Corey Wayne on Strippers

[bigneil]

I've been listening to Coach Corey Wayne a lot. Other than the Art of Seduction audio books his stuff is the best on youtube IMO.

His main points are:

"Feminine energy is about opening up to receive love".
"Scientific evidence shows that women like men whose feelings are unclear".
"Hang out, have fun, hook up".
"Only text to set up dates".
"Wait a week and set up an opportunity for sex to happen".
"You talked her out of liking you".

He really gets it.

Here is what he says on strippers. "I've dated strippers. Some of them are great girls. Some of them are the most f*cked up people you'll meet in your life. Sometimes there is chemistry".

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I've been listening to Coach Corey Wayne a lot. Other than the Art of Seduction audio books his stuff is the best on youtube IMO.

His main points are:

"Feminine energy is about opening up to receive love".
"Scientific evidence shows that women like men whose feelings are unclear".
"Hang out, have fun, hook up".
"Only text to set up dates".
"Wait a week and set up an opportunity for sex to happen".
"You talked her out of liking you".

He really gets it.

Here is what he says on strippers. "I've dated strippers. Some of them are great girls. Some of them are the most f*cked up people you'll meet in your life. Sometimes there is chemistry".

What's your opinion of them? What have been your experiences? How do you go about escalating from the initial 'transaction' phase, so to speak? You seem to have a penchant for them, so I'm genuinely interested....

 

[mrgoodstuff]

What's your opinion of them? What have been your experiences? How do you go about escalating from the initial 'transaction' phase, so to speak? You seem to have a penchant for them, so I'm genuinely interested....

I've been in that environment 20+ years. I've dated quite a few. You get the best deal with them when you don't make money the motivation. It will be like a "normal" gf who might do those things to get money on the side.

Strippers always have orbitters and other guys, they all might not be hitting... But she may have a main c0ck and a few that get a piece once every blue moon.

In my opinion they are terrible if they have been in that environment a couple years, say 2-3, they are basically a crime magnet.

Some people come in there and leave after a few months, like a "girls gone wild", these are normal females.

Ones who have been in there for a long time are heavy users of men. They will have you robbed.

But as Big Neil attests. Many "Hot Girls" run stripper game in their real life, they aren't strippers in a club, but may as well be, because the rulesets and shennagans are the same.

I dated a few bartenders out of there. They are usually nicer than the strippers, but bodies usually aren't as hot. But the one bartender in there I remember was very feminine and took good care of me.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

A stripper is a prostitute. Most of them have sex for money but even the normal course of business is a total disqualifier.

I know one former Hooters girl who turned out to literally be the best millennial woman I've ever met...so maybe have an open mind there.

A lot of them don't even have to have sex. They will propose the deal and if you give them the money first they can cut out on you and take your money.

But yeah they are crooks.

Which city was your hooters girl from?

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Interesting. I've certainly had some good times in strip bars with some really gorgeous women; clearly in some places, if you're willing to pay, you basically get what you want. I guess if you can find a decent one, it's probably not unlike dating many other women, at least in the short term.

Barmaids are almost too easy; bit of chat, buy them a drink for after work, leave your number. They always call the next day.

 

[bigneil]

What's your opinion of them? What have been your experiences? How do you go about escalating from the initial 'transaction' phase, so to speak? You seem to have a penchant for them, so I'm genuinely interested....

I love strippers. They are the most beautiful, most volatile, craziest and hardest to please women on Earth (next to boat b!tches who I've never got to talk to). If you can keep a girl that young, that beautiful, that wild, and that sought after happy you know you're doing something right. If they send you love letters months after you leave the state, you know you were one of the best men they met. If you don't get jealous of her doing the unspeakable for cash, what woman could ever get to you? They make us tempered glass (and they are themselves tempered - that is, they don't shatter from extreme temperature changes of hot and cold). More importantly, once you learn how to talk to them, you will be just as smooth with equally hot non-strippers. You learn what works. You shy away from what made them cringe. They almost always tell you your good points. Why? It comes off as more natural and they are trying to make you feel good about yourself. Some are love goddesses that can heal you with a hug (I realized that is what my girl does to avoid putting out). You do more of what made them swoon. Once they like you they tend to stay with you for 1+ years because they chose you out of 10,000 men. Finally, strippers allow you to get out of a slump the easy way - with cash. The key is to become a master of body language so you can outsmart them. They are pretending to like you. You must find the ones who really do like you, and they will be rare.

 

[GoodOne123]

Yh true. Though I've seen the fked up types much more than the good girl types tbh.

 

[bigneil]

Yh true. Though I've seen the fked up types much more than the good girl types tbh.

Yes, at a 98 (bad) to 2 (good) ratio. But 50 girls work every night.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

I have never met a "normal" stripper. Ever. And I have known many of them, and "dated" a few of them over the years. Not a normal girl in the bunch.

 

[raider87]

They are pretending to like you. You must find the ones who really do like you, and they will be rare.

How exactly do you game strippers? serious question

 

[mrgoodstuff]

How exactly do you game strippers? serious question

You start out being different by not gawking at them and not dropping a lot of money on them.

 

[bigneil]

How exactly do you game strippers? serious question

How to game strippers?

• Catch their eye. They have to remember who you are out of hundreds of people. That means you need to be the best dressed or tallest or best looking or most successful guy in the room.
• Be intelligent (most of them are immune to physical cues).
• Get lots of strippers at the club to think you are hot. They will only like guys they can brag to their friends about.
• Choose only ones you could fall in love with (it won't be worth the effort otherwise, and you won't hold her).
• Don't offer to pay any girls at the club for sex obviously (I imagine they will tell everyone what you offered though I've never done this).
• Spend as little time at the club with them as possible (if you are dating them, less than 5% of your time if any should be at the club).
• The first 1 or 2 times you sit with her, don't ask them to dance but throw her $60 - $100 to sit and talk to you.
• Get their number the first time you speak with them (or it's pretty much over - love at first sight is the rule).
• Never take them to VIP (or she will associate you with creepy guys who take her there).
• Romance her with text messages. From the first message be romantic. If she doesn't like it, drop her. She should say things like "I miss you, my love".
• (If necessary) offer to pay them one night's average pay to take weekend night off work and give them the time of their life and don't expect anything in return (but do kiss her goodnight). Ideally you will hire them for a legitimate freelance job as a model or for marketing under your business. So she will need to be classy.
• When you are together, make sure she considers it a date.
• If you have sex with her, make her have an orgasm.
• Remain generous, but tell her you aren't going to pay her every time (the moment of truth for those who played you that far).
• Be immune to her random fluctuations.

 

[zekko]

Catch their eye. They have to remember who you are out of hundreds of people. That means you need to be the best dressed or tallest or best looking or most successful guy in the room.

Be taller, guys

• The first 1 or 2 times you sit with her, don't ask them to dance but throw her $60 - $100 to sit and talk to you.
• Get their number the first time you speak with them

I'm just an observer here (I would never date a stripper. Maybe I'm selfish, but I don't like to share). But this is an interesting one-two punch. If she doesn't cough up her number, she can forget about any more "sit and talk" money.