Here's Some Background,
There is this HB9 at work that I've been seeing. We've gone out (never completely 1 on 1), had a good time did some making out. She does has a "bf" she says she doesn't like anymore but still lives with him, but shes let it be known that she likes me. Last week we split from our group and she seemed really into me, we almost f@#%##.
But last night I think I lowered her attraction to me perhaps. She invited me to hit the town with her, "bf" guy, her friend, and my female friend from work. I didn't really want to go because i failed to see any advantage in going and I wanted to show her that I wouldn't always be easy to hang out with, but she kept asking and I decided to go.
So my female friend picks me up to go to HB9's place. During the drive she says HB9 also likes my female friends brother. That's fine I suppose, but I asked my female friend NOT to invite her bro along to make things easier for me.
So we get to HB9's house and immediately she asks my friend where her brother is....thats great to hear right off the bat. We have some drinks and hit the bars. I had a good time with them at the bar and snuck a couple kisses...then my friends brother shows up. I start getting ignored and HB9 starts dancing with him, I shouldn't be getting too upset but this starts getting to me...I know she likes him too.
Really I wouldn't be too bothered but you have to keep in mind I might have had too much to drink by 2am. When we leave the bar I lost my cool a little. I tell HB9 so you really like her brother eh? She says yeah but I really like you too. I told her well go on and have fun with him, clearly she can see I got jealous and that's what I don't like about this. I think that sort of thing might really turn a girl off.
So now I'm not sure what to do. Like I said, from everything I know this girl likes me...and that other guy too. I was doing pretty well keeping her interested in me but I think I lost some points.
I was thinking I should maybe ask her to do something one on one for once and see what she says. My other idea is talk to her and say hey maybe we shouldn't go out anymore, were co workers and this is all very complicated.
What do you guys think? I'm not pursuing her long term but I do like this girl.
There is this HB9 at work that I've been seeing. We've gone out (never completely 1 on 1), had a good time did some making out. She does has a "bf" she says she doesn't like anymore but still lives with him, but shes let it be known that she likes me. Last week we split from our group and she seemed really into me, we almost f@#%##.
But last night I think I lowered her attraction to me perhaps. She invited me to hit the town with her, "bf" guy, her friend, and my female friend from work. I didn't really want to go because i failed to see any advantage in going and I wanted to show her that I wouldn't always be easy to hang out with, but she kept asking and I decided to go.
So my female friend picks me up to go to HB9's place. During the drive she says HB9 also likes my female friends brother. That's fine I suppose, but I asked my female friend NOT to invite her bro along to make things easier for me.
So we get to HB9's house and immediately she asks my friend where her brother is....thats great to hear right off the bat. We have some drinks and hit the bars. I had a good time with them at the bar and snuck a couple kisses...then my friends brother shows up. I start getting ignored and HB9 starts dancing with him, I shouldn't be getting too upset but this starts getting to me...I know she likes him too.
Really I wouldn't be too bothered but you have to keep in mind I might have had too much to drink by 2am. When we leave the bar I lost my cool a little. I tell HB9 so you really like her brother eh? She says yeah but I really like you too. I told her well go on and have fun with him, clearly she can see I got jealous and that's what I don't like about this. I think that sort of thing might really turn a girl off.
So now I'm not sure what to do. Like I said, from everything I know this girl likes me...and that other guy too. I was doing pretty well keeping her interested in me but I think I lost some points.
I was thinking I should maybe ask her to do something one on one for once and see what she says. My other idea is talk to her and say hey maybe we shouldn't go out anymore, were co workers and this is all very complicated.
What do you guys think? I'm not pursuing her long term but I do like this girl.
