"Crazy" Chick--Should I Pursue?

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And yet notice how batsh-t crazy never has any interactions with women to report on.....incel much?:)
I think you probably haven't looked through the forums enough, otherwise you'd know that's not true. Maybe do some more research before you make these kinds of accusations. Has she replied to your texts yet?
 

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I think you probably haven't looked through the forums enough, otherwise you'd know that's not true. Maybe do some more research before you make these kinds of accusations. Has she replied to your texts yet?
When's the last time you got a number? Had a date? Had a lay? Your incel status is way too obvious.
 

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As a bit of context, on an average (weekend) night out, I often have half a dozen women or so approach me, and maybe a dozen or more show strong signs of interest, so this chickie's behavior is not unusual.
You are this popular with the ladies, huh? And yet you need advice on what to do with a b!tch who won't respond to your text? Well, I wish I could give you some advice but I don't have time right now. I have to go teach a seminar on startups to Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk...right after I finish giving boxing lessons to Tyson Fury.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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lol ya and that's no exaggeration. But why not try to bat 1.000 if possible? My text game is super bad since I tend not to need it. I do want to improve though.

Too bad about all of the incels on the forum. I wish them well.
 

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Recently met a tall blonde hot chick. It was at a party so it was a warm approach but I believe she initiated the approaching.

She interjected into a conversation I was having with another girl, overheard me saying I liked a particular band. She said it was also her favorite band and that she was a DJ. I didn't believe her because she really didn't seem the type. She started dropping some hardcore sexual innuendos, talking about how she loved to "play with knobs" and loved getting a crowd "turned on."

I wasn't buying any of it, but she re-approached me several times more later on, insisting she was a DJ. Then she said she wanted me to come to her house the following weekend.

Almost all of this talk was in a circle of people--I was pretty sure it was all b.s. but none of her friends were showing her hand so I went along with it somewhat.

I've texted her once with no reply. I'm wondering if I should bother trying a 2nd or 3rd time, just for practice. My take on it is that she's a cool chick but was embarrassed that I wouldn't go along with her wacky stories. I'm sure she gets lots of guys going along with any and all of her nonsense so she might've found it strange that I was displaying any skepticism at all. Probably also trying to pump up her value unnecessarily which didn't make much sense since she's a very pretty girl and doesn't really need to hype herself up, especially with a bunch of wacky lies.
Never say whoa in a horse race bud...What prevented you from "getting to know her better" at the party?
 

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Never say whoa in a horse race bud...What prevented you from "getting to know her better" at the party?
Nothing really. It was a miscalculation on my part (already discussed) as I was waiting for an explicit "invite" to bounce which was kind of a ridiculous assumption on my part considering how much interest every single woman there showed the entire night.

There was a lot going on that night. Quite a few girls to juggle and keep in the air at once. There was a married girl there who was gaming me all night, even though her husband was present. She was super pissed at me the next morning (giving me the "I don't know you" routine. I was really reluctant to push this angle out of respect for their marriage but perhaps it was an "open" marriage? Sh-t's just so wacky these days it's hard to say what's even up or down.

I don't even want to get into the rest of what was going on. Some of it was just absolutely mind boggling.

Overall, it was a lot of fun. I'm still SMH about how "loose" the boundaries are in relationships. Honestly, it seems like they don't even exist anymore?
 
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I was waiting for an explicit "invite" to bounce which was kind of a ridiculous assumption on my part considering how much interest every single woman there showed the entire night.
Sounds like you should listen up @bat soup. This guy’s obviously got this whole game thing figured out if he’s got “every single girl” at the party begging for his attention. XD
Quite a few girls to juggle and keep in the air at once.
There was a married girl there who was gaming me all night, even though her husband was present.
This is sad. I wonder if he knows that not a single man on this thread believes him.
“Quite a few girls to juggle” my a$$. This guy doesn’t even know not to double text.
 

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I love the haters. :) They get so triggered when they realize that the attractive men are hogging all the women.

Sounds like you should listen up @bat soup. This guy’s obviously got this whole game thing figured out if he’s got “every single girl” at the party begging for his attention. XD


This is sad. I wonder if he knows that not a single man on this thread believes him.
“Quite a few girls to juggle” my a$$. This guy doesn’t even know not to double text.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Text once more. If she replies then spin her as a plate. She’s not GF material at all.
I know almost nothing about her. I almost wanted her to slow down a little bit. The public sexual invitations in the middle of a big crowd and the constant sexual innuendo were definitely unusual. I won't say they were a turnoff but it took a lot of the challenge out of it.
 

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90% of ‘Mental health issues’ that seem to inflict a big majority of under 40s really do do just require people to pull themselves together
 

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Recently met a tall blonde hot chick. It was at a party so it was a warm approach but I believe she initiated the approaching.

She interjected into a conversation I was having with another girl, overheard me saying I liked a particular band. She said it was also her favorite band and that she was a DJ. I didn't believe her because she really didn't seem the type. She started dropping some hardcore sexual innuendos, talking about how she loved to "play with knobs" and loved getting a crowd "turned on."

I wasn't buying any of it, but she re-approached me several times more later on, insisting she was a DJ. Then she said she wanted me to come to her house the following weekend.

Almost all of this talk was in a circle of people--I was pretty sure it was all b.s. but none of her friends were showing her hand so I went along with it somewhat.

I've texted her once with no reply. I'm wondering if I should bother trying a 2nd or 3rd time, just for practice. My take on it is that she's a cool chick but was embarrassed that I wouldn't go along with her wacky stories. I'm sure she gets lots of guys going along with any and all of her nonsense so she might've found it strange that I was displaying any skepticism at all. Probably also trying to pump up her value unnecessarily which didn't make much sense since she's a very pretty girl and doesn't really need to hype herself up, especially with a bunch of wacky lies.
I won't classify that as "crazy" yet. Im guessing you haven't met crazy like some of us on the board unfortunately have.

You took her number and sent her a text. That's it. Now go find ten more girls.

Time is money. And you're incurring opportunity cost now.
 

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Just rail her. She wants it but not the GF part. She’s not all there upstairs and will cause you a world of hurt down the road
 

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She's definitely used to dealing with a lot of simps. She was surrounded by multiple groups of bro's before she approached me. She's perfected the resting b-tch face.

Her approaching and showing direct sexual interest was a total 180 for her. Definitely "out of character."
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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