Coquettish behavior.

[Maeisgood]

There is this girl who I know used to like me a couple years ago. Last year, going to college messed things up for me. A girl who was sort of friends with her told me this. This girl who told me is one of those who knows everything about everyone. The girl I liked is a flirt though. She also has a self-esteem probelm, even though she is popular.

The other day I saw her and we talked for a while. I noticed that she couldn't really look me in the eye for very long when we talked. I'm wondering if she felt shy around me because she still had feelings for me. She sort of had that nervous face she had when she asked me to prom in eleventh grade. I just got this werid feeling after our encounter that I could possibly have a shot with her again.

If I asked her to go somewhere with me, she'd say yes. I only have three months to try something. My biggest probelm with her is that I know she's a flirt and a flatterer. I don't know how to deal with those kinds of people. Any opinions?

 

[TheSplat]

First off, that is NOT coquettish behavior. Coquettish behavior is when a girl is deliberately hot/cold to you. She is just nervous and likes you.



Only have 3 months to try something? By 3 months, you should be sick of her.


Here's how you deal with her behavior.

Ask her out
Kiss her
Take off her clothes

 

[Maeisgood]

She seems to flatter everyone I see at parties and is like a flirt.

If a girl cannot hold eye contact for long, I'm wondering what it means. I heard that they are supposed to be the ones intimidated by us, not the other way around. Real men make women feel that the man is in control and stuff... I've listened to the CDs from David DeAngelo. I'm just wondering what to do. I'm wondering if there is reason to suspect that she may like me and what to do with that.

 

[Maeisgood]

How do you deal with a girl who is a flirt?

 

[S1NN3R]

I have nothing to say regarding your situation, I just thought I'd mention that I'm impressed that someone on this board knows what "coquettish" means.

 

[dannowillbookem]

I have nothing to say regarding your situation, I just thought I'd mention that I'm impressed that someone on this board knows what "coquettish" means.

lol i didnt until now

 

[TheSplat]

How do you deal with a girl who is a flirt?

Usually, you flirt back.

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

doesn't matter, get her on a few dates and you will find out for yourself.

 

[Maeisgood]

She's just one of those people who flirts and flatters alot. Its so hard to tell when people like that mean anything. How do you deal with girls like that? Or even guys who are flatterers?

 

[Maeisgood]

So no one else in this forum wants to know about how to deal with girls who are total flirts?

Everyone knows a girl who is a huge flirt, yet there are guys out there who are able to tag them.

Other than "ignoring her" or "playing hard to get," what are these guys doing to them?

I've read this forum, read the bible, and I'd listen to David DeAngelo's tapes. All are good. Its worked for me on girls I'm not into. How do I make it work on the flirty ones?