Crazy Model Problems

[PlayaProblems]

Here is my current situation, a little advice needed.

At Easter a friend of mine asked me to come out, and with my friends was this model chick. We spoke for a bit that night, but because I was dating somebody, I didn't pursue it. I didn't think anything of it until last week when on Sunday, I got a message from her on OKCupid (where I still had an account from last year) asking if I was the guy from the bar that she met at Easter.

We messaged back and forth a little, and she gave me her number pretty quickly and told me that she wanted to take me out on a date. Awesome, I thought, and I went on the date and it was, okay at best. She spent most of the night talking about herself, her ex boyfriends, her modelling, her life, her cats, her dogs, her.. her... you get the idea. I think she probably went through 1,000 pictures on her iPhone showing me about her life.

She was hot enough that I decided to give it another go (and of course it's flattering to have a very successful model chasing you) and we went out a couple of times in a group setting before and at the weekend. During those times, I realized that I really don't like her personality too much, as she speaks far too much about herself and enjoys putting other people down.

Advice Needed: I am meant to be going out on a date with her tonight, and i'm really not feeling it, so I think i'm going to cancel. I don't know whether to just let her down for tonight, tell her that we'll do something another time and then kind of ghost on her, or just flat out tell her today that our personalities really don't mix and that i'm done. I feel somewhat stupid burning bridges, and my friends think i'm crazy for not pursuing it further, but I figure it might be better to do the "right" thing.

Thoughts? Am I crazy?

 

[Maximummax]

She is crazy as everything girl, in these days
every girl is busy taking pictures and posting them on FB for comments and likes. she is extreme in that area.
She is not your type as you can see, so just relax, play your game and try to bang her. if she lets you, you got a lay, otherwise you are loosing nothing. But one advantage of hanging with this kind of chick is you can get a chance to meet other chicks. She is a DHV for you in some sense.

 

[Kenny Powers]

congrats on getting a model chasing you man. Honestly I wouldn't worry too much about the best way to end it with this chick. Its good you want to do the right thing and that you care about being a good person, but honestly I learned a while ago when it comes to relationships, dating, pick-up, etc. girls are just flat out insensitive diicks. Most girls are good people overall, but when it comes to the stuff we deal with on this site (meeting girls, dating, cheating) they can be cruel biitches.

Therefore I wouldn't worry too much about being a good person in this situation. You don't like hanging out, so dont go on dates, but that doesn't mean you can't hang out with her in group settings like at a bar to boost your social status thus making it easier to pick-up girls.

Additionally, your lack of interest in her, especially if your picking-up girls in front of her, will drive her insane and she'll probably just want you more. As long as you make it clear your not into a relationship I see no reason you can't go for the lay.

Also, remember, if she's a model and self-obsessed she's clearly already got some craziness and previous damage (daddy issues, dated jerks, etc.) so any relationship you have with her will probably be terrible.

 

[PlayaProblems]

Kenny - This was good advice. I decided to let her know that I wasn't really feeling it, and that we were 2 very different people. We agreed that we'd see each other in group settings in the future.

All is well that ends well, thanks!