crazy HB got married 3 days ago what the hell she doing out with me?

[drift king]

i met up with this crazy HB tonight.. I met her once before and i made arrangements with her yesterday to meet tonight.. the girl is so flakey and unreliable and spoilt princess who never commits to a time to meet and makes no promises.

i finally got her to meet up tonight then when we meet shes 25 mins late then has the audacity to double book the night saying we can only meet for 30 mins.. i was about to completely lose my rag with her.

then to top it off she tells me she's married!!! like a las vegas style wedding in another country 3 days ago but she thought it was a joke and may get divorced.. she's crazy!! :-s

and i'm sitting there thinking why have you wasted my time coming down?? then i afc'd up making her meet up with mer after her engagement after which is supposedly a 'photoshoot'

what the hell u suppose to do in this scenario where she's majorly disrespected you by wasting your time and is married?

god im so fvcked off right now. i'm about to tell her what i really think.. is that just gona supplicate her reaction?

 

[drift king]

ok i really lost my rag with her.. when i left her i tried to make out that we should meet later after her next engagement and she can say 'yeah ok i promise i'll call you later' she could be lying i duno not call.. she's lost so much credibility i can't believe anything she says.. then i was regretting everything i was doing and kept changing my mind.. i thought fvck it im going home im not waiting around another hour for you to maybe or maybe not meet up later. i felt and must have look crazy desperate. so i call her telling her i'm going and she should promise me tomorrow at a certain time in the evening. (i cant take her promises seriously) so then i thought 'ok well i can't trust she'll meet up tomorrow.. esp after tonights fiascos' so then i thought fvck switch back to tonight.. all this time i'm somewhat in shock and panic unable to figure out what would be the 'right' thing to do. she doesn't pick up my next call.. then i just lost my rag and sent her some semi-abusive message thanking her for wasting and ruining my night and i expect her to meet up with me tomorrow and call me tonight to apologise otherwise i'll be really angry. Man looking back everything i did was completely wrong. then i tried calling again about an hour ago and she hangs up on me after a few rings. so i just absolutely lose it and send her an even more angry abusive message. when i let my emotions take over me like this i can't control it. but i really must.

i think im more mad at myself for not trying to kiss close with the tensions building up when we were in my car.. it's disgusting.. she's suppose to be on a date with me and she avoids it but goes and sits in my car with me which in theory would be exactly where you'd want her for make out purposes.. i doubt she thought of it from that perspective but i thought i was being disrespected..

before i lost my rag was the only thing i could have done was kiss close her or attempt to kiss close to see what the score was?

i know she was attracted to me prior to my temper tantrum but she's so damn flakey and i had only met her once and she was out of the country she just literally is a waste of my time and i should have attempted a kiss close there and then when the tension was running high rather than listen to her BS spoilt little child excuses to get her out of the situation. was that the only thing i could have done apart from kicking her out of the car and telling her to fvck off for wasting my time?

 

[L.A. Tripp]

Why keep on with this girl? Move on to another girl that isn't so damn flaky. You're already obsessed with her, which is what SHE wants. You don't have control of the frame. It's over man. Move on.

 

[drift king]

yeah i know. what im saying is i've been in this scenario time and time again (not as crazy as this one who got married) but what do i do when she springs up this BS to you?

this time was husband.. usually it be a boyfriend or something. do you just go for the kiss close?

 

[Warrior74]

you are a desperate afc. this is why you put up with this ****. work on your inner game.

 

[L.A. Tripp]

yeah i know. what im saying is i've been in this scenario time and time again (not as crazy as this one who got married) but what do i do when she springs up this BS to you?

this time was husband.. usually it be a boyfriend or something. do you just go for the kiss close?

Most of the time those excuses are just that . . . excuses . . . **** tests to see if you can blow through them. So, in that case, yes, you still go for the close. If she really isn't interested, she will let you know.