Daily Approach journal#2

[Bishop]

After reading another journal in the bible I was inspired to start my own. This is exactly what I need to break from my habit of getting a few numbers and then rejected. After I get rejection I go to sleep for a month or two wrapped in self pity. Anyways my goal is to reach 40 approaches in roughly 40 days. Since I struggle with any improvised conversation its going to script for the most part. Hey hows it going? What’s your name? Where u from? What brings you out? What’s your number? For my sake I honestly hope I can keep it up.

Approach 1 on September 03, 2003

At subway station coming how from work walking down stairs see girls peripheral vision looking in my direction. At main level she goes to the shop the exact same time my bus comes. Look at my bus then make eye contact with her so I walk over and start script, I’d say shes a 7. Didn’t retain a word she said because of my nerves and I said can I have your number instead of demanding it. Got number and missed my bus which is fitting because I use the bus as an excuse earlier in the day. I’ll call in 2 days

 

[John Juan]

Congrats you got the number!

-jlc

 

[Bishop]

Approch 2 September 4, 2003
Walking home on my street I see some girl coming in my direction. This girl was on another level at say about a low 9, she was fit wearing this dark grey jean outfit. Anyway I fumble through the script, she ended up saying no. Yo I thought no was to much for girls to handle? It didn’t bother me at all, found it kind of strange she has been living a couple doors down and I was clueless. Also said hey hows it going to some other girl earlier in the day. She didn’t respond at all.

 

[Bishop]

Approach 3 on September 5,2004
On one of my regular walks I come to intersection and there is this girl in a pink top and black pants . I made eye contact and then went towards.

Me: hey how’s it going?
Her: (mumbles somthing)
Me: what’s your name?
Her: why do u want to know?
Me: I’d like to know who im talking too.
Her: Well I don’t give out that information.
Me: don’t u know a stranger just a friend u haven’t met.
Her: I don’t meet new people.

I think the standard approach is different for ghetto girls. Maybe next time I should be rude and say why do u ask stupid questions? Or a smart ass and say why do u answer a question with a question. What do u guys think?

 

[Ashlee Angel]

Originally posted by Bishop
Approach 3 on September 5,2004
On one of my regular walks I come to intersection and there is this girl in a pink top and black pants . I made eye contact and then went towards.

Me: hey how’s it going?
Her: (mumbles somthing)
Me: what’s your name?
Her: why do u want to know?
Me: I’d like to know who im talking too.
Her: Well I don’t give out that information.
Me: don’t u know a stranger just a friend u haven’t met.
Her: I don’t meet new people.

I think the standard approach is different for ghetto girls. Maybe next time I should be rude and say why do u ask stupid questions? Or a smart ass and say why do u answer a question with a question. What do u guys think?

Fvck her playboy keep up the good work.

 

[RawkinKaoticStyle]

thank that girl man

now you have a ***** shield experence

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Originally posted by Bishop
Me: hey how’s it going?
Her: (mumbles somthing)
Me: what’s your name?
Her: why do u want to know?
Me: I’d like to know who im talking too.
Her: Well I don’t give out that information.
Me: don’t u know a stranger just a friend u haven’t met.
Her: I don’t meet new people.

The next time you encounter one of these broads, respond with this:

You: what's your name?

Her: why you want to know?(with a attitude)

You: I just bought a female puppy and want to give it a name!

Her: f**k you!

You: F**k you to with yo rude ass!(smiling)

I know some of the DJ's on here will tell you to walk away but hell, you might as well go out smoking.

 

[BMW]

good work man, sometimes a script is better. Be sure to take pics of these girls also. You can do it secretly. They now sell pen cameras which you put in your front shirt pocket.

 

[Bishop]

Man I had a bit of a confidence relapse. Its not because of the ***** and next time I will tell them off. So I went MIA from my mission for about three weeks. Anyways here are some more growing pains I hope.

Approach 4 on September 16
On my way to continue job training I see this girl in a black top and blue jeans at the bus stop in the morning. I make eye contact with her as I’m crossing the street towards the bus stop and take a position behind her. I’m hesitating at this point thinking about going for it and then she does a little submissive dance by adjusting her jacket and showing me her ass. I go a bit to the side to get a better look and man is this girl ugly. Her face was so bad that her OK body didn’t matter. Anyways I go through my script and I get some lame excuse that she doesn’t have number. The fact that this girl was struggle to hit a 4 on my scale and wasn’t throwing her self at me was disconcerting. During our short convo I had to repeat my self many times. I have to increase my volume.

Approach 5 on September 18
At the subway station platform on my to a marital arts class this girl in dark blue jeans and I think a baby blue top passes. She was about 3 metres down from me reading some book. I would rate her about a 7 and she glance in my direction so I said why not. The train comes I set beside her and ask her how’s the book going. The book was written about or some serial killer. Looking back I should have made some jokes about her trying to seduce and kill me. I was a bit nervous during the convo but I though it was better then usual. I was loud and I don’t think I had to repeat myself once. Ok get this she gives me her cell and her home phone number. I think to myself this girl is really into me. During my martial arts class I was all over the fvcking place with energy.

Approach 6 on September 20
Coming home from work still on a confidence high from approach number 5 at my beloved station sitting on the stairs waiting for my bus. Some 7.5 sits on the opposite side from me. I started up the convo and in my opinion it went pretty well. I was loud throughout but she gave me the I don’t have a number excuse. I was really proud of myself though.

Sunday rolls around and I’m excited/nervous to call girl number five. So get the business card with her two numbers from my wallet and call the home number which was busy. So I tell my self ill try again in 30min and If I don’t get her I’ll try the cell. 30min passes and I still get the busy signal. I call the cell and the automated operator comes on telling me the number is disconnected. I think to my self that’s strange you usual get a different response for a cell phone. Then I’m like wait a minute no one gets the same area code for the city on a celly unless they have had the same phone for five years. I call the home number to make sure and some old foreign lady picks up telling me I have the wrong number. All I could say was THAT FVCKING *****. She couldn’t just give me one fake number no no that’s not good enough to throw me, she had to give me two them. But it’s all good now I really understand why guys hate that show much. It’s a low blow, you feel like you accomplished something and you feel good and then it’s nothing. Its pretty funny and vexing at the same time. Anyways that ***** can’t phase me
Well 6 down 34 to go.

**** ill write less next time

 

[Walden]

ding!

Dude good effort I'm enjoying reading this.

When I don't get a repsonse to a Hi or something I just mentally think "ding!", which is the sound of a guy gently bouncing off a b*tch sheild.

 

[Tiger Eye]

Re: ding!

Originally posted by Walden
When I don't get a repsonse to a Hi or something I just mentally think "ding!", which is the sound of a guy gently bouncing off a b*tch sheild.

LOL... great idea, thanks Walden

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Bishop

Me: hey how’s it going?
Her: (mumbles somthing)
Me: what’s your name?
Her: why do u want to know?
Me: I’d like to know who im talking too.
Her: Well I don’t give out that information.
Me: don’t u know a stranger just a friend u haven’t met.
Her: I don’t meet new people.

You: You should...it might help you develop some social skills. Have a nice day.

(smile is important here)

Don't sweat it, though...there could be any range of reasons she didn't want that interruption right then. Might not have been you at all. And if it was, she did herself the favor of screening herself out.

 

[squirrels]

Damn proxy's got me double-posting again.

Ignore this message.

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