Damn AW's, I am F U C K E D!

[ImSoHorny005]

Sh!t, sh!t, sh!t. I realised there were 3 girls in my life I really felt STRONG feelings for (yes, even guys in my age do ) and they were all ATTENTION WH*RES / sunshine girls and I'm pretty sure I will feel it again as soon as another AW appears..... this means I am FVCKED!!!

I need some ideas to deal with AW's, how to tell if they're interested (impossible?) and how to trigger attraction... my usual DJ behaviour that works on other girls just doesn't work on them. FVCK!

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Why would you want to get an Attention Wh0re?

Why not find a good girl that won't try and play with your head?

It's alot easier. Those other types aren't worth your time, so stop trying to change them.


The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[ImSoHorny005]

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Why would you want to get an Attention Wh0re?

Why not find a good girl that won't try and play with your head?

It's alot easier. Those other types aren't worth your time, so stop trying to change them.


The Bad Ass Canadian

You probably missed it, I told it's about STRONG FEELINGS, not just sex. I can't do anything about it.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

And the reason why you get these strong feelings is because you've placed them on a pedestal. You know deep down you can't have them, or at best keep them.

We want what eludes us, and that is the source of these feelings.

You're just mistaking lust for something more.


The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[Thundercat]

Attention *****s are a tough breed. Typically, they're not girls you want to get involved with in a serious relationship because they WILL cheat on you, no matter how fly you are. It's just in their nature (creating drama with a boyfriend is just annother way for them to get attention).

My advice to you would be to make a clean break and save your heart for girls that deserve it. Turn these girls in to F-Buddies or something and move on emotionally.

As far as creating attraction goes, put them in situations where they have to compete for your attention. This is tough, because you have to make sure you're viewed by them as the prize, that you have some type of social value, and it's in their best interest to get YOUR attention.

Sometimes jealousy plotlines (a Mystery Method term) can be used to great success in this situation. Or ignoring them when you've established high social value is good too.

But either way, you're playing with fire and will get burned. Best to move on if you can.

Thundercat

 

[defiancy]

I had to deal with an AW about 2 months ago at school

Once I knew she was an AW..i said screw it and didn't care about girls for a while

I guess that AW was a good practice of my DJing though because I learned how to deal with girls even more...

*oh yea by the way dont even bother with the AW because in the end they will lose interest

Let them burn in hell

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by ImSoHorny005
Sh!t, sh!t, sh!t. I realised there were 3 girls in my life I really felt STRONG feelings for (yes, even guys in my age do ) and they were all ATTENTION WH*RES / sunshine girls and I'm pretty sure I will feel it again as soon as another AW appears..... this means I am FVCKED!!!

You´re not fvcked as long as you know what kind of girl you´re dealing with. Usually very insecure or naive guys fall in love with an Aw. Time to grow up!

Originally posted by ImSoHorny005
I need some ideas to deal with AW's, how to tell if they're interested (impossible?) and how to trigger attraction... my usual DJ behaviour that works on other girls just doesn't work on them. FVCK!

Do you need some ideas in how to deal with them? Do a research here and you´ll see that the best way to deal with them is by keeping distance!

Originally posted by Thundercat
Attention *****s are a tough breed. Typically, they're not girls you want to get involved with in a serious relationship because they WILL cheat on you, no matter how fly you are. It's just in their nature (creating drama with a boyfriend is just annother way for them to get attention).

My advice to you would be to make a clean break and save your heart for girls that deserve it. Turn these girls in to F-Buddies or something and move on emotionally.

As far as creating attraction goes, put them in situations where they have to compete for your attention. This is tough, because you have to make sure you're viewed by them as the prize, that you have some type of social value, and it's in their best interest to get YOUR attention.

Sometimes jealousy plotlines (a Mystery Method term) can be used to great success in this situation. Or ignoring them when you've established high social value is good too.

But either way, you're playing with fire and will get burned. Best to move on if you can.

Thundercat

Great Thunder! You know what you´re talking about.

 

[Broham]

I'd say 75% of attractive girls/women are AW's. I'd love to see a study done cuz I bet that figure is higher. It's because AFCs keep fueling the fire by putting them on a pedestal and bowing down to them like their God. To make matters worse, their friends/families think they are entilted to the best/richest/hottest guys just because of their looks. It makes me sick, but its the truth. How to deal with em-- Don't give them attention.....and make them work for yours. Every AW is different so you gotta modify your style, but after while you'll get it.