Culturally insensitive...

[Doc_DJ]

Hello all.

This is my first post, and I wish it was some nugget of knowledge that some of you have posted or a lay report, but its not. I am peeved off, call me culturally insensitive but eh, I'm pissed right now and I don't care. I have been doing the C&F, flirting, etc. with this cute Indian girl. Well asked her out and she says she can't date cause of the whole arranged marriage cultural thing (she isnt' lying she really has never dated, she's 22). What the #$%#$%. Have any of you experienced this? What do you Indian guys think, I mean is this insurmountable? Oh by the way she is pentacostal christian too (what the heck kind of combination is that Indian Pentacostal?), and ONS are not very likely with her. Well, as it is I am nexting her unless someone gives me good reason to try something different. It's almost like racism, damn social institutions!!!

 

[Doppel]

If you are looking for ass, look elsewhere. Indian girls do not put out until they are married. I know Indian guys who have gone out with Indian girls for 1 year+ and all they have done is make out. Indian women also care an INSANE amount about what other people think of them. If an Indian girl is with her Indian friends, she will snub the **** out of you even if she thinks you are mad attractive. It's a game that most of them play together. They go out to the club and they don't dance with any guys. If any one in the group dances with a guy, she will be labeled a huge slut and no Indian girl wants that.

I hope that gives you a better perspective on what they are like. I am an Indian guy and I don't bother wasting my time with them. Supposedly, they make good wives, but once I'm ready to get married I will have tons of money and why would I choose an Indian girl when Indian girls never showed me a good time back in the college days when I wasn't a baller? Also, Indian women are completely subservient and boring. When they get older and become wives, they just sit around the house all day long looking like **** and cooking good meals. You will NEVER have to worry about an Indian women going out and cheating on you. I don't know if that floats your boat, but I don't think it does it for me right now.

 

[Ice Cold]

I know an exchange student who can get executed if she's found out having sex.

She's gonna get stitched up before going to the old country...

Cool eh?

 

[DesiDJ]

Hey it is not racism.

It is a pity though that Indian parents raise their daughters to be these nice girls who only marry and have kids. For them sex is only to make babies.

Don't waste your time on Indian girls it is a waste of time.

I am Indian and I stopped trying for them a long time ago. They have a lot of cultural hang-ups and religious hang-ups.

They are not worth the pain.

NEXT and happy hunting.

 

[the_gunslinger]

Part of it might be the Hindu religion. As my d!ckhead ex flatmate once explained it to me:

"Im not allowed to go out with anyone that isnt indian or else i get thrown out of the family"

pretty harsh

There are some fine Muslim girls out there though. Im currently seeing a pakistani girl called Habiba, we get a lot of glares from massive asian lads when we go out, but its worth it

Ice cold: LMAO

 

[Doc_DJ]

cleared my head...

Thanks for the input guys, after some loud senseless techno music and some thinking I am definitely nexting her, but I will use her as practice on my ****y funny/flirting I wonder if nice/religious type girls are even worth going after. You know the types...either they come from a strict family/religion/culture/ another planet whatever, oh well experience shall tell I guess.

 

[Doppel]

My parents have no problem with me dating outside my race but we are a very Americanized family. Most Indians I know call me "white washed", etc.

You will have a hard time finding females like this though. Even in my same family, I see my sister's upbringing. She only even considers Indian males. They are completely her preference, etc.

Most Indian males are not taught by their fathers how to get women. Their fathers do not know themselves - They had arranged marriages. They are just told consistently to do well in school and get high paying careers. Traditional Indian females seek men like this in College so they can have them on a leash and make fun of them with their girlfriends or call them cute. Then they marry them or marry someone their parents tell them to. You can see why they would turn down alpha Indian males... they are extremely afraid of them.

http://www.shaadi.com/ D:

 

[Biz]

Originally posted by Doppel
If you are looking for ass, look elsewhere. Indian girls do not put out until they are married. I know Indian guys who have gone out with Indian girls for 1 year+ and all they have done is make out. Indian women also care an INSANE amount about what other people think of them. If an Indian girl is with her Indian friends, she will snub the **** out of you even if she thinks you are mad attractive. It's a game that most of them play together. They go out to the club and they don't dance with any guys. If any one in the group dances with a guy, she will be labeled a huge slut and no Indian girl wants that.

I hope that gives you a better perspective on what they are like. I am an Indian guy and I don't bother wasting my time with them. Supposedly, they make good wives, but once I'm ready to get married I will have tons of money and why would I choose an Indian girl when Indian girls never showed me a good time back in the college days when I wasn't a baller? Also, Indian women are completely subservient and boring. When they get older and become wives, they just sit around the house all day long looking like **** and cooking good meals. You will NEVER have to worry about an Indian women going out and cheating on you. I don't know if that floats your boat, but I don't think it does it for me right now.

Haha...for real? my gf who's indian put out in 2 weeks...but i guess she's one of those rare ones.....

 

[Doppel]

Some are like that. I know one who boned like 4 white guys last year at College. A real rarity though and usually they are a huge rebellious slut or an annoying prude. There's not too many happy medians.

 

[jakethasnake]

This is the case for any girl of Eastern extraction (meaning non-Western European). I know several Middle Eastern/South Asian/East Asian girls that are veritably PROSTITUTES. I mean total focking w-hores. I know girls that are supposed to be devout Muslims that sleep around. I've even met and talked to some prostitutes that were practicing Muslims and Christians.


It's the violent conflict between their repressive background and the comparatively ultra-liberal world that awaits them when they come to the West.

 

[Biz]

Originally posted by Doppel
Some are like that. I know one who boned like 4 white guys last year at College. A real rarity though and usually they are a huge rebellious slut or an annoying prude. There's not too many happy medians.

yea...i guess there aren't that many....most of the indian girls i hear about are either all just prude *****es or just flat out slutty....but i guess i'm glad i found the median