Sir I
Don Juan
Warning! for the readers only! that's if you have the time and are willing to crack some brains about this one.
It's been some time since I've been on this site. Allmost forgot about it untill a friend of mine reminded me of the DJ Bible. it's good to see this place is still up and running. Now I'm back with a nice situation and a question mark inside my head.
now I must go straight to bussiness as I'm dealing with a situation I've not experienced for a long time.
Extra info:
I work for an insurance company through the week and in the weekends I'm a bartender at a medium sized club (roughly 2000 visitors)
Met this girl, steaming.. had a little chit chat the first few weeks after 3 months I made out with her than made a mistake where I could do her but only went third base and I broke it off the next friday
importante: before I made up with her, she would come in between me and other female customers I would flirt with.
something happend the week I broke up with her. the next day she was at the club and started flirting with a co worker of mine who had the night off, then they had made out what I heard from other co workers. I ignored it at that moment the next day on msn she appologized for her behaviour and asked if I was mad. I told her (YES BIG MISTAKE) that I find it inappropiate to flirt openly with a co worker of mine at my bar cause she would make a name for herself (WHY EVEN TALK ABOUT HER?) she than said she had only talked with him.. now she lied and I was pissed (YES why let emotions come up, she lied that's it and there should be nothing else)
anyway the week after that, the co-worker of mine who had made out with her was nervous around me which I didn't really notice untill he dropped two bottles of whiskey and I yelled at him to get his act together or get away from my bar. he immidieatly quit work that night because of me. what's even funnier he broke up with the girl (and i'm not entirely sure but I think he was/is afraid that I would/will bust him up) never mind. S happens.. that next tuesday it was her birthday and I didn't know what to. and when you don't know what to do you don't do anything. that following Saturday she came in and at the place where I work people get a free bottle of champagne(yes the cheap stuff) on their birthday, she even gave the ticket to a girlfriend of hers. who handed it to me. and I asked how her birthday was and she said, It's not mine, it's her Birthday pointing to tha girl. and I allmost froze ... I passed the bottle of champagne and turned to help another girl with a ticket for champagne, and I went 5th gear conversation with that group talking chit chat and forcing the conversation to go the sexual way. In my eye corner I could see her looking pissed off at me. after that she first started throwing her glasses over the bar (in a soft way not in KABOOM) just so it would roll over the bar and catch my attention.
I warned her to behave she gave me a fake smile. than she started throwing her cigarettes over the bar into the washing table( you know what I mean)
Yet again the following day she appologized over msn to me for her behaviour and that she was wasted and she didn't mean to do the things she had done. and I told her clearly that I didn't care about what she did or did not mean (YES why even talk back to her?) I explained her how she is a customer there and I'm a bartender and she said she would watch her behaviour next time.
so I with my STUPID HEAD, sent her flowers with a message: I should have congratulate you with your birthday three weeks later is better than never.
SHE WALKED in the club WASTED and I mean WASTED barely able to stand and started yelling at me that I should leave her alone. repeating it a few times.. I told her she's crazy and she should be the one to leave me alone.
that night I made out with two girls infront of her without knowing she was standing in a line of sight. towards the end of the night she was hanging at my bar looking at me.. her shirt became wet because of the beer that was spilled over the bar she asked me to feel it and I shook my head while I dried that part of the bar up. than she started repeating all over how I mean I was and I didn't think about her feelings.
At the end of the night I was talking with a co-worker near the exit HOT CHICK 8 out of 10 and she asked me about the crazy girl and what she had heard.. simple smooth talk hitting on her.. the CRAZY girl walks up and stands in between us forcing her back and looks at me! WHY DID YOU SEND ME THOSE FLOWERS! and I stayed cool, saying that it was just a gesture. She screamed at me I HATE YOU which I turned at her. YOu are by far the craziest I've ever seen and I've worked at a mental house DAMN YOU ARE CRAZY, She: so you think I'm a fruitcake. I: if you can't handle the booze don't drink it leave me alone you nuttcase. at which point the hot co-worker pulled my hand to leave and so I did. the fruitcake had made a scene inside the club and outside screaming how I could think she was crazy and that I was the one who was crazy and all. so I laughed my ass off for that.
but YES the next day AGAIN! on msn (STUPID STUPID STUPID) she asked me why I was so mean to her. I told her I didn't have anything to say to her. she said ok and bye and I didn't respond.
last weekend again! she comes up to my bar.. I MEAN BY GOD there are 7 bars in the club go somewhere else! I ignored her strongly didn't even say a word to her.. yet again she misbehaved I spoke with the boss and moved to a diffirient area.. hadn't seen her all night.. untill towards closing time.. I had my moment got 2 numbers made out with one girl and had another girl who was holding my.. at the stairs.. appereantly the CRAZY girl had seen it.. I walked over to the bar not really knowing she was sitting there, a girlfriend of hers asked for my towel, to dry her hands and I gave it to but not without getting a response from the CRAZY girl DO YOU KNOW HOW DIRTY THAT TOWEL IS!! AAAAA I ignored her. walked over to the bartender (small fella really small I picked him up put him on the bar and said: SIT THERE and think about what you have done tonight! continued back got my towel back.. and the CRAZY girl walked away (that's what I thought) as her girlfriend appologized for the behaviour of the Crazy girl I told her that she didn't have to do that and that she can handle her booze. at that moment the crazy B comes back from behind the wall and sais ! HAHA You want me to appologize to you! NEVER !! IN YOUR DREAMS! I ignored her, wished her girlfriend a safe trip home and a girl I had made out with came back to give a sweet good kiss goodbye and asking me to call her.
the next day. I text messaged the CRAZY girl that I had done enough from my point of view to not get her banned from the club and that she should find somewhere in her thick skull that I've not beein interested in her for a long time. and the next week if she would disrupt me at my work she would be banned..
YES !!@ AAARGGHHH WHY GOD I ASK YOU WHY?:!
on msn she thanks me for the warning of letting her know about the consequences of her behaviour.. and I ignored it..
eventually she again and again asked about the flowers.. I told her again it was a small gesture to have some decent contact and that she couldn't handle it! and then she asked me why I didn't sent it on her birthday.. and I told her she allready knows why.
that is the moment people that she FINALLY told me:
that I was mad about her lying to me, and that I was jealous of her and him and that it was my fault he broke up with her. now I made it clear that I didn't give a ratts ass about what she is doing in her life and I didn't want anything to do with her.
now take in mind. that the entire 5 months that I've known her she has allways been interrupting me while flirting with other girls. and even worse when I broke it off with her. even after my co worker broke it off with her it became worse.
Now this evening I was at a bar/restaurant having a drink with the Hot co-worker girl 8 out of 10. I said hello to the former co-worker who had quit the job because of me. he was with another guy and his girlfriend... what I learned later is that the crazy girl was there aswell.. when I was leaving with my hot ass co-worker I wished the former co-worker a good evening and gave another girl who works there 3 kisses for goodnight and that she should call me. she responded with but I don't have your number.. than I said: well let me see you want to work for it. Cheers. said the other waiters/resses good evening till next week. and all that's where my hot ass-coworker pulled my hand and said let's go where so looked over my shoulder towards the crazy girl and said it to me outside. that girl is really crazy you should have seen how she looked at me. I ignored it. went back to her place and we were making out untill she openned up the conversation about the crazy girl where I thanked her for the nice evening and I had to go home because I have to work tomorrow.
and I love challenges now I find it a challenge to get this crazy girl in bed but I have to do this the smooth better said the Sosuave way.
My plan is: I'll be going on holiday to spain later this month and my boss has hired 5 new people to fill up the staff list.. so I want to stay a month away from the club pick up on studying. and than get back to work where I will nodoubt find her again at my bar.
I'm gonna play it cool stay relaxed allow her to behave and if she does maybe have small talk then after a week or 2 depending on the way things go invite her over to my place and F her brains out and than make her be bored around me so she'll leave me and I can continue with what I'm doing..
A) YES GOOD PLAN GO FOR IT!
B) YOU NUTS? IGNORE HER AND GO ON.
any insight on this situation is greatly appreciated.. cause she's in my brain
It's been some time since I've been on this site. Allmost forgot about it untill a friend of mine reminded me of the DJ Bible. it's good to see this place is still up and running. Now I'm back with a nice situation and a question mark inside my head.
now I must go straight to bussiness as I'm dealing with a situation I've not experienced for a long time.
Extra info:
I work for an insurance company through the week and in the weekends I'm a bartender at a medium sized club (roughly 2000 visitors)
Met this girl, steaming.. had a little chit chat the first few weeks after 3 months I made out with her than made a mistake where I could do her but only went third base and I broke it off the next friday
importante: before I made up with her, she would come in between me and other female customers I would flirt with.
something happend the week I broke up with her. the next day she was at the club and started flirting with a co worker of mine who had the night off, then they had made out what I heard from other co workers. I ignored it at that moment the next day on msn she appologized for her behaviour and asked if I was mad. I told her (YES BIG MISTAKE) that I find it inappropiate to flirt openly with a co worker of mine at my bar cause she would make a name for herself (WHY EVEN TALK ABOUT HER?) she than said she had only talked with him.. now she lied and I was pissed (YES why let emotions come up, she lied that's it and there should be nothing else)
anyway the week after that, the co-worker of mine who had made out with her was nervous around me which I didn't really notice untill he dropped two bottles of whiskey and I yelled at him to get his act together or get away from my bar. he immidieatly quit work that night because of me. what's even funnier he broke up with the girl (and i'm not entirely sure but I think he was/is afraid that I would/will bust him up) never mind. S happens.. that next tuesday it was her birthday and I didn't know what to. and when you don't know what to do you don't do anything. that following Saturday she came in and at the place where I work people get a free bottle of champagne(yes the cheap stuff) on their birthday, she even gave the ticket to a girlfriend of hers. who handed it to me. and I asked how her birthday was and she said, It's not mine, it's her Birthday pointing to tha girl. and I allmost froze ... I passed the bottle of champagne and turned to help another girl with a ticket for champagne, and I went 5th gear conversation with that group talking chit chat and forcing the conversation to go the sexual way. In my eye corner I could see her looking pissed off at me. after that she first started throwing her glasses over the bar (in a soft way not in KABOOM) just so it would roll over the bar and catch my attention.
I warned her to behave she gave me a fake smile. than she started throwing her cigarettes over the bar into the washing table( you know what I mean)
Yet again the following day she appologized over msn to me for her behaviour and that she was wasted and she didn't mean to do the things she had done. and I told her clearly that I didn't care about what she did or did not mean (YES why even talk back to her?) I explained her how she is a customer there and I'm a bartender and she said she would watch her behaviour next time.
so I with my STUPID HEAD, sent her flowers with a message: I should have congratulate you with your birthday three weeks later is better than never.
SHE WALKED in the club WASTED and I mean WASTED barely able to stand and started yelling at me that I should leave her alone. repeating it a few times.. I told her she's crazy and she should be the one to leave me alone.
that night I made out with two girls infront of her without knowing she was standing in a line of sight. towards the end of the night she was hanging at my bar looking at me.. her shirt became wet because of the beer that was spilled over the bar she asked me to feel it and I shook my head while I dried that part of the bar up. than she started repeating all over how I mean I was and I didn't think about her feelings.
At the end of the night I was talking with a co-worker near the exit HOT CHICK 8 out of 10 and she asked me about the crazy girl and what she had heard.. simple smooth talk hitting on her.. the CRAZY girl walks up and stands in between us forcing her back and looks at me! WHY DID YOU SEND ME THOSE FLOWERS! and I stayed cool, saying that it was just a gesture. She screamed at me I HATE YOU which I turned at her. YOu are by far the craziest I've ever seen and I've worked at a mental house DAMN YOU ARE CRAZY, She: so you think I'm a fruitcake. I: if you can't handle the booze don't drink it leave me alone you nuttcase. at which point the hot co-worker pulled my hand to leave and so I did. the fruitcake had made a scene inside the club and outside screaming how I could think she was crazy and that I was the one who was crazy and all. so I laughed my ass off for that.
but YES the next day AGAIN! on msn (STUPID STUPID STUPID) she asked me why I was so mean to her. I told her I didn't have anything to say to her. she said ok and bye and I didn't respond.
last weekend again! she comes up to my bar.. I MEAN BY GOD there are 7 bars in the club go somewhere else! I ignored her strongly didn't even say a word to her.. yet again she misbehaved I spoke with the boss and moved to a diffirient area.. hadn't seen her all night.. untill towards closing time.. I had my moment got 2 numbers made out with one girl and had another girl who was holding my.. at the stairs.. appereantly the CRAZY girl had seen it.. I walked over to the bar not really knowing she was sitting there, a girlfriend of hers asked for my towel, to dry her hands and I gave it to but not without getting a response from the CRAZY girl DO YOU KNOW HOW DIRTY THAT TOWEL IS!! AAAAA I ignored her. walked over to the bartender (small fella really small I picked him up put him on the bar and said: SIT THERE and think about what you have done tonight! continued back got my towel back.. and the CRAZY girl walked away (that's what I thought) as her girlfriend appologized for the behaviour of the Crazy girl I told her that she didn't have to do that and that she can handle her booze. at that moment the crazy B comes back from behind the wall and sais ! HAHA You want me to appologize to you! NEVER !! IN YOUR DREAMS! I ignored her, wished her girlfriend a safe trip home and a girl I had made out with came back to give a sweet good kiss goodbye and asking me to call her.
the next day. I text messaged the CRAZY girl that I had done enough from my point of view to not get her banned from the club and that she should find somewhere in her thick skull that I've not beein interested in her for a long time. and the next week if she would disrupt me at my work she would be banned..
YES !!@ AAARGGHHH WHY GOD I ASK YOU WHY?:!
on msn she thanks me for the warning of letting her know about the consequences of her behaviour.. and I ignored it..
eventually she again and again asked about the flowers.. I told her again it was a small gesture to have some decent contact and that she couldn't handle it! and then she asked me why I didn't sent it on her birthday.. and I told her she allready knows why.
that is the moment people that she FINALLY told me:
that I was mad about her lying to me, and that I was jealous of her and him and that it was my fault he broke up with her. now I made it clear that I didn't give a ratts ass about what she is doing in her life and I didn't want anything to do with her.
now take in mind. that the entire 5 months that I've known her she has allways been interrupting me while flirting with other girls. and even worse when I broke it off with her. even after my co worker broke it off with her it became worse.
Now this evening I was at a bar/restaurant having a drink with the Hot co-worker girl 8 out of 10. I said hello to the former co-worker who had quit the job because of me. he was with another guy and his girlfriend... what I learned later is that the crazy girl was there aswell.. when I was leaving with my hot ass co-worker I wished the former co-worker a good evening and gave another girl who works there 3 kisses for goodnight and that she should call me. she responded with but I don't have your number.. than I said: well let me see you want to work for it. Cheers. said the other waiters/resses good evening till next week. and all that's where my hot ass-coworker pulled my hand and said let's go where so looked over my shoulder towards the crazy girl and said it to me outside. that girl is really crazy you should have seen how she looked at me. I ignored it. went back to her place and we were making out untill she openned up the conversation about the crazy girl where I thanked her for the nice evening and I had to go home because I have to work tomorrow.
and I love challenges now I find it a challenge to get this crazy girl in bed but I have to do this the smooth better said the Sosuave way.
My plan is: I'll be going on holiday to spain later this month and my boss has hired 5 new people to fill up the staff list.. so I want to stay a month away from the club pick up on studying. and than get back to work where I will nodoubt find her again at my bar.
I'm gonna play it cool stay relaxed allow her to behave and if she does maybe have small talk then after a week or 2 depending on the way things go invite her over to my place and F her brains out and than make her be bored around me so she'll leave me and I can continue with what I'm doing..
A) YES GOOD PLAN GO FOR IT!
B) YOU NUTS? IGNORE HER AND GO ON.
any insight on this situation is greatly appreciated.. cause she's in my brain
