CRITICAL DECISION..GO or NOGO?

[innovator99.jd]

Thanks to everyone that responded to this message. It shows a great deal of experience and knowledge among all the bros. Thanks again!

 

[JJohn]

Not much of an input, I know, but....


This is some crazy sh!t.

 

[Vidrio]

I would have her explain just to satisfy my curiosity(even though whatever she says will likely be bs) and then I'd dump her.

 

[EastWind]

Alright Men…here it is.

1)I have always come to the experts in regards to finalizing my decision because your input has always been spot on and extremely helpful. Please read the info below and let me know your opinion. As always, thank you for your advice and time as it will greatly impact my decision in a couple of hours.

2)My Stats: 26 years old, never married, no kids, great job, in excellent shape,

3)Her Stats: 30 years old, divorced, two kids

I stopped reading here.

RUN.

 

[Purefilth]

Well, if you do what you want to do it will be the right decision.
It may not be the nicest one, but it will be the right one.

Because if you do what you want, then you will have no regrets.

The internet can't decide or act for you, you have to do whatever it is you choose.

So, think, decide what YOU WANT and regret nothing.

 

[bigneil]

I stopped reading here.

RUN.

Yes, the OP is the better catch. He's in his prime. She's way past prime.

Don't settle for that.

 

[JoeMarron]

*sigh of relief* I thought you were gonna devolve into a save a ho mindset for a second there lol. Anyways why end it when she's treating you like a King? Go ahead and let her shower you with gifts, sex and attention while you do your own thing. Detach emotionally from her and go spin plates.

 

[innovator99.jd]

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[BeDJ]

Yes, the OP is the better catch. He's in his prime. She's way past prime.

Don't settle for that.

I disagree.

Aim Low. Reach Your Goals. Avoid Disappointment.

 

[Swampcamel]

Sounds like this girl has a sick desperation in her life. Desperate about you, desperate about herself in the way she abuses herself. Some man might fix her, but if you're not seriously head over heels wowed gotta rope this one in over her, you probably don't want to be the one to do that, cause she'll probably **** with your other plates and cause drama in the future.

 

[innovator99.jd]

Swamp Camel,

Spot on man. That was pure poetry..but elaborate this statement please.

"...but if you're not seriously head over heels wowed gotta rope this one in over her..."

Did you mean crazy about her?....wont that give her a big head and false confidence.

 

[Swampcamel]

Haha, I mean, if you're not crazy about this girl and looking to commit monogamously to her, then don't make her your project. That project requires exclusive, committed attention, and if you don't give it to her, she will cause drama in your life. She's probably very self conscious and super anxious about your attention, and I doubt any amount of pandering will relieve that for her.

I definitely don't mean act crazy about her, especially if you're not.

 

[innovator99.jd]

" She's probably very self conscious and super anxious about your attention, and I doubt any amount of pandering will relieve that for her. "


I definitely don't mean act crazy about her, especially if you're not. [/QUOTE]

Bullseye! The quote above is exactly it...youve got some guru skills man.

 

[Gunner26]

Gota say she's seems emotionally damaged judging by how she seems desperate for your attention constantly. That alone would give me reason to dump her.

Surely nobody wants to be skyping/calling another person EVERY evening, and then blowing their friends off for said person. She's so invested in you, you have become her life. That's nigh on creepy and props too you if you can deal with it, however if it were me in your shoes, well I couldn't stand to be the centre of somebody else's life other than my own.

I'd get rid. As Swampcamel said as well, she is a project, and going on what you've said about yourself, you have other more important projects to work on, besides a woman with kids.

Gunner

 

[innovator99.jd]

Gota say she's seems emotionally damaged judging by how she seems desperate for your attention constantly. That alone would give me reason to dump her.

Surely nobody wants to be skyping/calling another person EVERY evening, and then blowing their friends off for said person. She's so invested in you, you have become her life. That's nigh on creepy and props too you if you can deal with it, however if it were me in your shoes, well I couldn't stand to be the centre of somebody else's life other than my own.

I'd get rid. As Swampcamel said as well, she is a project, and going on what you've said about yourself, you have other more important projects to work on, besides a woman with kids.

Gunner

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[VladPatton]

That shıt's bananas! But yeah, she sounds like damaged goods. I had a chick long distance that insisted on talking every night and I became her whole life. Needless to say it bothered the hell out of me and it ended in a big pile of human disaster.

She sounds like she has an addictive personality. Not good. Sadly, those kids were probably conceived while she was in one of her drunken stoopers or high. Speaking of kids, she has two and is not acting very motherly. She'd rather go out and get trashed. I would seriously have a talk with her. Tell her you are not the one for her. Büllṣhit her and tell her you'll be friends, yadd, yadda, all that crap, and just disappear. Could even be BPD. Obsessive for sure. RUN, Forrest, RUN!