Could not perform due to "Whiskey Dic8" !!!!! It' sucks !!!!!

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Will it help my cause if the first time I fuc8ed her was really good. The week before when I fuc8ed her the first time I made her c*m 3 times in a span of 10 - 12 minutes and during our love making session she gave me a few compliments like “You are so good”, “You are big” and “I love you”.

Do you think I can salvage anything from my first performance ???
Yes, just don't make it a big deal and don't bring it up. If she asks you about it, which she won't, say you were working long shifts that week and you were just beat tired. But next time, watch your water intake. So important in order to control the side effects of alcohol.
 

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Yes, just don't make it a big deal and don't bring it up. If she asks you about it, which she won't, say you were working long shifts that week and you were just beat tired. But next time, watch your water intake. So important in order to control the side effects of alcohol.
Thank you for your response. I am never going to have whiskey or any booze when I feel like I might have a chance to get laid again. One experience is more than enough for me. I have been beating myself over the head with this experience. Just a shi88y experience.
 

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Thank you for your response. I am never going to have whiskey or any booze when I feel like I might have a chance to get laid again. One experience is more than enough for me. I have been beating myself over the head with this experience. Just a shi88y experience.
I think your mind is playing tricks on you. I am sure she doesn't think it is as big of a deal as you do. Relax and reset. All will be fine.
 

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yeah, I also always read stuff like ''you can compensate by eating her out good'' etc. I think it's bollox too. Anyone else confirm or deny? It's happened to me with a girl who is VERY into me and she is STILL chasing me for sex, but it also happened on holiday with a VERY hot young girl (damn!!) and she seemed to hate me after lol and I didn't get a 2nd chance, so maybe it depends on her initial attraction or something. I dunno
I think it could depend on her initial attraction. Did you get “whiskey dic8” with the first girl who’s still chasing you for sex? How did she respond afterwards? How did you get through the phase?

Prior to this incident I already fuc8ed her once and made her c8m 3 times but I could not c8m. She enjoyed the experience and even asked me if she could hold my hand and kiss it (After sex)

I hope to salvage something from the first performance.

We kissed before she exited the car after my “whiskey dic8 performance”. Do you think she’s forgiven me?
 
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Just imagine of something truly kinky you'd wished to do on her.

Don't ask her for permission or even bother to convince her before hand to the act.

If she makes noise, tell her to stfu and go get it done.

Don't worry, ur noob d1ck will be raging hard to get the deed done.
 

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Good sign you should cut back on the drinking in general.

I noticed as I've gotten older (I'm 25), My body can't handle the abuse I threw at it back when I was 18. I stick to 4 or 5 drinks max, and take supplements to improve my performance in bed.

As for the girl, sorry to say but there is a good chance she may not want to sleep with you no more. This situation has happened to me and my buddies a few times, and on all occasions we didn't get a second chance with the girl.
This is not the first time with her. I already fuc8ed her prior to this experience and I made her cu8 3 times and she gave me compliments on my performance. Is there any way I can salvage this affair?

After my “Whiskey dic8” performance before she excited the car she leaned into me for a kiss and we made out for a short while.
 

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^This, unfortunately.

Pop culture articles always say that you can compensate by just eating it or fingering her to kum, and that will be fine. That advice is dead WRONG imo. When they want the D, and the guy is unable to deliver, it is usually game over. Even if you make her kum by other means, you still lost major points.

A LTR will probably forgive you for having a bad night. But a ONS/FWB/plate generally won’t. Worse than that, they discuss this with their gf right after, and she’s probably not going to take your side on this one either.

This isn’t to make you feel bad. You can certainly try again. All we are saying is don’t be shocked if you have to meet a different chick and let this one go.
Fortunately for me this not the first time with her. I already fuc8ed her prior to this experience and I made her cu8 3 times and she gave me compliments on my performance.

Is there any way I can salvage this affair?

After my “Whiskey dic8” performance before she excited the car she leaned into me for a kiss and we made out for a short while.
 

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Fortunately for me this not the first time with her. I already fuc8ed her prior to this experience and I made her cu8 3 times and she gave me compliments on my performance.

Is there any way I can salvage this affair?

After my “Whiskey dic8” performance before she excited the car she leaned into me for a kiss and we made out for a short while.
Honestly, just continue like it never happened. Set up your next meet like you would otherwise do.
 

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This is not the first time with her. I already fuc8ed her prior to this experience and I made her cu8 3 times and she gave me compliments on my performance. Is there any way I can salvage this affair?

After my “Whiskey dic8” performance before she excited the car she leaned into me for a kiss and we made out for a short while.
In that case yes there is a chance. You showed her you can perform.

All you can do is try asking her to hang out again. Hope it all goes well.
 

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Ok, I find this woman very attractive but yesterday I just couldn't perform because I drank a bit too much whiskey (A stupid thing to do) and she ended up blaming herself and pushing me emotionally. She told herself "Is it something about me?" in regards to my inability to perform due to too much drinking. I assured her that it's got nothing to do with her.

By the way, she's the same woman I wrote about in my previous thread. I banged her last week when I took her in my car and that time I fuc8ed her but I did not ***. This week (yesterday) I could not perform at all and I ended up eating her pu88y for a minute or so.

Do you think I completely "Blew it" with her ? (Reverse pun intended)

I feel so horrible about myself. I got a golden chance to bang her once more but this time it's completely my fault. I feel like she might withdraw herslef from me. I don't feel satisfied till I blow my load into or on her.

PLEASE HELP.
It’s really not a big deal .. spin it around. Play the “I’m bored with sex” card and motivate her to step her sex game up to Super Saiyan God
 

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Did you get “whiskey dic8” with the first girl who’s still chasing you for sex? How did she respond afterwards? How did you get through the phase?
yes. Got whiskey dic-k with 1st girl (even though I took a viagra!) but she's always had a huge crush on me. I think I could kill her hamster and she'd still want me. When it happened I was pretty drunk and couldn't get hard, but I just fingered her and stuff (she drenched the sheets!). I didn't make a big deal about it and was like ''I've drank too much, lol''. And she's been chasing me hard since, although i'm not really interested


With the other girl, she was a beautiful teen girl half me age. I'm STILL angry about it! lol. And I never heard from her again.

If you've already banged her and she had fun as you say, I doubt it's a big deal at all
 

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yes. Got whiskey dic-k with 1st girl (even though I took a viagra!) but she's always had a huge crush on me. I think I could kill her hamster and she'd still want me. When it happened I was pretty drunk and couldn't get hard, but I just fingered her and stuff (she drenched the sheets!). I didn't make a big deal about it and was like ''I've drank too much, lol''. And she's been chasing me hard since, although i'm not really interested


With the other girl, she was a beautiful teen girl half me age. I'm STILL angry about it! lol. And I never heard from her again.

If you've already banged her and she had fun as you say, I doubt it's a big deal at all
So I guess initial attraction and the first performance plays a major factor in her giving you another chance or letting things slide and be with you again. I have read that women feel less about themselves and think something is wrong with them and that they are not sexy enough for you. This could play in your favour if she really likes you.

The one thing that could save me is my first performance. Did well and she even gave me good compliments during sex. She asked me if she could hold my hand and kiss it (After sex).

She leaned into me for a kiss before she exited her car (After my “whiskey dic8” performance)

So I guess there are a few positives. Hopefully things turn out the better for me.
 

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Ok one question. I do realise that women share a lot of things with their friends and some even talk about sexual experiences with them (Depending on her personality too). What are the chances that she would share this experience with them considering that she has a husband and three year old daughter?
 

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Stop hijacking my thread with negative energy. Whatever concerns I have are my obsessions with what is happening to me right now in regards to this particular female. If you don't have anything constructive to offer, just stay away. And stop being pre-judiced. Just because my posts somehow "reflect" trolling from your online "perspective" does not mean I am doing it. Why would I put in so much energy and effort reading all the posts over and over again trying to get a new angle on what is happening to me and also responding on a timely basis.
 

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