bobbytomorow
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Hey guys I'm new to the forum although a long time lurker, anyway let me explain my current situation with this girl I recently met.
There was construction near my condo a couple of weeks ago and one of the safety girls and I started chatting. We made each other laugh and so we chatted again whenever I walked past her on the way to my car. This girl is tall, like 6', while I'm about 5'8" so I assumed she was just really friendly and chatty. Until she called me by my name, I didn't tell her my name and when pressed she revealed she spoke to my mother when she was leaving my place after dropping me off some baked goods.
So I ok, theres interest and I asked for her name and we exchanged Facebook. I'm still in doubt at this time, still thinking its just a friendly exchange. The construction crew leaves and a week goes by and she finally messages me on Facebook giving me her number and telling me to give her a shout. I did not message her first she initiated this.
So I call and we hook up and hang out two nights in a row...things go well and I now assume we are moving along to the beginning phase of dating...I text her and let her know that I showed her picture off to my friend and that he gave his approval of her, I said this more in jest than as a statement of fact. She responds with, "PARDON ME?" and the next text, "Tell your friend our communication is about to greatly diminish starting now".
I played it cool and replied, "ok well it was nice hanging with you, all the best"
A week goes by and I wake up to a voicemail, "I'm sorry for the way I reacted but I am just in no position to be dating right now please call me"
Instead of calling her I text 2 days later. She tells me she is still getting over her last bf and shes not ready for a relationship although she really liked hanging out with me and can we please be friends. I reply that," I know what I want in life, and I was getting into you, when I feel that the feeling is not mutual I move along rather than waste my time or feelings"
She responds, "I am really sad we can't just be friends.".... I say that maybe we can but that my friendship will come with flowers and ice cream because that is the way I feel....I left it at that, and that was last night.
She just texted me, "ok. So can we still be friends? Maybe just not talk daily or whatever? A weekly visit for ping pong or gelato or whatever?"
****Keep in mind it was her who found out my name, her who gave me her phone number and told me to call her and her who first invited me out to hang and when I dropped everything at the sign of her cold feet it was her who is now wanting to be my friend, I did not ever initiate any contact I only have responded to her from the beginning***
Waste of time or what? This chick is hot as **** by the way
There was construction near my condo a couple of weeks ago and one of the safety girls and I started chatting. We made each other laugh and so we chatted again whenever I walked past her on the way to my car. This girl is tall, like 6', while I'm about 5'8" so I assumed she was just really friendly and chatty. Until she called me by my name, I didn't tell her my name and when pressed she revealed she spoke to my mother when she was leaving my place after dropping me off some baked goods.
So I ok, theres interest and I asked for her name and we exchanged Facebook. I'm still in doubt at this time, still thinking its just a friendly exchange. The construction crew leaves and a week goes by and she finally messages me on Facebook giving me her number and telling me to give her a shout. I did not message her first she initiated this.
So I call and we hook up and hang out two nights in a row...things go well and I now assume we are moving along to the beginning phase of dating...I text her and let her know that I showed her picture off to my friend and that he gave his approval of her, I said this more in jest than as a statement of fact. She responds with, "PARDON ME?" and the next text, "Tell your friend our communication is about to greatly diminish starting now".
I played it cool and replied, "ok well it was nice hanging with you, all the best"
A week goes by and I wake up to a voicemail, "I'm sorry for the way I reacted but I am just in no position to be dating right now please call me"
Instead of calling her I text 2 days later. She tells me she is still getting over her last bf and shes not ready for a relationship although she really liked hanging out with me and can we please be friends. I reply that," I know what I want in life, and I was getting into you, when I feel that the feeling is not mutual I move along rather than waste my time or feelings"
She responds, "I am really sad we can't just be friends.".... I say that maybe we can but that my friendship will come with flowers and ice cream because that is the way I feel....I left it at that, and that was last night.
She just texted me, "ok. So can we still be friends? Maybe just not talk daily or whatever? A weekly visit for ping pong or gelato or whatever?"
****Keep in mind it was her who found out my name, her who gave me her phone number and told me to call her and her who first invited me out to hang and when I dropped everything at the sign of her cold feet it was her who is now wanting to be my friend, I did not ever initiate any contact I only have responded to her from the beginning***
Waste of time or what? This chick is hot as **** by the way
