Courtney Ryan made a video about inexperienced men

[Gamisch]

Wow never realized, there’s a noticeable difference.

Yep, here’s a pic of her and her husband for anyone who’s curious.

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Here's the thing: Courtney has 2 or maybe 3 options.
1 . She dates this dork
2. She dates a rugged alpha looking man
3. She stays single

From a business perspective option 1 is the absolute best. Her target audience are incels. Marrying this dork alone will give her at least 1 maybe 2 million extra subscribers. All men like OP who will not only listen to her and send her money, they will use her relationship as a hook to hold on to and dream about remaining
("themselves ")a dork while getting a Courtney.

If she married or had a relationship with option 2 she would lose credibility. We overhere know all too well what a woman like this wants. I don't even wanna hear shłt about love and connection yadiya, I just dont buy that crap.

Soon as her success fades ,dude is out and replaced by a rugged alpha that at least can lift her up . For now she has to remain with him so men like OP believe her rather than a man saying the same .

 

[SW15]

If she married or had a relationship with option 2 she would lose credibility.

Billie Rae Brandt did this in one of her non-marital relationships. As a 5'0" woman, she was and might still be dating a man who is 6'2". That pissed off a lot of men. She discusses below.

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She's the perfect example of judging women based on their actions. While she could easily date a 5'6"-5'10" man at her 5'0" height, she has a 6'2" boyfriend. I don't blame her for exerting her hypergamy and taking the 6'2" option she got off of a swipe app. It is understandable why a lot of shorter men are upset in this situation. Her choices don't affect me personally as she lives in a different city than where I live and she's in a different dating pool. However, there are plenty of 5'0"-5'3" women like her who think that all men under 6'0" are trash. It's been a common mindset for White Millennial women and I think this mindset is persisting into White Generation Z women as well.

Billie Rae Brandt and Courtney Ryan are similar ages. Billie is 27 and Courtney is 29.

Here's the thing: Courtney has 2 or maybe 3 options.
1 . She dates this dork
2. She dates a rugged alpha looking man
3. She stays single

I believe that there was a time before she started her YouTube channel that she was going for alpha/sigma types.

I think she had genuine burning desire for the top tier guys. The kind of guys who are 6'0"+ and fit/muscular guys. The hot guys at the foam parties during Spring Break in Florida.

She realized she wasn't going to get commitment from them. She wanted commitment so she found a beta for that. It was good for her that he was a beta bucks beta male and not a beta with more ordinary financial means.

Soon as her success fades ,dude is out and replaced by a rugged alpha that at least can lift her up

I could see that happening in the future.

 

[RangerMIke]

The only way to defeat inexperience is to practice and get experience.

You can't be afraid to date and learn from failure. If you are worried about failure you will never learn.

If you are the honest/best version of yourself and sh1t goes sideways, you are with the wrong woman... so move on.

Fail forward.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Here's the thing: Courtney has 2 or maybe 3 options.
1 . She dates this dork
2. She dates a rugged alpha looking man
3. She stays single

From a business perspective option 1 is the absolute best. Her target audience are incels. Marrying this dork alone will give her at least 1 maybe 2 million extra subscribers. All men like OP who will not only listen to her and send her money, they will use her relationship as a hook to hold on to and dream about remaining
("themselves ")a dork while getting a Courtney.

If she married or had a relationship with option 2 she would lose credibility. We overhere know all too well what a woman like this wants. I don't even wanna hear shłt about love and connection yadiya, I just dont buy that crap.

Soon as her success fades ,dude is out and replaced by a rugged alpha that at least can lift her up . For now she has to remain with him so men like OP believe her rather than a man saying the same .

I used to be into watches about 4-5 years ago and would occasionally follow Teddy Baldassare. In some of his videos, though not regularly, he would feature Courtney to review watches, and these videos always attracted a lot of views, with her often being the main protagonist.

Before launching her own channel, Courtney worked for a fashion corporation. In one of her first videos, she explained why she left that job. At the time, I didn’t think she'd gain the popularity she has today. Still, it’s clear she became emotionally invested in Teddy, while also leveraging his resources. She likely has ambition, but it feels somewhat in the same vein to a woman marrying a wealthy man and then opening her own brick-and-mortar store.

 

[Gamisch]

I used to be into watches about 4-5 years ago and would occasionally follow Teddy Baldassare. In some of his videos, though not regularly, he would feature Courtney to review watches, and these videos always attracted a lot of views, with her often being the main protagonist.

Before launching her own channel, Courtney worked for a fashion corporation. In one of her first videos, she explained why she left that job. At the time, I didn’t think she'd gain the popularity she has today. Still, it’s clear she became emotionally invested in Teddy, while also leveraging his resources. She likely has ambition, but it feels somewhat in the same vein to a woman marrying a wealthy man and then opening her own brick-and-mortar store.

Things are never as black and white and yet things ARE black and white (in dating). Looks money and muscles. I'm not a woman but I know that my chances to GET women increase drastically if I "obey" these principles..if it wasn't I wouldn't be here because I would be with my high-school sweetheart or something like that.

Marrying this dude is a great business move as I pointed out. I don't say she has no feelings or doesn't love him somewhat. But when thing ARE black and white he is just a dork who punched above his league .

Let's just say (if they werent famous) and they separate he would have a harder time to replace her with a similar or better prospect than she has to replace him..

 

[BaronOfHair]

Her facial structure looks a little bit different to me. Perhaps she has lost some weight and gotten a better fitness routine. I wonder how her skin care routine has changed (she has promoted skin care products on her channel). I suspect she might have had work done on her nose and maybe had botox/fillers.

More and more women are undergoing plastic surgery in their teens and 20s. Learning that CR has done likewise wouldn't be remotely surprising

 

[BaronOfHair]

I wanted to do things with this thread: Share my thoughts about Courtney’s video as a 31 year old inexperienced guy and share the progress I made in 2024 and my plans for 2025 since I didn’t want to derail the other thread that got posted about that.

For the video:
It looks like Courtney made it about a year ago because she got a lot of requests for that video. I completely agree with her first point about anticipatory rejection and I’m guilty of doing exactly what she describes. I can’t let go of the belief that no women will want me due to my lack of experience and I’m pre-rejecting myself as a defense mechanism. As for her second point, I definitely wouldn’t ever volunteer that info about me being inexperienced, but my inexperience definitely does own me, its made me its b*tch these past 11 years and has become a self fulfilling prophecy where I felt that I didn’t stand a chance back then because I didn’t have experience and just started feeling that belief even stronger as I continued to get older with no experience, which left me even more discouraged of course. I also don’t feel that what she said about how dating didn’t happen because I was focused on other things would work for me due to my age. If I was still in my 20’s it probably would, but I think saying that won’t work in my 30’s. So my inexperience still has me feeling hopeless.

How 2024 went and my plans for 2025:
As I said on that other thread, I did absolutely nothing with women in 2024. Haven’t kissed a girl in 4 years and its now been 10 years since I’ve been on a date, and that date from a decade ago is the only date I’ve ever been on. But I did make progress towards other aspects of my life. I went on an Aaron Clarey recon mission to look for other states to move since my area has an extremely high cost of living and that’s the reason why I still live with my parents as I’ve said on here before. I also worked a lot at the event center where I do all of my different seasonal jobs 9 months out of the year and from April-June I was working 7 days a week. Then in the fall, I decided to go back to school for a vocational certification in agriculture and took 2 classes while working my seasonal jobs at the same time. My seasonal employers are very flexible and are willing to work around my school schedule too, which is nice. I got A’s in both classes and enrolled in 3 more, those next ones start later this month. I plan to take a couple more classes over the summer semester and then 3 more in this fall’s semester. I’m also gonna keep working the seasonal jobs alongside school to keep some money coming in and set aside what I can to move out of my parents house. So aside from women, I feel like I got more accomplished this year compared to the past several where my life felt stagnant. Who knows if things will be different this year when it comes to women (probably won’t be) but at least I’m moving myself forward in other ways.

One way to think about this, hoss:

Unless you're Warren Beatty or Robert Evans at the height of their fame, every man on this planet COULD always, potentially, benefit from more experience. If you're a fairly regular guy, like 98% of the male population, there's going to be plenty of sex you haven't engaged in

This is only an impediment to your success, IF you choose to dwell on what you don't have at the moment, rather than identifying your goals, then crafting viable strategies to achieve them

 

[SW15]

Before launching her own channel, Courtney worked for a fashion corporation. In one of her first videos, she explained why she left that job. At the time, I didn’t think she'd gain the popularity she has today.

She mentioned on a Playing with Fire podcast in 2021 that she was a pandemic layoff in 2020 before starting her channel. I think that's the story.

More and more women are undergoing plastic surgery in their teens and 20s. Learning that CR has done likewise wouldn't be remotely surprising

I'd be curious which procedures 18-29 year old females get most often.

Marrying this dude is a great business move as I pointed out. I don't say she has no feelings or doesn't love him somewhat. But when thing ARE black and white he is just a dork who punched above his league .

Let's just say (if they werent famous) and they separate he would have a harder time to replace her with a similar or better prospect than she has to replace him..

I believe Courtney settled on Teddy when she wasn't getting commitments from hot alpha/sigma types. She seemed to do it earlier in life. They met on Tinder. She likely did some carousel riding on Tinder.

If they broke up right now, she would have him replaced faster than he would have her replaced, even with his money and status of the Kevin O'Leary Shark Tank connection.

Things are never as black and white and yet things ARE black and white (in dating). Looks money and muscles. I'm not a woman but I know that my chances to GET women increase drastically if I "obey" these principles..if it wasn't I wouldn't be here because I would be with my high-school sweetheart or something like that.

Looks & money are the most important things. Muscles are a part of looks.

 

[jhonny9546]

You can be the most experienced person in the world and still fail. More than inexperience, it is something else.

Do you know when you are in a group and there is always that person who tries to "control" or "take charge" of the situation?

Imagine you are ten people going to a restaurant, and no one can decide where to eat. Then, one person arrives and makes everyone agree or moves the situation forward. In this case, he takes the reins of the conversation.

Another example would be fixing a screw or doing manual labor that someone else could handle. Let’s say there are five men in the room; even if he doesn’t have the skill, he will take responsibility for doing it.

Or consider when you need to travel from point A to point B, and he organizes the seating arrangements for everyone in the car.

Or when you go to a restaurant, and he takes charge to ensure everyone is positioned well, especially those with kids.

You know what I’m talking about. This type of man seems to be everywhere. Is this what it means to be a man that women love—someone who takes the lead?

This is a strong doubt I have always had because I have seen people respond in different ways to this behavior. Is this what it means to be a "mature man" in those circumstances, or does it come across as clingy?

 

[BaronOfHair]

Looks & money are the most important things. Muscles are a part of looks.

Recall '14's White Bird In A Blizzard...




Early in the film, Shailene Woodley and Chris Meloni stop by the nearest police precinct to report Eva Green missing, whereupon Woodley-in her internal monologue-notes how much more of a panty peeler the detective taking their report is, on account of him "being the sort of guy who carries a gun and kills things with his bare hands". The detective here is played by Tom Jane, who's significantly SMALLER in stature, LESS well-built, LESS moneyed than Meloni's character, and(I suspect in the eyes of most women)not as conventionally attractive as CM is

Clearly then, the persona a man cultivates and maintains is often just as-if not more-vital than looks. A sizeable income is something the wise man pursues for himself first and foremost, not women

 

[BaronOfHair]

You know what I’m talking about. This type of man seems to be everywhere. Is this what it means to be a man that women love—someone who takes the lead?

"This type of man" IS NOT everywhere, especially in this overthought-addled era we all currently inhabit. Thus, the ladies begin drenching their underroos, the minute a man who so much as puts on that sort of facade appears on the scene

 

[BaronOfHair]

Things are never as black and white and yet things ARE black and white (in dating)

They're never as Black And White when it comes to The Glitterati and those with ambitions to join said Glitterati*. The more astute folks in this crowd ask "Will whomever I'm marrying or pairing up with move me forward, keep me stagnant, or deplete me?", BEFORE they tie the knot with an SO


*Google Pfeffer's "Power: Why some people have it, and others don't" for further reference

 

[DreamAgain]

Courtney Ryan is a 7 on her best day let's be real, and if you took away her rack she would be just another plain jane that you can find in every bar in America.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Courtney Ryan is a 7 on her best day let's be real, and if you took away her rack she would be just another plain jane that you can find in every bar in America.

Do you think they are saggy?

 

[Gamisch]

"This type of man" IS NOT everywhere, especially in this overthought-addled era we all currently inhabit. Thus, the ladies begin drenching their underroos, the minute a man who so much as puts on that sort of facade appears on the scene

This. I don't know if you are familiar with that new hype show called Pop the balloon. The most striking comment said that commenter had NEVER seen a dude with a 9-5 been picked by the women. Let that sink in..

I post the video more to show the thumbnail , no need to watch it although it is kinda entertaining. She ( certified lady of the night) picks the dude with the biggest chain. Although dude is fake as F, they fall for it..spoiler: dude REJECTS her and made some great advertising for himself!

Another dude tried to play the " intellectual game " saying he reads books yadiya. She doesn't care..he tried to " train " her but she isn't there to be a trained to be a wife: she wants a baller. Period.

Another thing I've noticed is how weak those men are. None popped their balloon on her ,zero intuition to spot a 304. Embarrassing...

 

[BaronOfHair]

The most striking comment said that commenter had NEVER seen a dude with a 9-5 been picked by the women

Not surprising, for the simple fact that the personalities/behavioral traits common amongst 9-5ers are very similar to the many shortcomings Pauline Kael noticed in Gregory Peck http://themanfromporlock.blogspot.com/2010/08/poison-peck-letter.html?m=1
Quote: "On The Keys of the Kingdom (1944), one of Peck's earliest films, she wrote: "The humble hero keeps telling people what an uninteresting sort of man he is, and with Gregory Peck in the role we believe it." On Moby **** (1956): "Gregory Peck - the least demonic of leading men - is a disastrous Ahab; bearded, he looks like a stock-company Lincoln." To Kill a Mockingbird (1962): "Peck was better than usual, but in that same virtuously dull way." The Boys from Brazil (1978): "(W)hen an actor like Gregory Peck plays a sadistic Nazi geneticist and speaks in an arch-villain's sibilant German accent, you can't keep from laughing." Even for what would be non-archetypal part in Duel in the Sun (1946), Kael extends a hilarious backhanded compliment: "Peck actually manages to bestir himself enough to play of hunk of egotistic hot stuff - maybe the name Lewt McCanles got to him, or maybe the producer, David O. Selznick, used electric prods... "Still, she had to have been impressed by the actor's long memory when, in 1984, after what was evidently a special theatrical showing of The Keys of the Kingdom, her aforementioned hatchet-job was published (which also included a sweeping assessment that "(t)his is perhaps the most dignified and sexless performance ever given by a rising young male star")..."

If a fella's goal is getting hearts a fluttering... Well, he's well advised to take more cues from Robert Mitchum than Peck