but you gotta watch out with this AMOG thing. I see it everyday, people just wanna show that they are better than everyone and sometimes it backfires.
I feel ya. But after not fapping for a week you tend to get a bit edgy
 

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what's pathetic about TC is not that he acted the way he did, but the fact that he felt the need to brag and share it with the rest of us.
 

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