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This is a difficult question: do you prefer cool girls od hot women?:)
 

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i give a slight edge to coolness over looks... i'll be the first to admit i often go for looks... but the lady i'm really trying for now.. thats pretty much based on personality.. her looks are alright, but her personality has me hooked

lets not jinx things though
 

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tsmith2334 said:
... but the lady i'm really trying for now.. thats pretty much based on personality.. her looks are alright, but her personality has me hooked
You said yourself that her looks is allright. It is allright to try for a lady whose looks is allright even if it is pretty much based on personality.:)
 

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Of course it is, if a guy is looking for a long term kinda girl and is not just looking to fool around, alot of guys are willing to sacrafice some of the looks for a good personality. ultimitaly a guy wants to find a girl with both, the looks and personality.
Just like tsmith said, im also going out with a girl who has me hooked on her personality. Luckily shes got the looks too, but im willing to say that even if her looks faded a bit, id still be willing to go out with her cause her personality.
 

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hot women cuz all girls act the same - they turn into b*tches after you get to know them

i once sacraficed looks for personality. dated her for two years and she was mean and did ****ed up things. she used to be the coolest/nicest girl when i first met her. when i saw how she transformed, i dumped her. now the way i see it is that i might as well get a hot girl who is a b-tch than an ugly one.
 

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Gustav Yavo said:
Just like tsmith said, im also going out with a girl who has me hooked on her personality. Luckily shes got the looks too, but im willing to say that even if her looks faded a bit, id still be willing to go out with her cause her personality.
CORVETTE06 said:
i once sacraficed looks for personality. dated her for two years and she was mean and did ****ed up things. she used to be the coolest/nicest girl when i first met her. when i saw how she transformed, i dumped her. now the way i see it is that i might as well get a hot girl who is a b-tch than an ugly one.
Luckily she got the looks. Puting personality before looks is really a sacrafice. She would be mean to you and never will treat you the way you deserve because she is the one who does not deserve you.
 

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like i said, even though personality is the deciding factor, i'd like her to look good too, she has to be presentable atleast (so... a 6 i guess?)

my standards might not be so high if i didn't think i was good looking enough and deserved someone who is equally attractive (or close). there needs to be some sort of mutual attraction. personality will seal the deal/ keep me interested however
 

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tsmith2334 said:
like i said, even though personality is the deciding factor, i'd like her to look good too, she has to be presentable atleast (so... a 6 i guess?)

my standards might not be so high if i didn't think i was good looking enough and deserved someone who is equally attractive (or close). there needs to be some sort of mutual attraction. personality will seal the deal/ keep me interested however
You are right tsmith2334 to look for somebody good looking enough and equally attractive (or close) to yourself. That is what mating is all about. A dog would mate a ***** and a cat a female from its own kind. They would not mate to each other but look for individuals from theri own kind. The same goes to people. Everybody wants somebody alike himself. If he is pretty he would appreciate looks, if he is rich he would put money over everything else.
Personality will seal the deal/ keep you interested however. :)
 

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cyberlady said:
You are right tsmith2334 to look for somebody good looking enough and equally attractive (or close) to yourself. That is what mating is all about. A dog would mate a ***** and a cat a female from its own kind. They would not mate to each other but look for individuals from theri own kind. The same goes to people. Everybody wants somebody alike himself. If he is pretty he would appreciate looks, if he is rich he would put money over everything else.
Personality will seal the deal/ keep you interested however. :)
ah ha yea thanks :)

see i know the right things to say, i got the right attitude and i know what to do (my advice on this site is usually pretty helpful), i just gotta get better at living it myself
 

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tsmith2334 said:
ah ha yea thanks :)

see i know the right things to say, i got the right attitude and i know what to do (my advice on this site is usually pretty helpful), i just gotta get better at living it myself
So, are you in a relationship or maybe married? :)
 

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So, are you in a relationship or maybe married? :)
Ahaha, no...

I have the look and the sense to do it, I just gotta get my skills up to par and take some risks
 

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tsmith2334 said:
Ahaha, no...

I have the look and the sense to do it, I just gotta get my skills up to par and take some risks
Me neither. See, I know the right things to say, I got the right attitude and I know what to do, but I just got to get better at living it myself. I am single for long time and I am desperate but I will not settle for anything less. I will not go out every evening with a different guy not worth my shoes and suck his di*k in his old car.
 
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