Current sticking point: suggestions?

[Buddha_Mind]

Very relevant and awesome thread. Squirrels, amazing advice.

I have met these same barriers, and I see clearly from some comments in this thread my mistakes and areas of improvement.

One quote specifically stands out above all others:

It's not just the kiss itself. You're selling an entire experience, from the context of the date, to how you might relate to each other, to your confidence with her. The setup is everything. The kiss and anything after is just a reward.

Sell the experience.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Hansol,
Just relax,you both sound rather shy,just lie back and enjoy the date.Maybe go to the Movies,hold her hand,believe me it will just happen.