Boricua_33015
Master Don Juan
I think my natural shyness is making me mysterious to some girls. Lately I have talked to some girls in my classes once or twice, not really trying to mack them but talking about classwork or commenting on the environment and whats happening in our surroundings, but I would use my seductive tone of voice and and be ****y and funny.
The talks werent actual conversations, I was just commenting on things going on in the classroom, being a little ****y and funny, being a lil playful because I can be spontaneous with the things I say and have people laughing. But I dont overdo it. Im not really trying to be a joker. If I just think something is funny and I think other people would find it funny, I would say it. The girls would get noticeably excited and play along or just comment on what I said. My shyness then kicks in and I stop being so playful and then I would stay quiet for some time when im doing my work.
After soem time I would talk to a girl in the class, maybe one of the ones that played along with me and have a little conversation with her. When I mean LITTLE I mean LITTLE. Because I would start off confident in the beginning of the conversation but after a couple lines I just cant do it anymore, my shyness kicks in and I get nervous, my mind cant think of anymore things to say, and I just try to end the conversation soon and fast. Then I just refrain from talking to her again at least for the rest of the class period and talk with other people in the class, being ****y and funny and maybe also speaking loudly enough so some girls around me would hear me, being funny and theyd laugh or at least make a face because they hear me.
Is it a good sign if I actually capture a girls interest when Im talking to other people, that she overhears what I am saying in my conversations with other people and then look at me and give me a smile or laugh?
Sometimes when I would tell someone a story, I would make it very interesting, by being funny and describing things in an exaggerated way but light and funny, sometimes twisting the story if I have too sometimes but I dont make it obvious. Sometimes people around in the class who have nothing better to do then to stare off into space or maybe doing something, I would capture their interest and they would listen to me. IS THIS SOMETHING GOOD OR DOES THAT HAPPEN TO EVERYONE?
So now some of the girls in my class have given me some reasons why I think they are at least interested in me in some way. I think the social status I have built up in the classes just recently have helped me. Im not sure if the reasons that the girls are interested are legit though but I assume that they are anyways just so I can be keep a confident mind.
I think a major factor of the attraction going on (if there is any) is that I am just naturally shy. The shyness kicked in right in the middle of the first conversation I tried to have with these girls. I start off being interesting and then I quickly end everything leaving her (I think) wanting more. Then thats it. I cant make another conversation because I broke rapport and now Im all nervous and I cant think of anything else to talk about.
One thing I cant bring myself to do is actually MAKE CONVERSATION with these girls. I really have nothing to talk about with them. I only know how to create rapport by pacing with the surrounding environment. I dont know if its my shyness or what, but I cant do it. I dont know what to say though to start the conversations. I dont know what to talk about. If I talk to the girls and find out information and stuff about their personal life theyll know Im hitting on them. What the hell do I do??
The talks werent actual conversations, I was just commenting on things going on in the classroom, being a little ****y and funny, being a lil playful because I can be spontaneous with the things I say and have people laughing. But I dont overdo it. Im not really trying to be a joker. If I just think something is funny and I think other people would find it funny, I would say it. The girls would get noticeably excited and play along or just comment on what I said. My shyness then kicks in and I stop being so playful and then I would stay quiet for some time when im doing my work.
After soem time I would talk to a girl in the class, maybe one of the ones that played along with me and have a little conversation with her. When I mean LITTLE I mean LITTLE. Because I would start off confident in the beginning of the conversation but after a couple lines I just cant do it anymore, my shyness kicks in and I get nervous, my mind cant think of anymore things to say, and I just try to end the conversation soon and fast. Then I just refrain from talking to her again at least for the rest of the class period and talk with other people in the class, being ****y and funny and maybe also speaking loudly enough so some girls around me would hear me, being funny and theyd laugh or at least make a face because they hear me.
Is it a good sign if I actually capture a girls interest when Im talking to other people, that she overhears what I am saying in my conversations with other people and then look at me and give me a smile or laugh?
Sometimes when I would tell someone a story, I would make it very interesting, by being funny and describing things in an exaggerated way but light and funny, sometimes twisting the story if I have too sometimes but I dont make it obvious. Sometimes people around in the class who have nothing better to do then to stare off into space or maybe doing something, I would capture their interest and they would listen to me. IS THIS SOMETHING GOOD OR DOES THAT HAPPEN TO EVERYONE?
So now some of the girls in my class have given me some reasons why I think they are at least interested in me in some way. I think the social status I have built up in the classes just recently have helped me. Im not sure if the reasons that the girls are interested are legit though but I assume that they are anyways just so I can be keep a confident mind.
I think a major factor of the attraction going on (if there is any) is that I am just naturally shy. The shyness kicked in right in the middle of the first conversation I tried to have with these girls. I start off being interesting and then I quickly end everything leaving her (I think) wanting more. Then thats it. I cant make another conversation because I broke rapport and now Im all nervous and I cant think of anything else to talk about.
One thing I cant bring myself to do is actually MAKE CONVERSATION with these girls. I really have nothing to talk about with them. I only know how to create rapport by pacing with the surrounding environment. I dont know if its my shyness or what, but I cant do it. I dont know what to say though to start the conversations. I dont know what to talk about. If I talk to the girls and find out information and stuff about their personal life theyll know Im hitting on them. What the hell do I do??
