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Countries a woman wants to travel to say a lot about her being LTR material.

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You know

Outside of @Solomon, @SW15, @CornbreadFed, @Mike32ct, @Pierce Manhammer, @BillyPilgrim and a handful of mods (including this one cool dude from Mexico whose name is slipping me), this forum has gone downhill. I used to wonder why I posted so much less frequently than I used to and then I realized I just got bored and felt the need to spit some ideas out.

Then realized a good chunk of you are grumpy dudes who take offense to everything, you can all use a trip to a nice legalized Eastern European wh0rehouse.

Deuces.
Dude you're mad or unhappy about everything...including the fact that I tagged you in a post you didn't even reply to 6 months ago. Your response to this is weird, and based on @Clockwerk50 's screenshot of you confessing to lying I'd wager YOU are pretty weird too.
 

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Nothing against you. Just mentioning what I read.
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But I did not lie on that field reports thread.

When I was a teenager and in my early 20s, which was many many years ago, I did troll internet forums out of boredom and wrote what was borderline erotica. What I found was that I only did myself dirty and robbed myself of development in game. It was a mistake and it is nothing I am proud of but now I know why people do what they do.

That field reports thread was nothing but the truth, it was the grind that a guy has to go through to get laid when he does cold approach. While some of you were by my side, a number of people just turned on me and started virtue signaling saying stuff like "why don't u find a wife breh!". Most of that thread was me taking L after L after L but it was the truth. The lies were many many years ago when I was bored outta my mind.

If anything, the fact that I proactively fessed up to some unflattering parts about my past should be respected because most guys won't even do that, they will keep lying and selling scammy dating courses.

But when I told the truth on that field reports thread, what was the consequence? Dudes ganging up on me. Dudes attacking me. Dudes trying to sell me on their garbage. Dudes practically trying to tell me to settle down and find a nice girl rather than going through the development of game. That is a large part of why I stopped posting on that thread because the SS community overall was not that supportive about the truthful experience of most guys who are out there on the field.

Instead, they are too busy attacking each other, virtue signaling, and a host of other stuff. That is part of why I only use this forum for entertainment now and have little to no respect for most of the people on it outside of a handful of users.

Too busy trying to tear someone improving their lives down than supporting them and too busy attacking other users who might share a controversial out there opinion.

I am done here and I made the right choice taking a long break from this forum.

Peace!
 

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I am actually a fan of your field reports, and from time to time I go to your blog.

However, the main post seems to come out of left field. It makes a huge generalization and overlooks the fact that you can't gauge someone's personality simply based on their travel preferences, especially if they're just exploring a country for fun and they have never been there before.

With that in mind, your consecutive posts came across as entitled and victimized. If someone disagrees with you, it feels as though you're dismissing their perspective.

PS: My advise for everyone is to stay away from flight attendants.
 
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I revisited the post about my area.
 

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He is a weird guy. He left, he came back, he's leaving again, he doesn't like when we challenge him. when we do he insults us. He is stuck in pua material and redpill stuff. The fact that he lied about himself or his reports proves that either he is a troll or an incel. His threads are ridiculous, especially this one. He is very immature, I wouldnt be surprised if he is a virgin.
I say good riddance, but we gonna see him again in a few months.
Not sure why him admitting to lying would make his reputation better; on the contrary, it could further damage trust and credibility, leading people to question his integrity and future statements.

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When is it an LTR? Six months? A year? Eighteen months? One of my lovers is a flight attendant with Qatar Airways that I've been seeing for over two years. I consider any lover who has been with me for more than a year to be an LTR.


No, that's the boring part of the job. Their expectation is to keep you as a lover for monthly trysts. And they're great in bed.
The general consensus of a LTR is a monogamous committed relationship.

I am sure you have a lot of fun with her. You don’t have to tell me.
 

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Oh, you're talking about LTMR. Should've said so. Exclusivity is so 'pre-Millenium'...
I figured someone with the fashion sense from the Baroque era would have the same “pre-millennial” exclusivity standards.

Sorry bro. You walked into that one lol <3
 
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So I have noticed that different countries in the world draw in different kinds of women. More than that, the countries a woman wants to travel to says a lot about where her head is at. I noticed a few things about women that pick which countries to travel to and how their personalities are like. Here is a breakdown and you may find this to be true.

Italy = Cookie cutter, wannabe/fake classy, basic as they come, airhead, and only for the streets.

If a girl tells you she loves traveling to Italy, she is telling you that she just goes along with whatever media says is good. She cannot think for herself and will go along with whatever trend that is out there. On top of this, she is also fake classy and fake stylish. She follows whatever trend is there and tries to come off as social media popular. The Europeans here will hate me but I cannot think of a more hyped up country that attracts the most NPC tourist anywhere on the planet than Italy.

India, The Middle East, or any part of the world where women are "harassed" (to put it lightly) = "Victim" that just wants attention and will likely MeToo you.

I do want to acknowledge that India and the Middle East are sh*tholes when it comes to how women are treated and are some of the worst places in the worldi in regards to sexism. It is sad because both places have a rich history and some great cuisine (as long as you avoid the street food) but the reality is, everyone traveling here has a logic. They know the place is a dump and and they still go because they just want to be a victim and get all the attention from it. Women that go to these countries will #MeToo you on the drop of a dime, be wary.

France = Wife material if she learns fluent French and has gone outside of Paris.

Unlike Italy, France gets a bad reputation across Europe. For some reason, Italy's reputation in Europe is perfect amongst the mainstream, perhaps The Mafia got into PR? However, France has a bad reputation with the French being seen as rude and Paris being seen as overrated. If a girl can actually speak French and has gone to parts of France outside of Paris, she might be a keeper.

Germany, Northern Europe, or any super rich country = Gold Digger or just practical.

Not much to be said here since these places are boring. However, I find that Sweden draws in a lot of American chicks from NYC for some reason. Not much of a conclusion to draw on here.

Any countries favorable for males = Definite LTR material.

If a girl loves going to a country like say Thailand or really any country favorable for men, it means that she does not feel insecure being in a dating market rigged in the favor of men. She can deal with the fact that she won't have men worshiping her. She is also confident to the point that she does not even care if there are lots of men with options with feminine women, she feels like she can actually compete with them.
What happens if she goes to Germany, France, and Italy in one trip? lol, Jesse these theories you have crack me up. What about a girl that goes to Thailand? Does that mean she's kinky?
 

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What happens if she goes to Germany, France, and Italy in one trip?
That's possible to do. I think one of the best ways to visit Europe as a United States resident would be to go see multiple countries over a longer period of time.

Most people of working age do not have enough vacation time to make this happen.

In high school or college, a person might have the free time to do that but not the money to do that. The money part of it could change if the parents have enough money to send their adolescent or young adult to Europe for multiple weeks.
 

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Gotta disagree with the Italy take amigo. I I’ve been to most parts of Italy and most parts of France and Italy wins by a clear mile because of the food and regional diversity. France is pretty mid outside Paris compared to other parts of Europe. In addition, nobody in France was rude to me and I received nothing but warm hospitality from everywhere I went. Piedmont & Tuscany alone are better than France.
 

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The wrapping is not the gift. Don't judge a book by its cover. When you make an assumption... you need more platitudes? ;)
I made it to Master Don Juan. I thought you'd be happy about my recent allocate :)
 
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For some reason, Italy's reputation in Europe is perfect amongst the mainstream, perhaps The Mafia got into PR?
This is funny because Italy doesn't even have a perfect reputation in Italy. Partly because of the Mafia.

In addition, nobody in France was rude to me and I received nothing but warm hospitality from everywhere I went.
Same here. The rude Frenchman is just a stereotype in American films. Obviously in Paris with more people you'll encounter more rudeness. But a lot of travelers don't even try to say bonjour or merci or pardonnez moi, parlez anglais?

Anyway I've seen a lot of these identity-politics threads, usually started by the same few people. I can always tell which people hyperdefine themselves through their ethnicity or nation and latch onto that. It can be good for a laugh but IME it's not a good tool for judging people, esp. for "wife material." Like I said about as reliable as astrology.
 

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I'm pleased that you reached the same empty rank I have 'achieved'. Kudos, et cetera. Now show your cognisance of women. Even empty ranks come with responsibilities. Except for incels, they just get the empty rank for writing posts wallowing in self pity and dejection.
Are you going to turn me into a character in one of your books?
 

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It applies to all women. If they are traveling to the given countries, there is a reason. Even Asian women who travel to India are just traveling to play victim as aggressive dudes harass them, so they can post about it online. Same with women that travel to a generic country like Italy, they just follow the fad and have no substance or resemblance of a personality in them. Certain countries and the vibe they put out give off certain vibes that attract certain kinds of people.
If a woman from Equatorial Guinea wants to travel to Trinidad and Tobago, what does that say about her?
 

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Depends on how misogynist you are and how deep your delusions go toward realising your torture fantasies.
Can’t you just contrast me against this character by giving me qualities that go beyond the extreme of goodness and kindness, with an aura of spirituality? Someone who did away with all of his personal material comfort to live out their ascetic ideals? Like Krishnamurti?
 

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A few women know mentioned Turkey and i have no idea why
Cheap plastic surgery.

the Turkish girls I’ve met are insanely hot so maybe the men are too.
 

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And I will call thee... Hubris.
Instead of living your life in darkness and adhering to taboos, you can embrace the light and the goodness it brings. There are pathways to inner growth through sharing ancestral tools and practices that help us reconnect with the magic of the world.

You can immerse yourself in the study and practice of Hatha Yoga, exploring over seven different yoga systems, including Kundalini, Ashtanga, and Sivananda. Alternatively, you might delve into the teachings of Zhineng Qigong and Daoist Qigong, where you’ll learn the language of Energy.

Also, you could travel the world, answering the call of the Way of the Path. This journey allows you to offer your heart through prayer, dance, and ritual while communing with the spirits of Nature. Everything is intertwined with the wisdom of nature and the potential of the human spirit.



Don’t miss out.
 
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