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So just leave it alone for a few days and see if she counters. If she doesn't ask her again.
 

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What would 1 do for their own business? Sell what? Consult what?
 

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There are alot of women who work remotely now. I used to have more remote flexibility and i believe this has cost me a few daytime lays
 

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There are alot of women who work remotely now. I used to have more remote flexibility and i believe this has cost me a few daytime lays
The increase in remote work in the white collar space has cost many white collar working men sexual opportunities.

Over the years, I have done approaches in office buildings where I have worked. I have gotten numbers and set up dates with women working in the other companies within the same building. That's a proximity effect, not the shiiting where you eat of dating within your own workplace. I think it's a great idea to approach women within the same building working in other companies.

There are also some men who will date women working in the same company and that's not happening now with more remote white collar work. I don't think it's a good idea to date within your own employer. It can work well if two people are dating from departments/job functions that rarely overlap and the two people met at something like a company-wide party. This is only something that tends to happen in bigger companies. Dating within one's own company in a smaller company is a bad idea.
 

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The increase in remote work in the white collar space has cost many white collar working men sexual opportunities.
The whole work Downtown atmosphere in general has changed. I just watched an Aaron clarey video about this. Gone are the days of Christmas parties and seeing hot women in pencil skirts. I prefer WFH so I could care less tbh lol.
 

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You work tomorrow so you cant? Girl wants you to come over at 11:30 at night, you go. This one’s on you. She must not be that hot.
You can call anyone here a b!tch, moron, gay, but the moment you say their girl isn’t hot….themz fight in’ words
 

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You can call anyone here a b!tch, moron, gay, but the moment you say their girl isn’t hot….themz fight in’ words
If your dream girl called you over to fvck at 1am tonight I bet you’d either have a good excuse or a bunch of Red Bull lined up tomorrow.
 

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If your goal is to get laid, how is having to work tomorrow a problem? You've never worked on 4 or 5 hours of sleep?

Are you on a performance improvement plan or something where if you don't come to work focused and giving 110% your boss is going to fire you?

So you have to own your own business to be able to work on less sleep? Sorry this makes no sense to me.
 

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The whole work Downtown atmosphere in general has changed. I just watched an Aaron clarey video about this. Gone are the days of Christmas parties and seeing hot women in pencil skirts. I prefer WFH so I could care less tbh lol.
The white collar work environment has changed a lot in the past 20-30 years. I graduated from college in 2005.

Most organizations still have a Christmas/Holiday party. I dislike holiday parties, especially when they are hosted after hours on a Friday.

Hot women in pencil skirts are long gone, as are men in suits. Business casual attire at most is being worn in offices.

The advantages of working in offices are the opportunities to meet women in other companies in the same building. This can easily happen in a 10+ story office building.

The in-person work environment has a lot of disadvantages that offset that one advantage.

Most people also are not friends with their co-workers and rarely spend any leisure time with co-workers.
 

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The advantages of working in offices are the opportunities to meet women in other companies in the same building. This can easily happen in a 10+ story office building.
One time I had a hinge date with a girl that I found out worked in my building. The date didn’t go well and I was always praying I wouldn’t run in to her again.
 

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One time I had a hinge date with a girl that I found out worked in my building. The date didn’t go well and I was always praying I wouldn’t run in to her again.
This reminds. 1 of the best places to meet women could be in a large cafeteria of a building that holds multiple corporations. But after seeing each other a few times. Maybe someone could start a thread on this.
 

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One time I had a hinge date with a girl that I found out worked in my building. The date didn’t go well and I was always praying I wouldn’t run in to her again.
I guess you had never seen her in the building prior to the Hinge date.

If you had cold approached her in some public area of the building, perhaps a 5 minute conversation would have been enough to realize that she wasn't worth a date offer.

Your story would be a downside of an interaction going bad with a woman working in the same building. The same thing can happen at the gym. There are situations where one person changes gyms after a romantic interaction goes bad. That typically wouldn't happen after a bad first or second date, especially if it was a no sex interaction. Seeing someone in the gym or main lobby of an office building after a bad date isn't fun.

I think it is still worth doing approaches in the office building with women working in other companies. Some buildings are better than others about having eligible singles in the building.
 

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I guess you had never seen her in the building prior to the Hinge date.

If you had cold approached her in some public area of the building, perhaps a 5 minute conversation would have been enough to realize that she wasn't worth a date offer.
It failed because it was right after a nasty breakup I had tbh. The icing on the cake was I had gotten banned from hinge due to my city of origin being in Russia and it sent her a message saying I had been banned lol. Still, there wasn’t much chemistry anyway and it was a simple coffee break.
 

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You work tomorrow so you cant? Girl wants you to come over at 11:30 at night, you go. This one’s on you. She must not be that hot.
My man.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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