Years later, I still agree with the majority of what I wrote in this thread.
However, the nature of Woman no longer concerns me. What does concern me is the nature of Man. And the nature of Woman can only be discovered through the true nature of Man.
You can only understand Woman to the DEGREE to which you understand your own Masculinity—yourself!
So if you want to understand women, first seek to understand yourself. Then the understanding of women naturally follows.
Be warned!
If you seek to understand women from women, you will only be looking into a mirror. All you’ll find is a reflection—a replica of your current self.
And another replica will you see if you become what you think women want. Another version of yourself.
Instead, become who you are. Nothing else matters.
Embrace Masculinity, and the mirror will reveal the truth before you. When the truth is revealed, you have sparked intimacy! Your sexualities have collided.
Let’s find out why…
Women Are Mirrors
Desdinova, you said:
“Women will never completely drop the Princess Persona. They will only drop it around people who bring out their real personalities.”
I agree. And I did agree.
But understand that I live in MY world. That means that the women I interact with always drop the Princess Persona. If they refuse, I kick them out. Period.
An interesting experience for me on this topic is this: Only after I broke-up with a girlfriend did I discover how much of *****y, princess she was.
Why? Because whenever we were together, we were interacting. Meaning, she was a little girl. She was a woman. I never saw how she treated my Nice Guy friends when I wasn’t there.
After I broke it off, my best friend was relieved. “Well, that’s the end of the *****ing.” I was shocked. I never saw it! All my friends interfaced with her Princess Persona. Not me.
Lesson Learned: Always observe how a woman interacts with everyone else she meets. It’s good to be self-absorbed, but still observant.
Women Are Children
OrlandoDaHash, you altered my meaning here:
“Man is action and woman is reaction and women do react depending on how you treat them,
but the only thing that is revealed by this is that their true nature is in part submissive and reactive and nothing more.”
Not so. Do you know why it reveals more of their true nature than that they’re submissive and reactive? Do you know why it reveals that women are children?
Look. If you want to reveal the true woman, what’s important is how a woman reacts to a guy.
Is she acting (as in putting on a show)? Or is she being? That’s the question. What’s happening to the mirror?
Watch!
First, we place a Nice Guy before a hot chick. You notice how he behaves and treats her. And you already know the
Picture of Woman in his head shows a goddess.
Why do we know it is not true to nature?
Look how the woman reacts. What happens to the mirror? It bends and spirals, casting the Nice Guy reflection back in all its contortions. Think of those mirrors at fairs that make you look fat or tall or hazy or smudged.
That is what a Nice Guy does with women. Stands in front of an altering mirror.
Second, we place the same hot chick before a Masculine Man. Do you notice how he behaves and treats her? You have seen a man, haven’t you? (If not, look in the mirror when you’re finished reading this!) When we look in a man’s head, we see that the
Picture of Woman shows a little five-year-old girl.
Why do we know it is true to nature?
Look how the woman reacts. What happens to the mirror? It produces a clear reflection. Sexuality is reflected back at the man. He sees femininity—the child spirit.
How do we know it is true?
Because her feelings are uninhibited and free. She's no longer trying to fit into a form that was too large for her.
Embrace Masculinity and You Will See Femininity
If you have embraced your sexuality—Masculinity, what will you see when you look in the mirror? Masculinity! And if you are androgynous, what will you see when you look in the mirror? Androgyny!
So it is with women. What will you see when you put Masculinity in her? Femininity! And what will you see if you put androgyny in her? Not Femininity.
“Half of a woman’s charm is an illusion”—T. Williams
!GEORGE GORDON!