harrison9876
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Alright...not sure if this is the right area to post in...but...
I started a new school (Film/Theatre) around 8 weeks ago. There was this really cute Spanish girl working the front desk, who is also a student, and in my class. I was guessing she is around 25 or so.
I thought there was a high IL...but being "out of the game" for a while, got a bit confused in the process...
First day of class she sits next to me and starts Speaking Spanish to her friend behind me...after trying to determine what they are taking about, HB turns to me:
HB - "Oh...you don't speak Spanish do you?"
ME - (slyly with a smile) "No. Why...are you talking about me?"
HB - "yes".
I then turn to her friend:
ME - "Everything she is saying about me is ALL TRUE (again with a smile).
Both girls laugh.
I could not get a lot of convo in simply because class started, and pretty much everyone bolted after class anyway.
I only see this girl once a week, so on to week #2
I enter the building and immediately get a big smile from HB. I approach her and we starting hitting it up. Most of the convo was initiated by her...asking a lot of personal questions...which I took as high IL. Another girl joined in the convo, so it ended up being a 3-way...(no pun intended) ha ha...
HB was asking so many questions, that the other girl turned to her and jokingly said, "HB...why all the questions? Why don't you just ask him to marry you?"
I figured if another girl is seeing some sort of IL, then I must be right....right?
In the convo, we are both guessing each of us is around 25 or so...turns out she is 20. Though I "look" like I am 25, and dress cool as shyte, I am older...so the age difference is around 15 years. I have dated older women...but never younger...
A bit more convo in class...but she did not stick around afterwards, and neither did I.
Missed class week #3
On to week #4
I am have been playing it a bit aloof...and figure I probably have time with this girl...giving just enough attention to peak interest.
Soooooo..I enter the school as normal, similar chit chat...but...I suddenly got the vibe like she has been talking to me not because she had high IL...but because she was bored. She seemed in a bad mood as well, so I left her alone.
I do not know anything about Spanish women...but what I can tell you is that this girl appears to be very shy. Just in observing how she is around class...she really doesn't talk to a lot of people...so it is hard for me to judge if this girl has low IL...or is just shy.
Week #5
I hit her up as normal, right before class. I knew it was her birthday was the day before, so I asked her how it went. She did not do anything. Turns out her BF (who was 30 year old) who she was madly in love with and was going to move from Spain to the US, broke up with her in a text a few weeks previous.
So, basically the first 2 weeks I thought she had HIGH IL, she was making arrangements for her BF to come live with her. Which means I was dead wrong in the IL area.
During the break in class, I was sitting on a bench...she sat down...and though I tried initiating more convo, she was more interested in texting on her phone. I ended up just getting up and walking away to go talk to other people.
I was about to ask everyone on this site..."hey guys, this girl is shy, and confused by her actions...thoughts?"...but...I think in typing this thread, I think I answered my own question.
GOOD POINTS - I hit up every girl in class, regardless of interest level. I stand out because of my sense of humour, the way I dress, and how I interact with people.
BAD POINTS - Though the above is good, my social status is not high...everyone at this school know each other as they have been there for a year, so in a way, I feel a bit of of place...like the "new guy". My kino has been LOW with pretty much everyone - which is a result of being out of practice (recently out of a long term relationship).
Anyway....
With this girl specifically, I assume, stay away, talk with other girls, if she has an interest, she will make it obvious...yes?
I started a new school (Film/Theatre) around 8 weeks ago. There was this really cute Spanish girl working the front desk, who is also a student, and in my class. I was guessing she is around 25 or so.
I thought there was a high IL...but being "out of the game" for a while, got a bit confused in the process...
First day of class she sits next to me and starts Speaking Spanish to her friend behind me...after trying to determine what they are taking about, HB turns to me:
HB - "Oh...you don't speak Spanish do you?"
ME - (slyly with a smile) "No. Why...are you talking about me?"
HB - "yes".
I then turn to her friend:
ME - "Everything she is saying about me is ALL TRUE (again with a smile).
Both girls laugh.
I could not get a lot of convo in simply because class started, and pretty much everyone bolted after class anyway.
I only see this girl once a week, so on to week #2
I enter the building and immediately get a big smile from HB. I approach her and we starting hitting it up. Most of the convo was initiated by her...asking a lot of personal questions...which I took as high IL. Another girl joined in the convo, so it ended up being a 3-way...(no pun intended) ha ha...
HB was asking so many questions, that the other girl turned to her and jokingly said, "HB...why all the questions? Why don't you just ask him to marry you?"
I figured if another girl is seeing some sort of IL, then I must be right....right?
In the convo, we are both guessing each of us is around 25 or so...turns out she is 20. Though I "look" like I am 25, and dress cool as shyte, I am older...so the age difference is around 15 years. I have dated older women...but never younger...
A bit more convo in class...but she did not stick around afterwards, and neither did I.
Missed class week #3
On to week #4
I am have been playing it a bit aloof...and figure I probably have time with this girl...giving just enough attention to peak interest.
Soooooo..I enter the school as normal, similar chit chat...but...I suddenly got the vibe like she has been talking to me not because she had high IL...but because she was bored. She seemed in a bad mood as well, so I left her alone.
I do not know anything about Spanish women...but what I can tell you is that this girl appears to be very shy. Just in observing how she is around class...she really doesn't talk to a lot of people...so it is hard for me to judge if this girl has low IL...or is just shy.
Week #5
I hit her up as normal, right before class. I knew it was her birthday was the day before, so I asked her how it went. She did not do anything. Turns out her BF (who was 30 year old) who she was madly in love with and was going to move from Spain to the US, broke up with her in a text a few weeks previous.
So, basically the first 2 weeks I thought she had HIGH IL, she was making arrangements for her BF to come live with her. Which means I was dead wrong in the IL area.
During the break in class, I was sitting on a bench...she sat down...and though I tried initiating more convo, she was more interested in texting on her phone. I ended up just getting up and walking away to go talk to other people.
I was about to ask everyone on this site..."hey guys, this girl is shy, and confused by her actions...thoughts?"...but...I think in typing this thread, I think I answered my own question.
GOOD POINTS - I hit up every girl in class, regardless of interest level. I stand out because of my sense of humour, the way I dress, and how I interact with people.
BAD POINTS - Though the above is good, my social status is not high...everyone at this school know each other as they have been there for a year, so in a way, I feel a bit of of place...like the "new guy". My kino has been LOW with pretty much everyone - which is a result of being out of practice (recently out of a long term relationship).
Anyway....
With this girl specifically, I assume, stay away, talk with other girls, if she has an interest, she will make it obvious...yes?
