A lot of what the site claims about older women doesn’t seem to exist beyond this site as lots of older women don’t have problems meeting men. Maybe those men aren’t 20yr olds but this doesn’t seem to bother older women that much.
They don’t crawl under a rock with their 17 cats and die, once they hit 40 lol. Well one woman I know kind of did that, but she has a very bad attitude and I think men avoid her mostly because she is negative and doesn’t make an effort to look decent.
But focal core is right that if a man wants to have a have a family, younger fertile women are obviously more ideal for that.
But sexual appeal can exist for both older women and older men IF they take care of their bodies, appearances and lead healthy styles so they don’t age prematurely.
I find that people who don’t take care of themselves tend to look the worst as they age. Being fat, bad diet, smoking, excessive alcohol use or other drug use etc.
Love seeing older fit men and women because it’s inspiring and refreshing, but it is delusional for anyone to think that they will be just as sexually attractive as a fit 55 as they were as a fit 25. But that doesn’t mean they are not attractive at all.
Money and resources are attractive provider qualities, but that kind of attraction is not the same as sexual attraction.
Nothing trumps sexual attraction in terms of how willing she will be to be in your frame and how happy she will be to stay in it.
So saying men are more attractive when they get older and establish wealth, that’s not sexual attraction. That’s women attracted to what he can do for her, which, according to many guys here, is what you all are trying to avoid - being in a provider role.