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Dance Club Tips
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shaunuk said:
He's assuming I'm either "average" or ugly just because I don't need to dress up to get hot girls. In his case he probably needs to dress to impress to get hot chicks. Nothing really wrong with that if that's what it takes.
nismo-4
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First off, the Carlton Banks look is played out.
You need to stand out from the average guys.
Get a girl to dress you! They love shopping and dressing men! Your confidence and social proof will go up as well.
Remember that women take 60 minutes to dress to go to the club.
Most guys take 60 seconds to do the same thing.
You still gotta be well groomed and clean.
BTW You DO need to be trendy to get the hottest girls unless you're rich or famous.
You need to stand out from the average guys.
Get a girl to dress you! They love shopping and dressing men! Your confidence and social proof will go up as well.
Remember that women take 60 minutes to dress to go to the club.
Most guys take 60 seconds to do the same thing.
You still gotta be well groomed and clean.
BTW You DO need to be trendy to get the hottest girls unless you're rich or famous.
Poonani Maker
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Be aware of girls with rings on their ring fingers. They'll dance with you. They'll even ask you to dance. I Can't count on my hand how many women I've danced with in the past month who were married, and left their husbands home, because, "He doesn't like to dance" or "This isn't 'his thing' (particular style of dance)." When I find out she's married, I kinda lose respect for the girl for dancing with a whole bunch of different dudes, while her husband sits at home. I'm amazed at this phenomenon of late. Did this always happen? or is this just a 21st century thing?
Girl says to me tonight, "He didn't want to dance, but a girl's gotta get her dancing in, right? (i.e. fvck him!)"
Girl says to me tonight, "He didn't want to dance, but a girl's gotta get her dancing in, right? (i.e. fvck him!)"
Well just to update some more. I got approached tonight yet again by a girl for a grind session. I didn't make any approaches on my own though. I dress better but I no longer have the confidence to approach. I feel like the rejection is bound to occur if I try to make any moves myself.
