Could not get hard AGAIN with HB last night..please help lol

[spiegel549]

Hey guys, this has happened before and I wrote about it and can't find the thread for the life of me...

Was out last night drinking, being aggressive, and ended up taking a HB home last night.

The first 30 minute I was at 3/4 hard and could not get full erect. I drank a ton of beer but usually I never have a problem when I drink beer wtf!?

Long story short we fooled around, had a blast, this morning I finally was able to be full erect and then she was too dry and I just gave up.

Had a lot of fun but this has happened now to me three times now, not in a row but I am starting to freak out...I am turning 28, in the gym everyday, working 12 hours shifts, watch a ton of porn.

Maybe I should cut back on the gym? Cut out the porn?

Anyone have any vitamins they know of I could take or what do you think? Please make me feel sane to know I am not the only one this has happened to.

Thanks guys.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Yo Spiegs,

Yup. Cut the porn defo, especially if you're expecting 'company'.

I also feel less inclined when I have been training a lot; we use up the testosterone on exercise instead. So may be skip on days you're expecting her too... but not to the detriment of you're fitness goals.

I take on oats (muesli and porridge) a lot. Brilliant for circulation: http://www.symptomfind.com/nutrition-supplements/health-benefits-of-oatmeal/

.... I have an absolutely raging bone after eating it every day for a week Not particularly exciting food, but we suffer for our art! Muesli is more tasty and varied. Like nature's viagra, seriously

 

[El Payaso]

Stop drinking so excessively.

 

[djthiago1]

Drinking + Porn + nervousness = ED

 

[Married Buried]

Hey guys, this has happened before and I wrote about it and can't find the thread for the life of me...

Was out last night drinking, being aggressive, and ended up taking a HB home last night.

The first 30 minute I was at 3/4 hard and could not get full erect. I drank a ton of beer but usually I never have a problem when I drink beer wtf!?

Long story short we fooled around, had a blast, this morning I finally was able to be full erect and then she was too dry and I just gave up.

Had a lot of fun but this has happened now to me three times now, not in a row but I am starting to freak out...I am turning 28, in the gym everyday, working 12 hours shifts, watch a ton of porn.

Maybe I should cut back on the gym? Cut out the porn?

Anyone have any vitamins they know of I could take or what do you think? Please make me feel sane to know I am not the only one this has happened to.

Thanks guys.

Buy this. You can keep banging all night.

http://www.greatwhitepeptide.com/tadalafil-25mg-60ml-bottle-w-1cc-marked-dropper-64.html

 

[Rainman4707]

Practice OP. The more sex you have, the better you become.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Cut out porn. That's your main problem, I assure you. Porn can make being and staying erect harder as well as make sex less pleasurable than it normally would be.

Keep hitting the gym but cut back on drinking slightly as well if you really want the extra edge.

 

[LiveYourDream]

Hey guys, this has happened before and I wrote about it and can't find the thread for the life of me...

Was out last night drinking, being aggressive, and ended up taking a HB home last night.

The first 30 minute I was at 3/4 hard and could not get full erect. I drank a ton of beer but usually I never have a problem when I drink beer wtf!?

Long story short we fooled around, had a blast, this morning I finally was able to be full erect and then she was too dry and I just gave up.

Had a lot of fun but this has happened now to me three times now, not in a row but I am starting to freak out...I am turning 28, in the gym everyday, working 12 hours shifts, watch a ton of porn.

Maybe I should cut back on the gym? Cut out the porn?

Anyone have any vitamins they know of I could take or what do you think? Please make me feel sane to know I am not the only one this has happened to.

Thanks guys.

As far as your question, know that there is a HUGE population suffering from "porn induced erectile dysfunction." Google it. You can read countless stories. These aren't just older men. There are lots of younger men in their late teens and early 20's, who despite their youth, an HB, and full intent, are no longer able to get hard and have sex (or consistently). Some can no longer even get hard to masturbate.

There are articles explaining how the brain changes from watching lots of porn and how it can eventually affect your ability to be hard with a woman. It is becoming a pervasive and openly discussed issue. There are all kinds of online support and forums for the journey to regain full function, as well as lots of success stories to read.

You are not alone. There is information readily available to understand it and regain function, should it be the cause of your issue. If it's not, at least understand it, so you can choose to prevent it.

Aside from that, the alcohol may indeed be the culprit alone or contributing. It would be wise to check that out too.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Purity Solutions has had their generic viagra on sale a lot lately. $12.50 for a bottle comes out to about 1/20th the price of Phizer's $20 blue pills.

http://www.pure-sol.net/sildenafil.html

The cialis still gets on my nerves. It doesn't feel as strong; it just lasts way too long. It would be ok if you were spending a weekend away with a girl.

 

[JohnChops]

Drinking + Porn + nervousness = ED

wtf really? I would say porn and drinking aren't factors (to much porn maybe) but nervousness is what needs to be targeted since you will cut off blood supply to everywhere that isn't needed in a fight or flight response.

I'm fvcking 21, jerk off before hanging out with girls and when I drink and have sex Im still rock solid.

Nervousness is your issue, just chill out dude.

 

[djthiago1]

wtf really? I would say porn and drinking aren't factors (to much porn maybe) but nervousness is what needs to be targeted since you will cut off blood supply to everywhere that isn't needed in a fight or flight response.

I'm fvcking 21, jerk off before hanging out with girls and when I drink and have sex Im still rock solid.

Nervousness is your issue, just chill out dude.

Drinking moderatelly might not affect much but being drunk certainly does, and so does watching tons of porn.
check out http://yourbrainonporn.com/

 

[Epimanes]

Porn floods your brain with dopeamin.. More so than a normal woman can compete with. If your brain is used to this flood.. Then regular sex won't cut it nor will it give the same stimulation the porn does add alcohol to the mix and the porn dopeamine problem is even more amplified.

I shyt you not... That's a bad combo especially if your using porn every day or every other day. Sure if your younger you may not notice it as much and dismiss this... Get closer to 30 and it will stand out like a sore thumb. Cut out the porn man... Give it a few weeks for your brain to rewire to Normal stimulation and you'll be back to normal.

Epi

 

[JohnChops]

Drinking moderatelly might not affect much but being drunk certainly does, and so does watching tons of porn.
check out http://yourbrainonporn.com/

Spigs is 27, he shouldn't have issues either way. I am also versed on what dopamine does, and I have seenthat website about 5000000 times linked here and I am sick of it. You guys throw around the term, "dopamine", like that is the only issue. Other neurotransmitters and neuromodulators control the release of dopamine as well and are in charge of its regulation.

 

[Epimanes]

Seratonin... Dopeamine.. Oxytocin... Testosterone. The favorite 4.

Its not thrown around just for the fvck of it.. Its fact. Also couldn't give a shyt about that website. Porn and dopeamine is like seratonin and exstacy... Porn creates an overdose of dopeamine and exstacy is an overdose of seratonin.

Fact...

 

[Embers84]

See a doctor about your problem with ED, the longer you let it go, the worse it will become. There are safe and easy medical procedures that can cure your ills without taking pills.

 

[spiegel549]

I read through all your responses. I appreciate you guys taking the time to make me feel sane again.

Straight up I NEVER had a problem with nervousness in the bedroom. Alcohol never effected me either. This is all a new thing for me....making me a bit nutty thinking I have something wrong with me when I know I don't.

Thinking about it I have been watching so much porn that the usual girl on girl, pov, guy slamming girl porn doesn't do it..I had to start watching like fantasy crap with 5 girls and 1 guy etc. Unrealistic real life situations.

So when I do bring home a girl to slam I am expecting this big fantasy. Then when she goes "umm I don't give head." and the usual crap you hear I guess I wasn't all in it. That still doesn't explain the past situations where it happens, it has to be the porno!


I am so far cold turkey, zero porn for 3 days. This has to be the problem.

No porn is the way boys?

 

[djthiago1]

Absolutelly no porn, i was addicted to it once, and after my ex ditched me i went back to it and i can't even get hard without it now. 3 days without porn and counting.

 

[Rainman4707]

Yeah man, cut out the porn. I think that's whats needed here coming from your last post

 

[GS750]

I quit using porn around August 2013. Once you get about 2 weeks in it gets easier. I viewed some about a week ago (no fap lol) and I found that it didn't even interest me anymore. Quit the porn. It does nothing good for you. Nerves could also be an issue (had that happen too) but if you're viewing porn daily that cant be good for ya.

 

[LiveYourDream]

The good news is you made the correlation for you, sooner rather than later, and are taking action.

Hopefully a vacation from porn will reboot your system, and with rock hard results.

Results alone will speak for themselves and will make it all worth it.