Covid-19, Dating, and Society

[Bible_Belt]

Is FEtlife like a hookup site? a few girls who were into kinkz have been on it but not gonna lie they were filthy broken hores

It is a hookup site, but you have to pretend to be more into kink than hooking up. The younger and hotter a girl is, the sicker sh1t she will be into.

 

[GaBrotha]

Is FEtlife like a hookup site? a few girls who were into kinkz have been on it but not gonna lie they were filthy broken hores

Most of them I'd assume are brother (I mean search up pornstar arrests on google and you'll find out what I'm saying about broken). I've personally heard of fetlife, but never actually tried it due to the membership and people that were around in my area. Site does emphasizes on everything fetish-related lol..

 

[Solomon]

Anyone having any luck with this?
I had 2 chicks this week come over and did not bang not that I didn't try
The chicks clearly weren't into me, even though one of them sent nudes constantly and was DTF, etc
The first chick took an uber because she wanted to get "lit" and ended up being a bore. She left early after I asked her too
2nd chick She than said she was on her period (and all of a sudden wanted to get to know me)
needless to say I told her after an hour to leave and kicked her out

 

[Lookatu]

Anyone having any luck with this?
I had 2 chicks this week come over and did not bang not that I didn't try
The chicks clearly weren't into me, even though one of them sent nudes constantly and was DTF, etc
The first chick took an uber because she wanted to get "lit" and ended up being a bore. She left early after I asked her too
2nd chick She than said she was on her period (and all of a sudden wanted to get to know me)
needless to say I told her after an hour to leave and kicked her out

Sometimes the real life connection/vibe isn't there for some of these gals. I always thought in the past if a gal was willing to come over to your place, it definitely meant dtf but these days, that's not necessarily the case.

These days, I generally go for the second date lay/invite. The first date is really simple where we pickup coffee and walk around. We get to know each other just enough for her to feel any attraction/comfort. Most gals will not go on a second date if the attraction level is low so if you can get the same gal out on a second date with minimal effort and high interest on her part, there's a good chance you can invite her back to your place for the lay. Even on second dates, depending on the feeling I get from the gal, I don't invite them over right way on the second date either. I will do the usual coffee/walking around and if the kissing gets heavier and she seems to be into it, that's when I'll suggest going back to my place as it seems more natural and less planned out. Girls generally are suspicious or aren't as turned on if things are planned and don't seem to flow "naturally". LOL
But just make sure there's not too much of time in between the first and second date or interest levels can fall. But generally if the girl is able to sleep on what just happened and process it overnight, they will have a good idea if they are still into you or not.

 

[Solomon]

Sometimes the real life connection/vibe isn't there for some of these gals. I always thought in the past if a gal was willing to come over to your place, it definitely meant dtf but these days, that's not necessarily the case.

These days, I generally go for the second date lay/invite. The first date is really simple where we pickup coffee and walk around. We get to know each other just enough for her to feel any attraction/comfort. Most gals will not go on a second date if the attraction level is low so if you can get the same gal out on a second date with minimal effort and high interest on her part, there's a good chance you can invite her back to your place for the lay. Even on second dates, depending on the feeling I get from the gal, I don't invite them over right way on the second date either. I will do the usual coffee/walking around and if the kissing gets heavier and she seems to be into it, that's when I'll suggest going back to my place as it seems more natural and less planned out. Girls generally are suspicious or aren't as turned on if things are planned and don't seem to flow "naturally". LOL
But just make sure there's not too much of time in between the first and second date or interest levels can fall. But generally if the girl is able to sleep on what just happened and process it overnight, they will have a good idea if they are still into you or not.

I totally agree, however now a days it's hard to take women anywhere.
I went for a walk with a woman around the lake a week and half ago that was nice
But besides drinking we didn't have anything in common
I think coffee dates are gonna be my go too after this covid19 is done
Had a busty chick over last night made out, succeed on her titz but no dice.
She texted me that she made it home, and i responded but didn't hear back I will try again on Wednesday
The last two weeks I've been averaging 20+ miles in regards to jogging/walking
The more focused I am on my goals the less thirsty I am....

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I totally agree, however now a days it's hard to take women anywhere.
I went for a walk with a woman around the lake a week and half ago that was nice
But besides drinking we didn't have anything in common
I think coffee dates are gonna be my go too after this covid19 is done
Had a busty chick over last night made out, succeed on her titz but no dice.
She texted me that she made it home, and i responded but didn't hear back I will try again on Wednesday
The last two weeks I've been averaging 20+ miles in regards to jogging/walking
The more focused I am on my goals the less thirsty I am....

So women just aren't connecting in general and more "closed off"?

 

[Lookatu]

I totally agree, however now a days it's hard to take women anywhere.
I went for a walk with a woman around the lake a week and half ago that was nice
But besides drinking we didn't have anything in common
I think coffee dates are gonna be my go too after this covid19 is done
Had a busty chick over last night made out, succeed on her titz but no dice.
She texted me that she made it home, and i responded but didn't hear back I will try again on Wednesday
The last two weeks I've been averaging 20+ miles in regards to jogging/walking
The more focused I am on my goals the less thirsty I am....

If you were sucking on her tits but no dice, you need to examine why that is.
Did you push/pull enough? Did you do or say something that might've turned her off a bit?
Did you have a nice wine/****tail setup ready to go at your place with favorite girly drinks to make her more relaxed?
Did you start getting sexual too early before her comfort level was high?
Was this the first time you guys met?

If she didn't respond or late to respond after the first date, you need to move on as she's not into you anymore.
Just remember, seduction is a mirage at best and with enough time or repetition, that mirage will fade.
This is why a lot of gals have "buyer's remorse" if they sleep with someone on the first date. It's because they have been seduced and weren't able to think clearly. It's not until the following day they realize this when they can think clearly.
Obviously, you can use seduction all you want if you want a ONS. Just don't expect a girl to be in the same mindset the next day and still wanna see you.

 

[Solomon]

If you were sucking on her tits but no dice, you need to examine why that is.
Did you push/pull enough? Did you do or say something that might've turned her off a bit?
Did you have a nice wine/****tail setup ready to go at your place with favorite girly drinks to make her more relaxed?
Did you start getting sexual too early before her comfort level was high?
Was this the first time you guys met?

If she didn't respond or late to respond after the first date, you need to move on as she's not into you anymore.
Just remember, seduction is a mirage at best and with enough time or repetition, that mirage will fade.
This is why a lot of gals have "buyer's remorse" if they sleep with someone on the first date. It's because they have been seduced and weren't able to think clearly. It's not until the following day they realize this when they can think clearly.
Obviously, you can use seduction all you want if you want a ONS. Just don't expect a girl to be in the same mindset the next day and still wanna see you.

Our messaging had been highly sexual. However there wasn't much else.
Had the drinks/candles/ambiance all set up. Mind you this is our first meeting, she had mentioned before we wouldn't have sex.
However I didn't let that stop me. I think it's just that it was our first time and she wants to wait to make sure it's serious.
Either way this Quarantine has been a good experience for me getting back into the swing of things

 

[Lookatu]

Our messaging had been highly sexual. However there wasn't much else.
Had the drinks/candles/ambiance all set up. Mind you this is our first meeting, she had mentioned before we wouldn't have sex.
However I didn't let that stop me. I think it's just that it was our first time and she wants to wait to make sure it's serious.
Either way this Quarantine has been a good experience for me getting back into the swing of things

Well if she does reach out to you or respond and want to meet up again, she's already had time to think things over at this point and there's a good chance that you'll most likely bang. If she reaches out to you after sometime though, you are most likely on bench warmer status with her. Just keep that in mind... Good luck brother.

 

[Solomon]

Well if she does reach out to you or respond and want to meet up again, she's already had time to think things over at this point and there's a good chance that you'll most likely bang. If she reaches out to you after sometime though, you are most likely on bench warmer status with her. Just keep that in mind... Good luck brother.

Damn...It's amazing how a woman can text/snap you everyday like clockwork than all it takes is one flub on the guys part for her interest to be lowered.

Personally I know there will be other women but the game gets cumbersome

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I lost count of skanks i slob dropped off my rotation since March. I will say, several new girls came up, and several were unexpected. Covid is annoying no doubt but I am enjoying it as best I can. I can't get out to a club in Leicester or day game Trafalgar Sq on the regular (i do that). I still approach but OLD seems to be a one way ticket to free attention however, high interest girls are coming.

Richs bud aaron CLEARY (LOL) Swears much of the girls will flake. They will use social distancing if not Tyrone or Chad's status. The silver lining is the ones who come. They really double down.

 

[Visionist]

Trafalgar Square to avoid that old PUA stench in Leicester Square.

Pester Square they used to call it. I was there with a group of PUAs on Valentine's night 2009. We had a laugh with those French tourist madames.

 

[Solomon]

Richs bud aaron CLEARY (LOL) Swears much of the girls will flake. They will use social distancing if not Tyrone or Chad's status. The silver lining is the ones who come. They really double down.

Totally agree, the flaking has been surreal I'm defitnley no Brad/Chad or Tyrone
Yes I have met nearly a dozen girls but honestly most of them were a waste of time
Can't wait till the field opens up.

 

[Solomon]

Another thing that I wanna add
The positive about "Quarantine Dating" is you, learn right away who the timewasters/Attentionslores are compared to women who wanna meet
.
Typically the woman you wanna meet, usually meet within a few days where TImewasters/AWd said after quarantine or made some lame excuses. It made more effective meeting a woman right away to your place or meeting her at the lake for a walk

i.e. women sent me nudes for 2 days just to tell me she was on Tinder cause her boyfriend wasn't giving her enough attention smh