There will always be a large pool of DJ's and AFC's alike orbiting around HOT older women, but she will still seek out the DJ/Player. If she is HOT, guys will want to screw her. HOT women have their pick of the litter, that includes hot older women. They DO NOT settle for AFC's. As long as she's hot and stays hot, she will always seek out the Player for sex.
Let me tell you something. When I was an AFC, I still had difficulty pulling HOT older women. So, so much for AFC guys finding it easy to snag HOT older women.