Could you all tell us about Where and How you meet your current/ex- GF?

davelmn2003

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I'm just curious as to the circumstances and places where people have met their GF...Perhaps I can learn from people's rich experiences.
 

Oscar Wilde

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ex - in a pub,
current - in a pub.

I'm Irish by the way ;)
 

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That's a fun idea for a thread...

#1 We worked as salespersons for different stores in the same mall. Competitors actually. Me: Radio Shack. Her: Compucentre. I was over at her store nearly every day, getting tech info on the latest computer stuff they got. Name-tag removed of course. hehe She was always very helpful, answering all my questions. After a few weeks of this, I started checking her out too... ;)

#2 We we both in the same class. Job-hunting course paid for by unemployment insurance. Didn't even like her or find her attractive at first. We used to chat during breaks or lunch (was an all-day course). Became friends, then bf/gf, moved in together, had 2 kids and got married! lol Life plays the cruelest of jokes on you sometimes. :D

#3 Personals. Not much of an original story here. Talked on the phone once, dinner date, dated a few weeks, then moved in with her for a few months.

#4 Personals. Actually met her shortly before #3, but we were just friends. One day, I was over at her place and she told me that she felt ripe for a boyfriend. I told her I was staying single for a while, having just been through a horribly painful breakup with #3. Hadn't picked up on her message at all! lol A few days later she invited me over to give her a massage. Being a totally clueless AFC, I proceeded to give her one. She interpreted my cluelessness and previous conversation as Challenge and jumped me.

#5 At one of the dances I organize for non-smokers in my city. She was one of the regulars. Apart from my style, she liked the way I treated my kids (no alcohol at my dances, so kids are allowed. she has kids too). I was in the process of dumping #4 (Value by default). I was still 100% AFC at this point.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

bp1974

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Last Ex - Christmas party ONS-->LTR

Last FB - Workmates for years, then we went away to a conference together in Budapest. Very romantic city..
 

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Interesting post

In reverse order:

--> Business meeting
--> Co-ed sports team
--> Friend of a coworker at a dinner
--> Good friends' sister
--> New years party
--> In class at school
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Ex-Gf:Online - Went on a couple of dates, didn't see her for a year, hooked up again and dated for 6 months. Found out she was a far left queer studying for the bar. Talk about a guy who had a snowballs chance in hell at sanity:p

Current GF:Online - Met for a coffee date. We sat for 7 hours talking about AFCs, lol. Been together for almost a year now.
 

Frank Zappa

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As I am only in College, mostly in highschool it was in classes and at parties. Once at a driver's class for my reckless driving (was just testing DJ skills with the site's advice). I've always found that I love turning friends into the girlfriends because then I know them really well and it's easier to get comfortable about sex and such. Women who are your friends when you have a girlfriend usually like you so when you break up, it's not the same as when you have nobody and they are your friends. That's how it's been for me. ~Zappa
 

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Ex-GF: Cold PU at a restaurant, the only successful one I've ever done. I had some balls then . . .

Current GF: Online.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Last 5 years in reverse order:

Club
Club
Club
Pub
Pub
My House (someone brought her to my party)
 
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