Creepy guys - DONT BE ONE (you probly are one and don't know it!)

[skip to my lou]

no one want's to read long posts, so, let me make it simple for you guys:

wasn't life better when u didn't think about "interest level" and "****y/funny" and "neg hitting" and "HB this HB that" and "kino"????


sosuave is a great place to learn what NOT to do..........but honesly, its a horrible place to learn what TO do!

no amount of writing can teach u how to act or how to be around girls, the best possible thing to do, as i learned (and i learned this before i ever heard of sosuave or any written seduciton material), is to just experience things, go to clubs/parties, go on dates, and do whatevr the hell u want and see what works for u!

CALL HER AND TELL HER U MISS HER!!! wtf i did that so many times to gfs and they loved it!!!

BE SWEET, BE ROMANTIC, BE YOUR FCUKIN SELF!

Everythign u wanna do, u wanna do for a reason, and you SHOULD DO IT!!!




here is the kicker though, which most guys who arent good with girls fcuk up on:

DONT COME OFF CREEPY!!!

creepy = unexperienced = lonely = desperate = socially retarded


the above formula is the worst nightmare for any girl..........if she thinks u are the least bit creepy, then u have no chance, PERIOD

how does one eliminate creepiness?? GO OUT AND EXPRIENCE LIFE - once u get accustomed to how everything goes down in the social world, ur creepiness will kill itself and u will become the coolest guy u ever knew

if u are not getting out much, the more u dont get out, the creepier u get

creepiness is a sure fire way to keep u a virgin/inexperienced

trust me on this 100%< i used to be creepy till i was 18.............and then i just got out, didnt know any tricks/techiniques, and today i stand in front of u at 22 years old, and ive had too much experience and honestly, i wanna just go play video games for a few weeks and not think about girls lol

EXPERIENCE KILLS CREEPINESS

learn from it

 

[dipset]

good post

 

[Rebound Material]

Yea, this is really good advice.

sometimes I do wonder why they banned.

 

[md3sign]

Except without reading a lot of the stuff here tons of guys continue "experiencing" the same patterns over and over wonder wtf is wrong with the world.

I agree go out and live life, but the stuff on this site is invaluable information. Fake it til you make it - when I first started yes I thought all the time about cf, neg hits, kino etc etc. Now it comes second nature - it's ME, the playful me. It's the same thing with anything in life. When you first start learning, you have to go over the basics again and again and again until it comes naturally. Same thing here. Reading all this stuff is still good as long as it's followed by experience. Similarly, experience without any sort of research or critical thinking is trial and error.

 

[bigjohnson]

What a steaming pile of horse****.

 

[sparky0000]

that ain't the skip to my loser that i know. geez, that post actually made more sense than 99% of the normal posts on here. one word for you losers who continue to use those stupid abbreviations - SIMPLICITY. don't make something more difficult than it really is. problem is, you can't sell SIMPLICITY. you can sell a $2000 course on the 119 steps to getting a chub, you can't sell a 10 letter word for more than the cost of a used websters.

 

[rakishness]

I agree 100%

Always remember: If you are too afraid to approach....you are a coward,wuss, and a wimp. And if you do approach...you are a pervert, stalker, or CREEP.

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[bigjohnson]

I you want that advice, subscribe to Cosmo and start watching the Lifetime channel.

 

[rakishness]

It always seems like guys women don't want are the "CREEPS". I wonder how many wealthy men every get called "CREEPS"? I wonder if it affects their game at all. In fact...that R. Kelly guy is a REAL CREEP. I wonder if he has any problem getting laid??????? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

 

[skip to my lou]

It always seems like guys women don't want are the "CREEPS". I wonder how many wealthy men every get called "CREEPS"? I wonder if it affects their game at all. In fact...that R. Kelly guy is a REAL CREEP. I wonder if he has any problem getting laid??????? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

being a creep is one thing - thats the same as being an *******

being CREEPY in how you approach social situations is a whole other thing - this is the thing I am referring to

 

[Chase Dat Skuht]

There is a lot of self improvement that needs to take place before you can go out blindly and just wing it. I do agree, however, that you need to experience what works for you and try a bunch of different things.

Everything that I've learned in my journal (in my sig) is what I have realized what works and what doesnt.

Imagine the naturals, through life they have experienced tons of differnt things and figured out what worked for them. They didn't read anything to learn about it.

 

[banGbro]

BE YOUR FCUKIN SELF!

Manipulative, ass kissing, wimp? Hey baby, you look hot, let me get you an ice cream, would you like a **** too?


Nah man, to every style there must be substance. If you were lacking experience reading body language and trasmitting proper body language, how the **** would you learn it? How the **** would you know there is something called a body language?



Women are great at reading other people, all the player stuff that we study. Men are not. Youre emotional, maybe inside of you there is a woman.

 

[rakishness]

Women are great at reading other people,

Yeah....Women are reaaaaaaaaaaal great at that. Women are especially good at reading womanizers and players!!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[banGbro]

They are, but you missing a point. You took it all out of context, which was women already know what we study.

 

[Bonhomme]

Excellent post!

Just one thing to add (implied in the original post anyway):
trying too hard = creepiness

 

[rakishness]

trying too hard = creepiness

A few more to add:

Being broke=creepiness
Being ugly=creepiness

 

[Luke Skywalker]

GO OUT AND EXPRIENCE LIFE - once u get accustomed to how everything goes down in the social world, ur creepiness will kill itself and u will become the coolest guy u ever knew

I suppose this is the solution you are proposing for creepieness.

So, HOW exactly do you get accustomed to how everything goes down in a social world or what do you mean by that? Everyone on here knows how to talk with people, so what's the point?

 

[banGbro]

Hes an idiot, and a creep.


Creep = someone who got banned from here, had no life, and comes back to make his own rediculous theories that are untested and dont work.

 

[rrrrr]

I suppose this is the solution you are proposing for creepieness.

So, HOW exactly do you get accustomed to how everything goes down in a social world or what do you mean by that? Everyone on here knows how to talk with people, so what's the point?

The conversations you hold are more important...

I can't remember what I was looking for, but I stumbled across a message board site, kinda like this, but was centered on paranormal and unsolved mysteries. Some dude on there started a thread, asking how he could summon a demon to do his bidding, like King Solomon had in the bible, and not all demons are bad... There were plenty of responses to the thread with other creeps with weird little pictures for their icons, like tanks, kittens with guns, weird, creepy sayings and logon names "Evil Santa"???? So that's one type of weird/creepy you should avoid. They all argued back and forth and I couldn't read more than 5 minutes without getting disgusted by the amount of weirdness.

The other weird/creepy is like Robert DeNiro in Taxi Driver... the guy is disconnected from society. He took a girl to a porno movie for a date, she ran out disgusted, and he was like "SORRY, I didn't know any better!" Taxi Driver is a great movie and I recommend it. There are probably people like him on this site, who are trying to fit in, but just don't know how. But to get to the point, if you talk like you have no social life, and have no social skills, don't know how to make friends let alone a girlfriend, you are a "creep." An outsider who is best to be avoided. If you have no life or social skills, or other friends, you will cling to this girl and not let go, then you're stuck on her when she wants to get rid of you.

So to summarize: don't talk about weird, creepy things, don't have a bizarre sense of humor and don't find "Evil Santa" a funny term, don't act like you don't have a social life and can't interact with people.

 

[Last Man Standing]

The "creepiest" phenomena that I have experienced is when a man embraced a hor (a non-virgin) as a "lifetime" mate!!!! That is some strange shyt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!