ink_wizard
Don Juan
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Hey all,
Its been a while since i have been on here and i have this interesting situation that i would like your opinion on and some advice.
Im currently enrolled in a community college to study a short term course (will be finished in a few months) and i have recently developed a big crush on one of my lecturers there. Im 30 and shes 40, single with 2 kids and very good looking. When i have my classes with her i do flirt slightly nothing to full on and she sort of reciprocates back but i dont over do it because i dont want the rest of the class to catch on and i dont want to get her in any trouble. I always catch her staring at me when im not looking, and constantly smiling at me. We have an amazing connection and seem to have a lot of things in common, i always sit and chat with her on my lunch breaks and we both have a good time talking and get on like a house on fire.
Recently i was talking to her about facebook and she said she was fine with me adding her on there so i did. Since then we have been interacting a lot over it, commenting on each others pictures and posts and sometimes on FB messenger. Just the other day we got chatting over it and i told her how much i enjoy her classes and that she is an amazing teacher and a very attractive one. She said she would love to hang out with me after i graduate and get to know each other more and that she finds me intriguing apparently lol. I was so happy to hear this and i mutually agreed on it.
And now i cant get her out of my head....I dont know if im reading in to this too much and she's just being really friendly because she is a very friendly, caring person in general or if she's actually interested in me? I really like her and dont want to screw this up and sometimes all i want to do is talk to her everyday but i know this will come off as needy, but how do i resist the urge to keep contacting her because obvisiously we cant do anything now since shes still technically my teacher? Ugh i dont know what to do! is it ok to keep flirting with her or should i stop? and do you also think i should private message her more??? HELP!
Its been a while since i have been on here and i have this interesting situation that i would like your opinion on and some advice.
Im currently enrolled in a community college to study a short term course (will be finished in a few months) and i have recently developed a big crush on one of my lecturers there. Im 30 and shes 40, single with 2 kids and very good looking. When i have my classes with her i do flirt slightly nothing to full on and she sort of reciprocates back but i dont over do it because i dont want the rest of the class to catch on and i dont want to get her in any trouble. I always catch her staring at me when im not looking, and constantly smiling at me. We have an amazing connection and seem to have a lot of things in common, i always sit and chat with her on my lunch breaks and we both have a good time talking and get on like a house on fire.
Recently i was talking to her about facebook and she said she was fine with me adding her on there so i did. Since then we have been interacting a lot over it, commenting on each others pictures and posts and sometimes on FB messenger. Just the other day we got chatting over it and i told her how much i enjoy her classes and that she is an amazing teacher and a very attractive one. She said she would love to hang out with me after i graduate and get to know each other more and that she finds me intriguing apparently lol. I was so happy to hear this and i mutually agreed on it.
And now i cant get her out of my head....I dont know if im reading in to this too much and she's just being really friendly because she is a very friendly, caring person in general or if she's actually interested in me? I really like her and dont want to screw this up and sometimes all i want to do is talk to her everyday but i know this will come off as needy, but how do i resist the urge to keep contacting her because obvisiously we cant do anything now since shes still technically my teacher? Ugh i dont know what to do! is it ok to keep flirting with her or should i stop? and do you also think i should private message her more??? HELP!