The movies are often giving a bad example of how to get a women. American movies at least.
I was watching Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon last night and I noticed during the scene where Dark Cloud (the rebellious nomad) was courting Jen Yu (the governor's daughter), it actually depicted a realistic portrayal of what it takes to attract a girl. He started out by stealing her comb and then played a long, drawn out, game of keep away and teasing her in the process. He kept saying, "go back to your mother." He kept it in a playful manner and treated her well but made sure he had the upper hand. He wasn't afraid to meet her aggression with his own confident defense. She keeps telling him to give her the comb back and he said "nobody tells me what to do," and doesn't give it back to her. Of course, she ends up completely smitten by him.
I didn't notice this until I came to learn the ways of the DJ.
Hooray for the Chinese!
I was watching Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon last night and I noticed during the scene where Dark Cloud (the rebellious nomad) was courting Jen Yu (the governor's daughter), it actually depicted a realistic portrayal of what it takes to attract a girl. He started out by stealing her comb and then played a long, drawn out, game of keep away and teasing her in the process. He kept saying, "go back to your mother." He kept it in a playful manner and treated her well but made sure he had the upper hand. He wasn't afraid to meet her aggression with his own confident defense. She keeps telling him to give her the comb back and he said "nobody tells me what to do," and doesn't give it back to her. Of course, she ends up completely smitten by him.
I didn't notice this until I came to learn the ways of the DJ.
Hooray for the Chinese!