Could Pr0n actually help you?

[Xanthus]

This question just popped in my head as I was right about to consider surfing the naughty side of the web.. "Could Pr0n actually help you?" Thankfully, I haven't stepped onto the dark side in years, but I was wondering if being bombarded with filth could actually be beneficial. I'm not talking about a ten minute clip here and a half hour clip there spread out over a few days. I'm talking watching non-stop various fcuk sessions, avoiding the stuff that'll get me in trouble (stuff I'd rather not want to watch anyway), a few hours daily. I mean, really get my mind into it. Believe me, I'm taking this with serious caution. So, your thoughts are all worthwhile here.

Now, I know looking at 30 second dirty clips (this shows how far back I go) will fester in your mind to the point where you can't help but yank one off. But, what if you took that energy and resistance to smack the 'ol stick around? What if you moved that energy towards concentrating on meeting women and setting up dates, all the while knowing you'll finally be at that satisfying moment, without your own hand ever getting in the way. I'm sure this would be an extremely tough task, but it couldn't be impossible.

Have any of you used Pr0n as a means of forcing yourself to "get out there" and meet the ladies? I'd imagine using this tactic would really drive a guy up the wall, as all sorts of dirty images would be swirling in his mind. I would really like to think though that this "bad stuff" can actually make him more sexual/sensual. I kind of look at it as someone who has to go to the bathroom REAL BAD. Any mention of water (lakes, running streams, walking past a fountain, etc.) would make them jumpy without a doubt. Yet, most of the time, they can hold out (in?) until they're ready to........ rrrrreeeeelllleeeeeaaaaaasssseeeeee....... Aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh....

Within this past year, I've been making great progress in not letting those urges to yank off get the best of me. I think back to this one time when I had refused to "do the deed" for one week shy of a month. Let me tell ya, I was very glad I could build up so much jam. The reason why I say this is because if I keep the thought of eventually laying a lady on my mind, but of course not letting this thought control me, I'll be able to satisfy that lucky one by spooging all over her real good. That to me alone would be worth the effort.

Interesting story here.... I once was able to convey my hornyness (is that a word?) to this lady I knew for a short while. I guided her hand to my 'happy zone' and from there on was good to go. Just before meeting up though, I stopped myself from slapping the salami because I had a good feeling something would happen between me and her. And yes, it did. We made it to a quiet area and she sucked me off. Now, this story didn't exactly involve watching a good amount of Pr0n. I don't even think I visited much of the raunchy sites within weeks, perhaps months, of this incident. I'm just saying that having that sexual/sensual feeling in you can really pay off.

Xanthus

 

[JCballin88]

Short answer: it's not worth it.

 

[Scars]

I'm pretty sure this is what rapists do.

 

[Alle_Gory]

No.

But it's better for you to come to your own conclusions and understand why it doesn't help at all.

 

[Xanthus]

UPDATE: I went to one of the Pr0n sites and was able to see preview thumbnails. I couldn't bring myself to view even one of the videos. I've been tempted at times, but I always dropped the idea. I'd say that's a good thing, truthfully. The last dirty clips I watched were sometime in mid/late 2009 and only a handful at that.

Well guys, thanks for your responses. I guess too much Pr0n would turn you into a desperate soul looking for any tail, even by force. I'm not interested in going down that road. Since I wrote the initial post, I really don't think I'd want to spend (more like waste) hours of my life watching people "do it". No doubt, I just realized how that would fcuk you up to no end. And once you got started, where the hell would it end? It could definitely become a sickness in it's own right.

Just so that you folks know, I missed out on a lot of my youth because I suffer from HFA (High Functioning Autism), more specifically Asperger's Syndrome. Part of why I asked about this Pr0n stuff at all was because I was wondering if it could help you enhance your sexual/sensual side. But now that I've looked at this more logically, I see how it could seriously ruin you instead.

By the way, the lady I mentioned who gave me a BJ had high IL in me from the beginning. I really wanted to follow up on that night by setting another date to hang out and catch a movie/meal (not expecting another BJ or fcuk, just wanted to hang). And I would have, but my HFA/SA got in the way. My intentions were very good, but I had thoughts of waiting things out to figure on how to call her up for the next date. That question would keep repeating in my mind, causing a few days to pass and then a few weeks and so on. It sucks because she was asking about me through a close friend one day. She wanted to know when I was going to drop her a line (she DID want to see me again). I feel like sh!t about that even to this day. I tried reaching her a few times, but always got her voicemail (and yes, I did leave my number). Oh well.

This brings up a good point though.... If I didn't have this Asperger's, I would have had dates set up left and right that would've resulted in guaranteed lays. I've got the charm and can make use of my sexual/sensual side and not lay it on too thick. If she said no to my advances, I'd have no problem with that and would never force myself on her. But I've been so detached from life because I can't break out of this mental block I have.

Thanks for hearing me out.

Xanthus

 

[supremacy]

Good thread, although when you say pr0n I thought you meant prom lol....and nothing good comes from that!

Porn is like a drug, it eventually distorts our mental image and behavioural patterns and controls our behaviour in more ways than one. I am a firm believer that rapists, peadophilia and child-porn, not to mention Incestry is a big result of the porn industry. SEX controls the masses and hence is a big weapon of the media - the Jewish media. The Zionists who control most things bad in the world, including america.

People need to get educated on the subject and stop watching the ****.

 

[Xanthus]

Good thread, although when you say pr0n I thought you meant prom lol....and nothing good comes from that!

Yeah, I didn't know if this forum had a filter for that word. So, there ya have it.

Porn is like a drug, it eventually distorts our mental image and behavioural patterns and controls our behaviour in more ways than one. I am a firm believer that rapists, peadophilia and child-porn, not to mention Incestry is a big result of the porn industry. SEX controls the masses and hence is a big weapon of the media - the Jewish media. The Zionists who control most things bad in the world, including america.

People need to get educated on the subject and stop watching the ****.

Be careful with Illuminati talk my friend. That's a huge Pandora's box there. I could go on for awhile about my observations, but this isn't the proper forum to discuss it in.

As far as Zionism itself, I don't believe all Jews are at fault for complete control of the entertainment biz. It's unfortunately the ones that are in the highest positions pulling strings that are casting down this much unnecessary evil. I just can't fathom how they would be so callous in destroying humanity itself. We're just people with emotions tied in (oh, and they've found ways to play with it to great effect). Really, we shouldn't be afraid of each other at all. Those caveman days are over. Brothers and sisters are all we are. To pin us up against each other over silly sh!t is not what we were put on this good Earth for. Not one bit.

Now, going back to the main part of this topic.... Without all this Zionist control over humanity, do you feel our society would finally live in peace or be at least much closer to it? We should all still be able to have fun with the opposite sex and spin plates if we so choose. But we'd probably be a much happier bunch in the process because all that sh!t they're feeding our minds wouldn't be there anymore. You get what I'm saying?

Xanthus

 

[Rogue]

Just so that you folks know, I missed out on a lot of my youth because I suffer from HFA (High Functioning Autism), more specifically Asperger's Syndrome.

So do I, so I know what you're going through.

There is one (limited) way which porn can be helpful, in terms of mentality, and it's not about the actual sex. Occasionally you run across camera guys who spit verifiably good game—the only example I know is the guys at BangBros/BangBus. This is within the gonzo style of porn where the dialog and playful teasing banter is improvised. It's POV (point of view) so it's as if you're doing it yourself, and there are a few porn stars like Faith Leon and Gianna Michaels who have genuinely very cool hip personalities.

But like I say, the benefit is limited in scope.

 

[supremacy]

As far as Zionism itself, I don't believe all Jews are at fault for complete control of the entertainment biz.Xanthus

Unfortunately the majority are because they are controlled/brainwashed from a young age and develop a blood-thirsty attitude that they are above everyone else and that it is "God's Will" that Zion/Israel is theirs.....hence all the innocent Palestinian Killings/torture/slavery. These guys will not stop killing until they have their land and do not care about anyone, not even their allies America.

Not all Jews are like this I know....but the majority are. In Israel anyway.

Without all this Zionist control over humanity, do you feel our society would finally live in peace or be at least much closer to it?

The Jews control a lot of the big industries we know of today; Zionists.
They will do whatever it takes to control the mass and together with the capitalists out there dominate mankind as we know it today. With all that said, yes we would be better of in a big way without those evil bast**** but there is still a lot more than Zionism to worry about......but as you say, this is not the place.

we'd probably be a much happier bunch in the process because all that sh!t they're feeding our minds wouldn't be there anymore. You get what I'm saying?

If only we could all open our eyes and see the morbid society we live in because we could all make a difference; In Unity comes strength.

Unfortunately, most our nothing but a cattle of sheep; drip, drip, drip.

But even the Roman Empire toppled.....there is hope for us all.
In God we trust. Ameen.

 

[Alle_Gory]

So do I, so I know what you're going through.

Self diagnosed or by a medical professional and to what degree?

 

[Kerpal]

SEX controls the masses and hence is a big weapon of the media - the Jewish media. The Zionists who control most things bad in the world, including america.

*Facepalm*

 

[supremacy]

*Facepalm*

Yea.....guess what category you fit into.....lol

Jog on.

 

[Rogue]

Self diagnosed or by a medical professional and to what degree?

Both. When I was younger, I scoured through the entire DSM and it was the only thing which fit, but I discarded it because of the flaws in self-diagnosis. But I've since been professionally diagnosed by a psychologist, yes. I was a classic textbook case and when I was younger people thought I was weird and odd, perhaps even a little schizophrenic because I have a tendency to talk to myself—not out of delusion but simply to think out my thoughts, but I've gone a very long way over the decades and now I've pretty much gotten a solid handle on myself that I can say I've effectively "cured" myself.

 

[Xanthus]

So do I, so I know what you're going through.

There is one (limited) way which porn can be helpful, in terms of mentality, and it's not about the actual sex. Occasionally you run across camera guys who spit verifiably good game—the only example I know is the guys at BangBros/BangBus. This is within the gonzo style of porn where the dialog and playful teasing banter is improvised. It's POV (point of view) so it's as if you're doing it yourself, and there are a few porn stars like Faith Leon and Gianna Michaels who have genuinely very cool hip personalities.

But like I say, the benefit is limited in scope.

Oh, you mean directing. I wouldn't mind doing that with my lady if she was up for the idea.

My initial thought from starting this thread was basically building up a more sexual desire for the lady I'd be with. I was wondering if porn could actually give me a little boost there. I was wrong in thinking watching it non-stop would help though. Thankfully, I've never formed an addiction to it.

As for HFA/SA, I'm glad to see I'm not alone in being someone trying break through it and living a better life. Like I said earlier, if this mental block wasn't in the way, I would've had more dates without a doubt. And since I'm naturally good at conveying my sexual desire without being forceful, there would have been plenty of guaranteed lays.

I haven't even begun to conquer the roots of my Aspergers yet. It was in 2008 that I thoroughly read up on the subject and found many similarities associated with myself. I was professionally diagnosed in early 2009, unfortunately quite late for me. Now I'm running against time in trying to put the pieces together so that I'll eventually get closer to where I want to be, whether with the ladies or dealing with life in general.

I'm not giving up hope though. My uncle died in his early 30's from cancer about ten years back. He was a natural DJ and didn't take sh!t from anybody. I've still got time on this good earth to follow in his footsteps. I just want what other guys are enjoying. People don't understand how Autism can rip you away from living your life. Unless you have it, then you really don't know what it's like.

Xanthus