Could use some advice.....

[Sapiens]

Originally posted by tseluca
Ok, I am going to respond a little harshly here, but I will speak the truth

#1 99% of men need to take sexual advice from women, most of you don’t know what the hell you are doing, and there is a reason most women fake orgasms. So we don’t fracture your fragile little egos, so add that to you list of areas to take advice from women

Now the “tricks and antics” on here may work for young silly girls who don’t know what they want, but these are the girls that dance on bar tops, are tattooed, and sleep with 50 men. Is that really the type of girlfriend you want? Is that the type of girl you want to marry, is that the type of girl you want to raise your kids? Just questions to ponder

Now if your ultimate goal is not a girlfriend, and just to bag as many chicks as you can, I am going to ask you why is that? Do you need the ego o boost to be able to say I banged 20 girls? Is your life that meaningless that sarging women and picking up girls is all you think of? Most of the men that I know who have been with lots of women deep down inside are really insecure, the same way girls who are with a lot of men are insecure..

Like I said before, if that is the type of woman you want, have at it, because it is one less idiot I will have to deal with when looking for a man

Now all this macho stuff that is spewed on this board between you guys is fine here, but I know what goes on behind closed doors. I have been intimate with the most “MACHO” and I have watched you all turn into little boys. Say it isn’t so, say it isn’t true, but there is no better psycologist than a naked women.

Guys, just look at yourselves, you know what I am talking about. You will never admit it, and I expect to get some harsh comments telling me I am fooloish, but that is the beauty of being a woman, and alll of my female friends say the same thing.. Many Many times the big man on campus becomes the little boy in the bedroom (not penis size wise, but emotionally). And you know what, there is nothing wrong with that, nothing at all.

A real woman knows exactly what she wants, A real, wants a confident man. A real woman wants a man to just be himself, A real woman will never stand for these silly PUA antics.

Guys take my advice, if you want a woman, a real woman, not some little girl, uyou are going about it the wrong way.

LOL, You are missing the point. You don't go from A to Z skipping B C D E ....Etc.

Most guys marry their second or third girlfriend, just to divorce her later. LOL

These guys here learn the techniques to gain experience, it is from experience they become masters.

Hopefully once they "sow" their oats, they can settle down and be good husbands.

-Sapiens

 

[tseluca]

The problem is, the B,C,D you are talking about is not with quality women.

You are playing basketball with these DJ tricks, then you expect to play football when you are ready to retire?
Makes no sense.

These are 2 totally differant types of women, and are in 2 totally differant leagues

You cant practice at one and expect to get good at the other

The problem is, if you use these tricks on a real woman that you want to marry it will never work out.

 

[Sapiens]

Originally posted by tseluca
The problem is, the B,C,D you are talking about is not with quality women.

What? How do you know? Who are you to make that call or assumption?

Originally posted by tseluca
You are playing basketball with these DJ tricks, then you expect to play football when you are ready to retire?
Makes no sense.

Women are women, same sport, same rules.

Originally posted by tseluca
These are 2 totally differant types of women, and are in 2 totally differant leagues

LOL, there is only one type, women. Ok, there are lesbians, but they really don't count for our purposes. (Unless it's a three some and I get to watch)

Originally posted by tseluca

The problem is, if you use these tricks on a real woman that you want to marry it will never work out.

You are 22. Give me a break.

Now, please go find yourself a rock and crawl under it. When we want your opinion we will give it to you.

-Sapiens

 

[tseluca]

You are 35 and on a board chatting with and taking advice from where most of the people are 22, so obviously you have no idea.

Saying women are women is like saying men are men

You claim to have AFC's and DJ's

Well guess what there is the same breakdown in the female population. There are the AFC women and there are the sophisticated ones.



See what I mean about "DJ's" turning into AFC's this big strong 35 year old man has to resort to telling a 22 year old girl to crawl under a rock, under the security of the internet, when he is confronted by her.

 

[Sapiens]

Originally posted by tseluca
See what I mean about "DJ's" turning into AFC's this big strong 35 year old man has to resort to telling a 22 year old girl to crawl under a rock, under the security of the internet, when he is confronted by her.

Look, the point here is for men to help each other out. Some of us learn, some teach. Internet or no internet, you come here "giving advice" when you haven't a clue what you want, I will call you out.

Read, then read, then read some more. Then, maybe then, and only then, you can give these guys somehelp.

Better yet, give us the secret of your success on your advice thread. I would really like that; to learn from your experience and wisdom.

-Sapiens

 

[tseluca]

I know exactly what I want. Don't presume to tell me I dont

Why does age matter when it comes to women giving advice, but not when men give it?

As for my secret to sucess, it is exactly that, I know what I want, and I wont settle for less than that. I wont tolerate game playing or sillyness. I want a real man who knows what he wants. I don't need a man, I would like to have one, and if one comes along, that is great. That is it Period, pure plain and simple

When guys are out DJ'g hitting on chicks, even if you are smooth, it makes you sem needey. It is that cool confident guy at the end of the bar sipping his scotch that makes me hot. It is the guy who is so preoccupied by his own things that he cares little to go out and hit on or DJ all the girls that is sexy.

 

[Sapiens]

Originally posted by tseluca
I know exactly what I want. Don't presume to tell me I dont

As for my secret to sucess, it is exactly that, I know what I want, and I wont settle for less than that. I wont tolerate game playing or sillyness. I want a real man who knows what he wants.

So, the secret of your success is knowing you want a man that knows what he wants. Mmm, okay.

Originally posted by tseluca
I don't need a man, I would like to have one, and if one comes along, that is great. That is it Period, pure plain and simple

Yes, you do. It is called nature.

Originally posted by tseluca

When guys are out DJ'g hitting on chicks, even if you are smooth, it makes you sem needey. It is that cool confident guy at the end of the bar sipping his scotch that makes me hot. It is the guy who is so preoccupied by his own things that he cares little to go out and hit on or DJ all the girls that is sexy.

LOL, case in point, If you ignore them they want you. 'nuff said.

Best of luck, I got things to do. I know, I know...you have to have the last word. Bye.

-Sapiens

 

[JackPrescott]

Interesting. Heres my 50 cents. If a man is single, he is going to chase all kinds of different women. IF there is chemistry, things will happen, without chemistry, nothing will happen. Some women are good just for sex, some for more, some cant make up their minds, some will choose other men over you, some will want you.

But the bottom line fact, regardless of age, is confidence. No woman alive likes a needy, clingy wuss-boy. A woman wants a man who is a commodity. A woman wants a man who has his $hit together, financially, emotionally and physically. She wants an athletic caveman in the bedroom, who treats her like a wh0re, and a gentleman outside of it.

If there is chemistry, and you have your $hit together, and you are a confident man, who lets a woman know that he doesnt need her, they eventually want to be with you.

 

[Desdinova]

#1 99% of men need to take sexual advice from women, most of you don’t know what the hell you are doing, and there is a reason most women fake orgasms. So we don’t fracture your fragile little egos, so add that to you list of areas to take advice from women

One thing that I tell guys on here is not to have women "teach" men how to be sexual, they should copy the things she does. A woman will touch and kiss a man the way she wants to be touched and kissed.

Now the “tricks and antics” on here may work for young silly girls who don’t know what they want,

You've just summed up 90-95% of all women.

but these are the girls that dance on bar tops, are tattooed, and sleep with 50 men.

Really now? How many of your friends do this? Most women are too self-conscious to do stuff like this.

Is that really the type of girlfriend you want? Is that the type of girl you want to marry, is that the type of girl you want to raise your kids?

Although you may be looking for Mr. Right, not everyone here is looking for a woman to settle down with. You need to realize this. Read the posts from guys who were in or are looking for LTRs.

Now if your ultimate goal is not a girlfriend, and just to bag as many chicks as you can, I am going to ask you why is that?

Because it's fun.

A real woman knows exactly what she wants, A real, wants a confident man.

These "real women" that you speak of are a rarity. To quote a single woman I once knew, "I want someone who's tall, dark, blonde, a nice set of buns, and no brain."

Many guys come here to learn how to become a man that women want. The problem is, women will NOT become what a man wants.

A real woman wants a man to just be himself,

What happens when a man isn't confident? Is being himself good enough?

A real woman will never stand for these silly PUA antics.

The proof is out there that most women DO become attracted by PUA. You can't say it doesn't happen when the proof exists.

Guys take my advice, if you want a woman, a real woman, not some little girl, uyou are going about it the wrong way.

There are lots of women out there who will tell a man how to attract a woman. Men today DO follow women's advice and still get nowhere. It's come down to an alternative route, and mASF and sosuave are the places they're flocking to.

The problem is, if you use these tricks on a real woman that you want to marry it will never work out.

There is one thing you're missing. You're viewing these techniques as "tricks". They don't become "tricks" when they're made as a part of a man's personality. It then becomes natural.

I wont tolerate game playing or sillyness

This is a well worn out line used by women like you. I've read time and time again from posts on here where the men get fed this line, and then are led through an obstacle course. A woman's words can lie, her actions won't.